Money and marriage, the amp of personality shadows

Do feelings really not stand the test of money? This is by no means the fault of money, let alone the fault of marriage. Money and marriage are amplifiers that amplify and present the shadow of personality in the depths of one's subconscious.

If you are not married, you can only live in a social image. Once married, your partner will clearly see your shadow personality, personality weaknesses, and narrow-mindedness at the bottom.

When you don't have money, your character problems are not obvious, or you don't have the opportunity to show them, your strength is small, and the harm is small. Once you have a lot of money, all the shortcomings are exposed and magnified.

Buffett said: "From the billionaires I know, money only shows them their true nature. If they're a jerk when they don't have money, they're still an asshole after they have a billion dollars. ”

In intimate relationships, it's easy to have a sense of superiority over money, or a sense of humility in money. Along with the sense of superiority comes the strong and controlling, and with the sense of humility comes uneasiness and flattery.

If the sense of value and power is insufficient, they will bind their own value and money.

Hooking up with external objects will materialize oneself. When it's useful, when it's making a lot of money, when it's pretty, when it's healthy, when it's smart... Love yourself, and vice versa, you are full of judgment and disgust. Therefore, if you can't give yourself unconditional love, and you can't give your partner unconditional love, your feelings for your other half will be full of calculations.

What affects marriage is not money, but the emotional, suspicious, irritable, and rough attitude to life in your own personality that you never see. It is the values and outlook on life that you recognize.