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I am 29 years old and run my own spicy hot snack department in our local area.
In fact, I was also in the snack business, and I didn't want to do this at the beginning. I majored in hotel management in college, so after graduation I always wanted to be like the hotel elite in the TV series.
But the longer I've been in the hotel business, the more I feel like I'm not a good fit. The workload of the hotel is very large, and the time arrangement of morning and evening shifts is very unscientific.
Such high-intensity work and irregular life caused my physical condition to deteriorate.
When I was less than 25 years old, I found that I had many unqualified indicators during the physical examination in the hospital.
In desperation, I chose to go back to my hometown to start a business.
In fact, I have always had the idea of starting a business, and I always feel that no matter how big my business is, as long as it is my own business, I must stick to it.
After returning home, I thought about my own way of starting a business according to my various conditions.
I can't afford to open a large restaurant, which will cost a lot of manpower and material resources.
Thinking left and right, in our third-tier cities, we can make money, the investment is not large, and there are not many snacks loved by the people, and spicy hot can bear the brunt of it.
Our spicy hot sauce here is the traditional skewer incense, but the price of each skewer is very beautiful, and you can help yourself to mix small ingredients, which attracts a large number of diners.
It was because I was the ultimate lover of spicy hot that I decided to make my own spicy hot snack department.
With the help of friends and family, I managed to find a small store, and after a simple renovation, it was put into normal operation.
Since my ingredients are genuine, the price and service of each string are very in place, so I gradually have repeat customers and good reputation.
Business is getting better and better, but my emotional road is very bumpy.
Whenever I close the stalls, I look at the empty streets and think about how nice it would be to have someone by my side at this moment.
It's not that I don't want to find someone, it's that my ex-girlfriend hurt me too much.
My ex-girlfriend and I were already very acquainted in middle school.
My ex-girlfriend and I were neighbors, and we used to go to and from school together in middle school.
The budding of adolescence made me feel a huge crush on my ex-girlfriend, and I set myself a goal that I would marry her home in the future.
Time flies quickly, and a few years of secondary school life are fleeting.
My ex-girlfriend and I were lucky enough to get into the same university and study in the same major.
At that time, I thought, maybe we are really a destined couple.
But when we actually fell in love together in college, I found that we actually had a lot of differences.
This difference comes from personality in the first and from ordinary habits in the first place.
I can understand the habits of life, and I can accept them, but I really can't accept the problem of personality.
The ex-girlfriend is the well-behaved girl that everyone knows, she does not have any opinions herself, and listens to everything at home.
In my opinion, her attitude towards her parents has reached its extreme state. For example, if one day there were dense blades outside and her mother asked her to risk her life to buy a bun, she would not hesitate to agree.
Eventually, this personality continues on our emotional path. Since we were neighbors, his dad and I were also very familiar with each other, but that didn't add to our mutual affection. On the contrary, his father always thought I was an unreliable boy.
So, driven by his dad, she and her mom and their family were fiercely opposed to our relationship.
What chilled me the most was the indecisive attitude of my ex-girlfriend. She neither defended me once, nor did she express her firm will with the family.
This hesitation eventually led us in two directions. Less than two years after we fell in love, we officially parted ways.
Even after so many years of separation, I still can't forget the bits and pieces with her.
After all, the love affair of the student years is the purest and most beautiful, and it is also a special stage of my infinite reverie for future marriages.
On the path of my emotions, she planted a seed deeply. But it was hard to blossom and bear fruit, but she chose to leave with the fruit.
Even now that it's been so long, I still have a trance attitude. I always felt like she would come back and get back together with me, though I knew it was very unrealistic.
My friends advised me to hurry back to the human world and stop doing these senseless fantasies, so they introduced me to the objects one by one.
But I either directly refused, or directly blocked after meeting, in short, I did not succeed once.
Wait a minute, I'm sure I'll find someone I want.
Unexpectedly, the turning point in my life came quickly.
That day, after lunch, I decided to go to the supermarket. I bought a lot of ingredients from the supermarket this time, including beer, potato chips, and a variety of snacks that I like to eat.
But when it came time to check out, something unexpected happened.
I had clearly checked out all my goods and got a small ticket to the supermarket, but every time I passed the exit, the supermarket alarm kept ringing.
The people in the back of the line all gave me strange eyes. I was helpless and confused, and I still had a strange noise when I returned to the silver table and went out.
"Excuse me sir, do you still have unchecked items?" The cashier smiled and said to me.
"You've seen it, all my merchandise is here, and it's already settled." I hurried to explain.
"But our machine can't have a problem, you're missing something, I suggest you check it again." The girl's professionalism is still very good, and she is smiling at me the whole time, and there is no dissatisfaction.
"I don't have unchecked items, I've already checked out, and there must be something wrong with your machine." I was a little angry at this point.
"I'm sorry sir, let our manager come and talk to you, I'll let the customers behind me check out first." The girl motioned for me to wait at the exit.
"Why should I wait? Why! Obviously, there is a problem with your machine! "I picked up my goods and angrily tried to leave.
"Oh, sir, how can you do this!" Don't run until things are clear! The girl also chased out of the cash register at this time.
The anger in my heart was ignited at this moment!
In this way, the two of us mixed our mouths one by one, and the manager rushed to our side after hearing the news.
After tossing and turning for half an hour, sure enough, there was a problem with the supermarket machine.
The supermarket manager angrily rebuked the cashier girl, saying that she handled the problem improperly and affected the customer's consumption experience.
The girl cried bitterly, "Obviously it is a supermarket regulation, and this kind of problem cannot let customers go." ”
The supermarket's treatment of me is still good, because it is the supermarket's own fault, the supermarket compensated me with a 200 yuan voucher, I am very satisfied.
But this girl kept crying, and I couldn't bear to see it.
"I'm sorry, I was a little too anxious just now." I invite you to dinner, don't get angry. I said softly to the girl.
The girl didn't say anything, just looked up at me and nodded.
Probably this sentence is the most important sentence in my life, and it is because of this sentence that I have met my current wife.
After we separated at the supermarket that day, we added WeChat to each other, and then we went to eat hot pot together.
In the process of eating, we all had a very happy conversation with each other, and the unpleasantness of that day had long been forgotten.
Later, we developed very quickly.
We watch movies together, we go to the playground together, we travel south together.
That day, I invited her to eat my elaborate spicy hot sauce, and she pretended to be mysterious and said, "You are missing a taste of spicy hot sauce." ”
"You still know how to cook, so what are you telling me is missing?" I asked incomprehensibly.
"It lacks the flavor of love, but now you have it." She looked at me and said affectionately.
In this way, we officially became a couple. Two years later, with the blessings of our friends and family, we walked hand in hand into the temple of marriage.
By the way, my snack department has changed its name to "Super Love Spicy Hot".
"Super love" represents the love that my wife and I have unfolded in the supermarket, and it also represents the hope that everyone can get more than 100% of love.
This is my love story.
At the end of this article, the author Xi Han, thank you for reading.