Wen 丨 Xuan Xiaolei, Figure 丨 Network
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Feng Xi, the male protagonist of "Tonight and Tonight", was promoted to the position of Rebbe Shangshu within a few episodes. There is a big house in the family, and there is no shortage of money or power.
There was also a gentle lady in the house, who always wore a bare-shoulder shirt and looked okay. At first, I thought it was his main room, but later I found out that Mrs. Rou had lived in his house for many years, but he did not have a round house with others, and there was no fact of marriage.
And also told Mrs. Rouge, if you have a good place to go, I will not delay you. He also said that you don't have to serve me, just let the next person come.
These words and deeds of keeping a distance are nothing more than because they do not love. And after I met my true love Winter Moon, this kind of words and deeds of keeping a distance is more and more diligent.
Comparing Lady Narou with Dongyue, who is better for him Feng Xi? Of course, Lady Rouge, at least got along longer, and had more opportunities to be good to him.
More importantly, Lady Rou certainly did not harm Feng Xi, but Dong Yue initially took him as an enemy and stood against him. Sometimes I had to lean over to the side of the Three Highnesses, making it look like I was standing on two boats.
Sometimes he had to get angry with Feng Xi, or scare him a few times, or give him a cold reception, or do something to make him angry and jealous.
However, if you like a person, you will be angry with him, you will be emotionally fluctuating because of him, and if you don't like it, it doesn't matter how you treat me.
Accompanying Dongyue with Dongyue when he was a child, that is, Wenxin, Wenxin deliberately fed him a lotus seed, and suddenly looked stuck.
It seems that there was a tragic experience when I was a child, losing my parents, only my sister, I have suffered a lot together, and I also remember the suffering of Lotus, so when I grow up, I am afraid of that, and I never want to eat Lotus.
Leaning into the arms of the winter moon, he said, "Life is really hard, but I only have you such a little sweetness." “
After listening to it, I felt that he was indeed a bit bitter, on the surface he was a traitor, always scolded by people, always not understood, even his favorite Dongyue always thought he was a bad person, and often had to divide into two factions with him.
But he did this for nothing more than some planning, revenge or self-preservation, but also to protect his sister who was a noble concubine in the palace, and did not want to be bullied again.
It is the kind of psychology that I had a bad experience when I was a child, and when I grew up, I did whatever it took or tried to make myself and my loved ones better.
On the surface, he looks like a cynical bad guy, but in private he is not like this, so it is inevitable that there will be many times of force or reluctance, and there will be many times of disobedience.
Therefore, to say that he is bitter in life is indeed bitter. But looking at his current situation, he is not bitter and happier than many people.
If we talk about material things, there is no shortage of power. If you say that you have a wife, a lover, a woman, he can not lack. There is no shortage of loyal followers, his fans.
Therefore, he is not particularly bitter. For example, Lady Rou and Dao Le are all people around him who are good to him, how can they say that they only have winter moons and "this little sweet"?
Isn't this a bit of a pretense, but many people will have this kind of pretense, and there are more people around us, or we will be such people.
Outsiders seem to have a prosperous business, a prosperous career, all kinds of pomp and circumstance, all kinds of good family situations, on the surface, very beautiful, many people envy, they may privately say to the people who communicate with them: "In fact, I am very lonely, in fact, I am very tired, in fact, I want to escape, in fact, I am not happy at all..."
Well, you are still powerless to refute, maybe they are really tired, but they also have a lot of ah, may be luxury cars, villas, food, travel, spend endless money, this is not what many people want to have?
But he still felt bitter, why? Is it really bitter, or is it because they want too much? Or what they want most hasn't been gotten yet?
Just like Feng Xi, he said such things to Dongyue, but at that time he only loved Dongyue, and Dongyue was an extremely important person to him, and he didn't feel sweet about other things in his life.
Even if the things themselves were supposed to be sweet, he couldn't taste the sweetness, he didn't feel sweet, he only thought that the winter moon was sweet.
If you want to understand, you can also understand and understand. But from another point of view, if you want to talk about sentimentality, it can indeed be called temperament.
For example, the displaced civilians at that time, the disaster victims who could not survive, the poor who suffered, the people who could not afford to eat, had to be more miserable than him?
Just saying that is a bit unfair, like not making people who seem to be rich and well mixed up upset, not making them feel bitter.
In fact, whether it is a person who cannot eat or a person who cannot finish eating, there is suffering, but the suffering of each person is different. Or at a certain stage, at a certain position, there will be corresponding suffering.
But sweet, too, follows, saying that there is no sweetness at all, or "only a little sweetness", that is their own problem.
After all, no matter what situation you live in, if you want to find some sweetness, you can also find it.
Just look at how high your approval of this "sweet" is, too demanding, or your heart is full of bitterness, that may not be sweet at all.
Just like Feng Xi, there are actually many sweetness in his life, but he doesn't feel sweet, and he only feels sweet after encountering the winter moon.
Of course, these eighty percent are just the love words he said to Dongyue, the basic skills of the master of seduction.
Because he said that he was bitter in front of Dongyue, most of the time he would be soft and bitter, so that he would be more heartbroken and he loved him more, which was the purpose of him saying such inaccurate words.
Most women eat this set, feeling that a man is either suffering or heartache before he meets himself.
And when he appeared in his life, he was immediately happy, not bitter, so he felt his own importance and sense of value, his personal charm, and at the same time deepened the psychology that "staying with this person is a mission and sense of responsibility".
Therefore, if the other party makes you less down-to-earth and your character needs to be discovered, be careful not to be confused by this kind of love words.