preface:
There is a saying that goes well: "A thousand years of cultivation can be crossed by the same boat, and a hundred years of cultivation can sleep together." ”
It is a very big fate that two people meet in the vast sea of people and can be married.
How many times in the past life to look back in exchange for the fate of this life, so it is not easy to manage a relationship.
The extinction of the origin of a marriage is not an overnight thing, but a continuous accumulation in life.
Slowly the two of them were already showing obvious signs.
Many couples will choose to complain about each other after they can't live a long time, never thinking about what is wrong.
A good marriage needs to be managed, not a contradictory fermentation.
Men and women, if you want to live happily, you must learn to operate.
This life is a long journey, and the husband and wife are a very special relationship.
Two people from acquaintance to acquaintance to love, is the result of a fate.
However, when the husband and wife stay together in the life of chai rice oil and salt, they find that there are too many problems that are not expected.
As a result, the feelings between two people will become more and more light, and the contradictions between husband and wife will become more and more.
Many times the fate between husband and wife is exhausted, and there are traces to follow, don't pay attention to it.
It is precisely because they do not pay attention to the slowness of the two people will become cold, and finally they can only be completely confused and broken.
If you can find out earlier, it is a good choice to choose the right medicine.
Two people together is not an easy task, and not everyone can be lucky to go on.
For two people, being able to come together is a kind of fate, and not being able to go together may be the end of fate.
So feelings are not a tough thing, and once each other's hearts are not together, it is difficult to continue.
In fact, when the feelings reach such a state, they have entered a deadlock.
1. Frequent quarrels because of small things
The two personnel have improved, in fact, there are traces to follow, do not ignore it.
Many times two people are separated because of the accumulation of various small things, because small things can clearly see a person's attitude.
The more noisy the feelings, the weaker, and if they are not resolved in time, they will also make two people very tired.
If you don't care about anything, only consider your own feelings and care about your own intentions, then it will be difficult for this relationship to go on.
No matter how good the feelings are, they can't avoid quarrels, so couples who can go on will definitely choose to tolerate each other.
So when two people argue frequently for an hour instead of seriously settling it out to me,
It is difficult for this relationship to continue for a long time.
2. Indifference to each other
We all know good feelings, two people together, must be like glue,
No matter what happens, the first thing you want to share with each other is the first time.
When you are happy, you can be happy together, and when you are sad, two people can support each other.
Such feelings can make two people closer and closer inside.
But we need to know that even the best feelings eventually return to blandness,
When both people start to go their separate ways and don't pay attention to each other's joys and sorrows, it is necessary to re-examine the relationship.
If you still want to continue between two people, you must reflect on the problems between two people that you have confirmed.
If it is not solved, two people will become the most familiar strangers for a long time, and it is difficult to reconcile feelings.
3. Don't say anything to each other
We people want to find the other half in this life, because we can have someone to accompany us when we are old.
The other half is also the person closest to us. He is also his own confidant,
Many couples like to share their things with each other at the beginning,
But thinking that the other party does not understand and do not care, slowly do not want to share with the other party.
Therefore, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, they must open their hearts and tell each other their hearts.
You must also be good at being a listener, so that the relationship between each other will get better and better.
We have to know that there are never really good two people in this world, only two stars that want to be together.
The contradictions and quarrels between two people together do not matter if you take medicine sincerely, there is nothing that cannot be resolved.
Conclusion:
Every time I believe in a relationship, I think I can go on hand,
No one wants to part ways halfway.
When two people are separated, there will be signs not to be foolish not to know.
It is inevitable that there will be all kinds of contradictions between husband and wife, and we have no way of predicting what will happen in the future.
Contradictions are all made from small things to large, and when problems are encountered, they must be solved and not accumulated, otherwise two people will quarrel.
In my opinion, good feelings are actually mutual achievements, mutual help,
If the other person really did something unforgivable then we can choose a dashing breakup.
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References | Journal of consulting and clinical psychology