Yesterday, my best friend had a wedding.
She and I were high school classmates, after the first year of high school, we were not in the same class, but just next door, I had a good relationship with her, I often went to their class to play, and she often came to play in our class. I still remember going to their class between classes to sneak up on that little mahjong, hahaha...
Like many girlfriends, we have had many, many agreements when we grow up. For example, if you get married, I will send you an oversized red envelope, come, this word is proof; I want to be the mother of your child; if we both have children, if it is a man and a woman, we will marry each other; when we grow up, we will travel together...
When we both filled in the college entrance examination, we filled in exactly the same volunteers, the same school, the same major. Coincidentally, the college entrance examination scores of our two seemed to be the same.
However, I ran away. I chose to re-read, in fact, I don't know why I made this decision, but suddenly one day I told my parents, told her, and informed everyone. Then I packed my bags and went to make-up school.
Since then, we have had less contact. One was living in college, one was in high school, and we were on two parallel lines on the road, and at some intersection, I suddenly turned a corner and then went farther and farther.
Even though I went to college later, we didn't have much contact with each other, and the number of meetings we saw could be counted with my fingers. Maybe, the circle is different.
However, in the past two years, because of the same city, our contact has increased again.
After a few meals and out for a walk. Some time ago, it was popular to set up a stall, and we also went to see the venue together, but then I felt that the competition was too big and the cost was too high, so I gave up.
Friends who come and go around, the friendship that can really be precipitated is really very little, and there are good ones, but because we come from all over the world, the trajectory of life is also attributed to the world, and there are fewer people who have been in touch.
When I was a student, it was too simple to make friends with one person, it was friends who copied each other's homework, friends who went to the toilet together after class, and friends who liked the same star.
However, when we grew up and the social roles continued to change, these friends were inexplicably scattered.
The first point of division – the university.
After the college entrance examination, eating and drinking, everyone embraces the reluctant friendship, each other goes to different cities, the difference in time and space, no matter how good friends, the relationship between each other will gradually change from friends to familiar strangers.
In the information bar can no longer type: "Dog, come out to play...".
Then, they became more and more polite to each other.
Second split point – work.
After work, there are really too few topics to talk about. When I went to school, after all, I could complain about my roommates and teachers, what can I talk about now?
The content of the work between friends is completely different, the career planning is also very different, and I don't know the people you like and hate now. In addition to chewing on the past repeatedly, barely maintaining the sentiment of liking, it seems that there is nothing to say.
We can no longer enter each other's lives because we can't really empathize, but more blindly complain about our own lives.
The third point of division – marriage.
After starting a family, there are too many things to worry about. Chai rice oil and salt, human exchanges, these trivialities occupy all the leisure time.
And the focus of everyone's life will change a lot. After marriage, life is all family and children, and perhaps even time can not be separated from small talk with old friends, let alone time to discuss poetry and distant places with friends.
My good friend's husband, whom I've met a few times, is nice to her and is also very polite. He met when she was in college, and he went through the cracks and finally came together.
Life is sometimes made up of many trivial pieces, and I have heard her complaints and seen her happiness.
Originally, their wedding was on the eighth day of the first lunar month this year, but because the epidemic was not held as scheduled, it was postponed to now.
Because of the special nature of my work, I was sorry not to be able to take a leave of absence. There is always too much helplessness in adult life, and it always backfires.
The promises of the past are snapping in the face, and the enthusiasm of the teenager is finally engulfed by reality.
Fortunately, I haven't lost her yet. Going around, we can still talk about good friends in heaven.
We've made an appointment, and when I'm done with this, we'll go to haidilao together.
Life goes on, friendships continue!
Finally, here are good wishes, may their new marriage be happy, the future days are all good, life can be expected!
Author's Bio: I am eleven, sharing what I have thought and learned.