Talking about the standards of friends, the problem of borrowing money between friends, many people may have something to say.
Recently, in the new issue of "Round Table Pie", Mr. Ma Weidu's words about his friends borrowing money are really emotional, and even Dou Wentao almost dropped his jaw.
The theme of this issue of Round Table Pie is socializing. When it comes to socializing, it is inevitable to talk about personal circles of friends, the distance of friends, and the standards of friends.
Ma Weidu said that there are more social opportunities now and he will deal with many people, but not many can be called friends. For example, a person who rubs shoulders with ten thousand people in his lifetime, and who has intersected with you, can sit down to eat and eat, and talk to no more than a thousand people. Among this thousand people, there will not be more than a hundred people who can have a deeper understanding of the relationship, and the remaining ten of this hundred people are good friends who can be deeply friends, such as people who can borrow money.
When talking about the standard of borrowing money, Ma Weidu specifically said: "It's not that I lack two hundred yuan and you borrow me, but I am now short of two million, and you can call a few people." Borrowing these two million, and being unsecured, should not exceed ten people. ”
Hearing this, the host Here Dou Wentao opened his eyes and chin widely, and asked in surprise: "Ma Ye, what about you ten?" I don't have any. ”
I believe that many people's reactions will be the same as Dou Wentao.
And surely many people will shout versailles at the same time, the brush brush in their brains continues to flash such as:
Ma Yun, who is not interested in money; Liu Qiangdong, who is blind in the face and does not know the beauty of his wife; Ma Huateng, who is an ordinary person, but my house is bigger; Wang Jianlin, who earns a hundred million yuan to achieve small goals first; Wang Sicong, who does not care about whether he has money or not, anyway, he does not have money; He is not afraid of noisy neighbors because jay Chou, who has no neighbors; Sabine, who is also OK at Peking University; Aaron Kwok, who does not feel that he is a handsome man, and so on.
Indeed, why do these people have such a statement, and say it so naturally. Is it really the same world, different lives. Human sorrow and joy are not connected.
In addition to sighing, think about it seriously, it is not a Versailles joke can be summarized, envy, jealousy and hatred have no meaning.
Because we have to admit that the people who say these things are excellent, they are all successful people. No matter what kind of coincidence they have experienced, they have developed step by step from small to large, and the reason why they have today's achievements is certainly not because they do not know the sufferings of the world, are separated from the bottom, and stare at the blind and talk nonsense. It has to do with their vision, mind, cognition and way of doing things.
It is precisely the difference in vision, mind, and cognition that makes them often have amazing deeds, often speak deaf and deaf words, and achieve achievements beyond ordinary people.
Recently, Guo Degang also made a similar statement in an interview. The reporter asked him that the Deyun society, which was valued at 2 billion, would not be listed, and Guo Degang said that he did not consider listing, he was not interested in money, why should he want 2 billion?
Many people also said that Guo Degang had drifted when they heard it. In fact, I think Guo Degang has always been very sober, he said this is not that he does not love money, but he wants to earn the money he should earn, the so-called gentleman loves money, there is a way to get it. Therefore, although his business territory is getting bigger and bigger, he has always been familiar with the areas that he is good at like and can control.
Musk became the new world's richest man the other day. After learning the news, he said lightly: "Okay, go back to work", which also made many people very hurt, and they said that Versailles had reached a new height.
But if you think about it, it wouldn't be them without saying that.
Maybe the real level is different, the environment is different, the circle of friends is different, and the perception is different. But believing that logic and reason are the same.
Of course, friends are certainly not simply measured in terms of money. But I believe that it is not a family that does not enter the door, everyone's circle of friends is your own reflection.
If you bloom, the butterflies will come.
The life of others is the life of others, and their own life depends on their own hands to create. The world's richest man is still working hard, and I and other mortals should not be pretentious, and it is important to quickly bow their heads and move bricks.