Author - Sunshine Parents College - Orange Red Shawn
At the 2020 Tokyo Olympic Games, China's table tennis team achieved another good result, ending with a record of 4 gold and 3 silver, single-packed championships and runners-up, and the group achieved four consecutive championships, making China's sports industry climb to another peak. Table tennis as a national ball, for many Chinese people, the memory of it began with Deng Yaping's generation. Born in 1973, Deng Yaping has won 14 world championships and 4 Olympic championships in her 14 years of sports, and she has occupied the top position in the WORLD Women's Table Tennis Federation for 8 years, and is deservedly known as the "first generation of the Devil". In 1992 and 1996, she won two gold medals in women's singles and doubles in two consecutive Olympic Games, making her the first chinese to win four Olympic gold medals and the longest-running female athlete in table tennis history to be ranked "world number one". After retiring from the military, Deng Yaping, from a table tennis sister to a Tsinghua undergraduate to a Cambridge doctorate; from politics, business, teaching, cross-border hosting interviews; the transformation of various identities, let us see her retirement without "fading" diversified life. In 2006, Deng Yaping's son Lin Hanming was born. Under the aura of the much-anticipated champion mother, what is Lin Hanming's growth path like?
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Influenced by his mother, his son practiced table tennis from an early age and won the Beijing Youth Table Tennis Championship at the age of 14.
Just when Deng Yaping was happy, she thought that she was going to have someone to follow.
Unexpectedly, like all contemporary teenagers, my son fell in love with games and even had the idea of being an e-sports anchor full-time.
At that time, Deng Yaping's first reaction was not to oppose, but to ask her son curiously:
Why do you want to play games?
Because I play well and can take them to the points.
How well is it to play?
After the mother and son chatted, Deng Yaping found that the best result of her son playing the game was not only the king, but also the eighth in Beijing!
Woohoo! Worthy of my son! Deng Yaping said to her son:
E-sports can win the world championship is also a world champion, if you can really reach that height, then it is also very honorable.
Although she said this on the lips, in fact, Deng Yaping's heart was also bottomless: do you really want to support her son to take this road?
In order to solve the doubts in the heart, Deng Yaping personally went to the two most famous top e-sports clubs in the country to personally understand the situation and analyze how they trained, how they worked and rested, and how they were selected with a professional attitude.
This time, she was serious.
Deng Yaping's achievements after practical investigation can even support her to be a guest at the 2020 Global E-sports Leaders Summit and deliver a complete speech - "Seeing China's Competitive Spirit in the International Arena".
She said that both traditional sports and e-sports are competitive sports because they are international languages that do not require translation:
I hope that Chinese e-sports can also show the competitive spirit of Chinese players to the world like table tennis.
Pattern open ~
Worthy of the arrogance and vision of the world champion, I don't know that I thought Deng Yaping was going to enter the e-sports world
However, the high-energy reversal came. Just when she was ready to let her son give it a go, his son backed down.
It turns out that e-sports players have to train for twelve hours a day, which is much more tiring than practicing table tennis.
In fact, e-sports not only need talent, but also need day-to-day training, constantly playing training matches, reviewing, tactical analysis...
This has to suffer, but it is no less than playing table tennis.
And all this is something he has never known and experienced before when playing games.
In the end, this two-generation value struggle, fueled by Deng Yaping's "divine operation", helped her son to more clearly understand his future direction and complete a self-exploration growth.
epilogue:
When you have not really understood the value of things, please do not rush to deny its value;
When the child is not yet firm in his own life path, please give him the right to choose freely;
A little less toughness on the field and a little more softness of "respecting children".
What impressed me most about Deng Yaping was not her inspirational and successful experience.
But as a champion mother with countless dazzling titles and resources,
But he did not use the authority of the superior to suppress the child,
On the contrary, more humble, more enlightened,
Willing to think differently for the sake of the child's dream, bend into the game, and wait for the flowers to bloom,
Children's growth naturally comes naturally.
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