"Simple and fast", "the most important is convenient", "inappropriate to run immediately", "done on the line" seems to have become the living standard of contemporary young people, everything is pursuing a fast pace of low cost, the pursuit of low investment and fast return of efficient output ratio.
It is no wonder that with the faster and faster pace of contemporary society, almost crowded with work other than sleep time, just to survive has spent most of the energy, other things, of course, the less you can spend as much thought as possible.
However, in this constant pursuit of survival speed, it is increasingly difficult to understand what kind of life you want.
In this year, it is easy to meet the person who is in love, but it is difficult to meet true love.
After all, after being hurt, cheated on, and rejected many times, either no one wants to spend time running love anymore, or they feel tired when they mention the word "love."
That feels like a very hot paragraph on Weibo:
Regarding the matter of love, I need to tell him about my life experience of more than twenty years from beginning to end, I need to tell him what my preferences and taboos are, I need to understand his habits and personality, I need two people with their own personality and temperament, and slowly grind into suitable people, which is too complicated.
So in order to avoid trouble, some people choose to separate sex and love directly, thinking that it is easy to talk about sex, and talking about love is too troublesome; some people will also meet the heartthrob again, but after the passion of strong hormones has passed away and face the chai rice oil and salt of life, they still feel "forget it".
Before chatting with a female friend, she directly said that she used to use her life to talk about love, and every relationship wanted to end from one end, but every time it was a regret of breaking through the south wall and getting nothing.
Now, the deer in my heart is old, I can't run, even if I meet someone I like, I can't last many days, at first I felt that I had to be that person, but after a few months of getting along, I felt that a person's life was more suitable for me, and instead I picked faults in each other, and breaking up was also a thing that followed.
Say that there is no feeling for love, it is not so serious, but for a lifetime of love, it is difficult to raise any interest.
I calculated today the time of love for contemporary young people: 24 hours a day, 10 hours of work, 8 hours of sleep, 4 hours of playing on mobile phones, and only 2 hours are left to spend on the object.
Just love for 2 hours a day.
So I really can't figure it out, those stars are so busy that they still have time to cheat?
According to incomplete statistics, on average, 1 in 10 people has a fitness card, but in the whole year, the number of people who will really punch in the gym is also pitiful.
Of course, for this part of the "disposable bodybuilders", the reason for not fitness can be said to be very reasonable:
Today overtime until nine o'clock, back to the bath to do hygiene what is close to 12 o'clock, the next day to work;
There is too much work today, physically and mentally exhausted, or go home and rest is more important.
It was not easy to work overtime that day, but in the face of the rush hour at six or seven o'clock, I felt that the time spent on the road alone was enough for me to jump at home for half an hour, not all fitness, or more efficient to go home.
However, when I got home, I worked out for 5 minutes and played on my phone for 2 hours.
Remembering that I have bought n fitness cards, but rarely go to the card of friends statistics, it is recommended that you still do a secondary card, which seems very uneconomical, but a whole year of statistics, more cost-effective than the annual card.
After all, most people are just one-time shouting slogans for fitness.
I've seen a passage:
"Why is productivity low? Just now obviously want to find a file, and then accidentally click on the browser, think or brush a Weibo to see what happened to it, and then brush to see a good look at the bag, click into the various collocations, well good, and then look at the comments as if everyone thinks it looks good, ok, collection.
Then continue to brush Weibo, see a very funny paragraph, can not let the happiness stop, and then enter the page of this blogger, very up, very happy. Later, after reading it, there was a moment of confusion, I was doing what I was doing, and finally remembered, I want to find a document, but look at the time, most of the hour has passed, I finally found the document. “
It is often said that goldfish have a memory of 7 seconds, but for this part of the "one-time memory", the brain is short-circuited anytime and anywhere.
For the matter of buying a book without reading, and the WeChat message has not been read back to a meaning, I feel that I bought = read, and I feel that one day I will finish reading.
But as the books on the bookcase pile up higher and higher, very few can really read the whole book.
In fact, this phenomenon is also elaborated in Keigo Higashino's book "Super Murder Incident":
"In today's society, there is no such thing as someone who has enough time to read a book, just some who feel guilty without reading a book, who have a penchant for reading, or who wish they look more intellectual."
"What exactly is reading?"
For some people, starting from the moment they buy a book, it is already considered to be the end of the book.
Do you feel the same way today, when you are flooded with "one-off life"?
Every day is extra busy and fulfilling, but every time I recall the life of the day, I can't find the actual process;
It seems to have a lot of pleasure brought by short-term love, a large amount of material accumulation, and a lot of vanity surrounded by friends, but the heart still cannot have a sense of happiness of satisfaction.
Because you also clearly understand that such fast-food love, although it is on top, is dying quickly, and the material pleasure only exists in a moment, and the friendship of knowing each other for three or two days is not really friendship.
If you lose the very thing of doing something for the sake of "speed", then the thing is about to become meaningless.
And I still hope that no matter how fast the process of life is and how rapid the development of society is, in the hearts of each of us, we still cling to one or two things, such as the expectation of love, such as the serious pursuit of longing for life.