Strong women are people who pay special attention to in the realization of life, and most of them have such charm, that is, bravery, intelligence, and tenacity that ordinary people do not have. Unlike women who started from scratch on their own, there are other women who also have superior talents, but rely heavily on their husbands.
Most of their husbands are rich in the fifties and sixties and are more greedy in their emotional lives. These women need to compete with different wives, and also with the backbone of the entire family.
In the end, it is not as simple as beauty that can get huge assets. Liang Anqi is a typical representative of this type of person, her ability is obvious to all, and she has a great influence in the business world.
If you want to talk about Ms. Liang's ability, I have to mention another lady, who is more sophisticated, and she quickly became the focus of society after the death of her husband. She is Li Baozhu, and what surprises people is that she does not seem to be a very strong party in family life, even gentle, but has a monopoly on family assets.
When a person achieves something and brings his own shining point in the crowd, people will unconsciously discuss his origins. When these two ladies become the focus of the family, the outside world will involuntarily think of the two people's lives. To outsiders, the life of the two before marriage seems to have nothing to do with the rich.
When they are young, they all have to go out and dance in the field to make ends meet, which is a very difficult way of survival. Most of these women do this kind of work as a last resort, lingering in the windy place, surrounded by dangers, and need to have a strong ability to survive.
These women do not have much choice in their hands, and finding a reliable and powerful person among many consumers seems to be an essential choice for them. The two have something in common in terms of acquaintance, and the future husband they choose has something in common, that is, they have a dazzling title and a wealth of assets behind them.
And so many gold men can not avoid a problem, there are already wives in the family, or even more than one. This seems to be allowed in the environment in which they live. Starting with appearance, beauty is a common feature of them, coupled with high emotional intelligence, the two quickly became candidates for partners.
Li Baozhu was a person who had already had marriage experience at the time, and she seemed to have more life experience than young people. In her opinion, to keep a person is to get his heart first, if only let his eyes obsessed with himself, the time may not be too long, the emotional foundation will not be too deep.
After the two met, after meeting Wang Yongqing, Ms. Li liked to always stand on each other's actual needs to pay. In the eyes of outsiders, this is a wealthy businessman, and there will not be too many troubles, but they are in a more complex environment, and sometimes they will encounter difficulties that ordinary people cannot imagine.
Li Baozhu's unique patience makes the other party willing to talk to her. When she encountered practical difficulties, she did not turn around and leave to find the next target, but expressed her affectionate attitude, giving each other the few things she had saved, but all the belongings, so that he could turn around and respond.
These supports may be a drop in the bucket, but for Li Baozhu it is already all. The other party saw the eyes and was touched by her love, so there was a statement of loyalty to character. From the time Ms. Li first became a wife, she has occupied a unique position in the hearts of her husband, and the other party is willing to give her full trust.
After having this, she can get a better survival in the big family, even if there are many people competing with her, but she has occupied the most basic advantage.
Li Baozhu is proficient in the way husband and wife get along, and she does not see her husband as an omnipotent and unlimited assets, but as an ordinary person. After understanding this, you can put yourself in the shoes of your husband, discover the difficulties that your husband is encountering in a timely manner, and put forward appropriate insights.
This seemed very warm to her husband, and after a long time, he regarded Baozhu as a wife who really considered him, and also regarded him as his own think tank, willing to take the initiative to tell her about his difficulties.
For other wives, they may be more concerned about their living conditions, or the treatment and growth of their children, and in their eyes, the husband plays the most role as a provider of money. They don't think they have to worry too much about the sources and creation of their wealth.
Whether he will encounter difficulties and whether he needs the help of the family is not in the future life of the wives. Over time, the husband will naturally favor a wife who can advance and retreat with him, which can be well seen in the later stage of asset acquisition.
After the top pillar of the Wang family fell, people found that Mr. Wang had tens of billions of cash assets and other rich funds, but this only belonged to Ms. Li alone, and others did not have the power at all.
This is precisely because Ms. Li was her husband's right-hand man before she died, and many important things, such as the disposal of funds, he can rest assured that he can entrust his wife to take care of, one is to believe in her, but to believe that she has such strength. Ms. Li deservedly had these fruitful fruits, and they were the kind that no one else could snatch away.
Some people can easily stop learning for the sake of their families after marriage, and after being tied up by the trivialities of life, it is difficult for them to continue to improve their skills.
Ms. Li is a person who is willing to learn, and she understands the importance of self-charging. Despite having five children, she still keeps herself working with society at all times, and her daily accumulation allows her to always help her husband with her advice and maintain common topics with him.
This is her personal ability and is part of what women can learn from. In ancient times, society did not provide women with the opportunity to learn, which was limited by the times.
In modern society, women have more choices than before, and although there will be some practical difficulties, they are already much better overall. We should seize such an opportunity to fully enhance our capabilities.
And at all stages of life, we should not forget to learn. Whether it is out of responsibility for the family or for themselves, learning to improve themselves is the best investment.
With the passage of time, people's wealth may decrease, their health will also be damaged, and those around them may leave them. But constant learning will make your abilities something that time can't take away.
These women live in special circumstances, and their choices may be controversial, but their courage to maintain self-learning and improvement in the torrent of life is worth learning.
Entering married life, especially adults after having children, many behaviors are responsible for the family. In the process, women may have to take on more parenting responsibilities.
No matter what kind of role, in the process of running for the family, do not forget self-development, this is the process of self-enrichment, but also in order to be able to stand better with the partner, the two can absorb more energy and achieve better self under mutual support and common encouragement.
The lives of these two women with similar backgrounds have brought us a lot of thinking, in addition to self-improvement, their tenacious character is also a part that cannot be ignored.
There is still something to learn from the two of them is the cultivation of offspring, their origins can not be changed, but their children can get a better education through the existing conditions.
More difficult than education is how to keep children motivated from an early age in affluent environment. The method they adopt is to cultivate children's independent ability and let children have a sense of distress from an early age. Their children did not live in peace when they reached adulthood, but opened up their own world, and this way of education has inspired us a lot.