"Parental Love" enters Wang Xiu'e's world from another angle, but finds that she is a very powerful and happy woman.
Let's talk about Wang Xiu'e's strength first.
Wang Xiu'e is not shrewd, but she is definitely not stupid.
Wang Xiu'e knew Lao Ding's bottom line.
Wang Xiu'e accepted this.
At home, although Wang Xiu'e and Lao Ding did not communicate too much. However, Wang Xiu'e would occasionally slap her and shout at Lao Ding: "Fight, fight!" "Because Wang Xiu'e knows that even if Lao Ding is angry, he won't really hit her."
Wang Xiu'e cleaned up the house.
When Wang Xiu'e appeared, she was already a mother of three children. The three sons of the family, including Lao Ding, were responsible for eating and drinking by Wang Xiu'e alone.
Therefore, everyone saw Wang Xiu'e, even if she was talking, there would always be endless work on her hand.
Because Wang Xiu'e is really busy. Not only did she have to take care of the family's living quarters, but she also occasionally went to Anjie and Jiang Defu's house to deliver food, hoping that the neighbors would try it. Moreover, Wang Xiu'e still has time to teach Jiang Dehua how to take care of children.
With such a daughter-in-law, even Jiang Defu occasionally envied Lao Ding, and he could always eat warm meals when he returned home.
In Lao Ding's family, the division of labor is very clear, Lao Ding is responsible for making money, and Wang Xiu'e is responsible for "supporting the family". It is impossible to have no old Ding as a pillar in the family. Without Wang Xiu'e, the great housekeeper, it would not work.
In a marriage, the most stable relationship is mutual need. Hard-working Wang Xiu'e, old Ding has needs. At the very least, life needs it.
Wang Xiu'e was bold and careful.
Wang Xiu'e's most brilliant moment was to give birth to a child for Anjie. It can be said that without her, Anjie's child would have been born on the main road.
Wang Xiu'e is really bold. Wang Xiu'e saw that Anjie was about to give birth, and did not wait for the decision to deliver the baby on the spot.
Then why do you say that Wang Xiu'e is careful?
From the conversation in the play, we know that Wang Xiu'e has only given birth to one child herself, and she has also seen others deliver children. But she remembers the whole process of childbirth. I have to say that Wang Xiu'e is actually a very smart and careful woman.
Wang Xiu'e used her wisdom to solve the love enemy.
Wang Xiu'e found a love enemy, which is another cautious performance of Wang Xiu'e.
So in Wang Xiu'e's eyes, who is her love enemy?
Of course it's Anjie.
Old Ding's admiration for Anjie and Jiang Defu's envy, Wang Xiu'e are all in his eyes.
However, when Jiang Defu went to the island alone, Wang Xiu'e still took good care of Anjie. Wang Xiu'e is a warm and kind woman in her bones.
Besides, appreciating Anjie is Lao Ding's job, and Anjie hasn't done anything wrong. Wang Xiu'e was well aware of this.
But Wang Xiu'e did not give up protecting the family and maintaining the marriage. In Wang Xiu'e's view, this is not a shameful thing. Husbands like other women, so snatch them back.
Therefore, Wang Xiu'e first found Jiang Dehua and told her directly: "Your eldest brother Ding misses your sister-in-law." ”
He directly formed a united front with Jiang Dehua, and the two began to think about how to get Anjie to the island.
Step 1: Wang Xiu asks Jiang Dehua to find Secretary Yang and suggests that Anjie live on the island.
Step 2: At the suggestion of Secretary Yang, Jiang Dehua decided to return to his hometown immediately. With no one to help, the two hope that Anjie will retire when he is in trouble and can go to the island to find Jiang Defu.
Sure enough, Anjie encountered difficulties in life, and under the advice of Secretary Yang, she quickly compromised and took the children to the island.
Wang Xiu'e's marriage crisis was thus resolved.
Wang Xiu'e was happy for herself.
In the eyes of the audience, Wang Xiu'e is really unfortunate.
But in Wang Xiu'e's cognition, she is actually very happy.
First of all, Wang Xiu'e likes Lao Ding, not only likes this person, but also prides herself on her profession.
This can be reflected in the songs that Wang Xiu'e often sings.
What songs does Wang Xiu'e often sing?
"Magnolia"!
It can be seen that Wang Xiu'e is very fond of this woman who can serve her father in the army. Mulan is her yearning. Mulan is not only a strong woman, but also a successful soldier.
And Old Ding was just a soldier.
Secondly, old Ding Gu family.
As for the common language, Wang Xiu'e believes that it is not important.
Growing up together, in Wang Xiu'e's view, is the growth of children.
Again, old Ding is gentle.
This "tenderness" is not a spiritual exchange, nor is it a mutual affection. Instead, they don't speak loudly or hit people with their hands.
In Wang Xiu'e's view, this is already a perfect marriage.
In Wang Xiu'e's cognition, this is happiness. Because, before entering the city, the women around Wang Xiu'e lived like this.
Therefore, Wang Xiu'e did not have too high expectations for marriage when she treated Lao Ding.
In Wang Xiu'e's view, it is her duty to have children, and it is Lao Ding's duty to make money.
Therefore, in the end, Wang Xiu'e died in childbirth. But if Wang Xiu'e is allowed to choose again, she will still have four different children.
Wang Xiu'e introduced that he gave birth to four sons before his death, continued the incense of the old Ding family, and also educated Jiang Dehua, a "sister" who was willing to take care of Old Ding and the children.
Who's to say whether such a woman is stupid or unhappy?
