Einstein was persuaded to clean up his desk, but he disagreed, "If a messy desk means a messy brain, then what does an empty desk mean?" ”
Author: Ouyang Biwen
Fu Seoul shared a lot of parenting experience in "Strange Story", she mentioned that "although children can't help you do anything, they can make you can't do anything", the voice has not fallen, and the applause is thunderous!
It seems that everyone has been plagued by this problem for a long time, this time even the former Olympic champion is no exception. Don't look at the decision to kill on the field, go home to face your baby's "demolition", there are also words of suffering, directly show weakness.
Qin Kai and He Zi are the golden children of the sports world, and both are divers of the national team. Qin Kai won the double three-meter board championship at the Beijing Olympic Games and successfully defended his title at the London Olympic Games.
He Zi won the double 3m board at the London Olympics and the runner-up in the event at the Rio Olympics. Both men have won the highest honor for the motherland!
Perhaps out of the same love for "splash", the two young people soon walked together, which can be described as a talented woman. But their relationship has always been very low-key, athletes are different from ordinary people, and they must always maintain a good training state and emotions.
In 2016, at the Rio Olympic Games, Qin Kai proposed to He Zi in a high profile, and really sprinkled a handful of dog food to the audience around the world, when the languages of various countries on the bullet screen poured in, full of blessings!
In June 2017, the two held a wedding in Xi'an, and in October Shun gave birth to a beloved daughter, nicknamed "He Zi", Qin Kai and He Zi upgraded to become parents. After marriage, the two people Qinser and Ming, the family is happy.
Qin Kai, like most men, does not like to post her baby on social networks, and opening the Weibo of Bao Mama He Zi is almost all related to her daughter.
But it is such a calm father who can no longer be calm when his daughter is "demonized". On July 27, Qin Kai very rarely shared a picture of his daughter on Weibo, accompanied by an expression of "want to cry without tears".
What the hell is going on here? Only to see He Zi throw red strips of things everywhere, and he played with his bare feet. On the couch, on the ground, on the mattress, all surrounded by this "red".
He Zi seems to be a cheerleader, still holding a "bouquet" in his hand and dancing! Sure enough, it is the same world, the same baby, is the "bear child" also mass production?
This scene made Qin Kai feel panicked, he said "omg" on Weibo, and he was helpless against his daughter's "masterpiece". However, Bao Ma He Zi sat quietly on the sofa, with a calm face.
The daughter should play, He Zi is still comfortably leaning on the sofa playing with her mobile phone, worthy of being an Olympic champion, this small scene has been seen strangely! Anyway, I'm not picking it up!
It seems that the matter of "cleaning up the battlefield" is still debao dad himself, no wonder it is also a champion, a collapse to cover his face, a cloud light wind!
Netizens saw this scene and laughed, "Fortunately, it is not flour, contentment!" "Play for 5 minutes, pack for 2 hours, understand!"
Many times you will find that the more you keep your children's room organized, the less often your child plays with toys.
In psychology, the "broken window effect" believes that if the undesirable phenomena in the environment are allowed to exist, they will induce people to imitate, or even intensify, just like broken windows, which will cause children to throw stones.
On the contrary, if parents clean the room too neatly, then the child may not touch the toy because of cherishing, but do not underestimate this matter, it may weaken the child's creativity.
Economist Tim. In "Chaos", Harford mentioned that if a person's desktop is neatly packed, generally speaking, he lacks creativity, and chaos can stimulate children's creativity.
(1) First of all, to ensure the safety of the child, tell the child to stay away from water, electricity and coal from an early age, and take safety precautions at home. If sharp tools such as screwdrivers and spatulas are placed where children cannot find them, the windows are closed.
(2) A messy house does not mean that the house is dirty. Parents should regularly disinfect their children's toys, lead their children to clean, and ensure indoor cleanliness.
(3) Families with conditions can designate a play area for their children and become a special "play area", allowing children to "demonize" in this area and release his vitality to the fullest.
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