Love is wonderful, there are many art creators will use a lot of wonderful words to decorate it, but the love in everyone's heart is different, some people think that living and dying together is love, and some people think that as long as the other party is good, it is love, so love is difficult to define.
The emotional life of ordinary people will not be watched by the outside world, but the emotional life of public figures is different, such as the former Professor Yang Zhenning's wife has been questioned a lot, celebrities talk about love fans off the powder incident is not uncommon, the behavior of public figures by the outside world, especially the emotional life.
Chinese detective Li Changyu talked about a twilight love at the age of 80, and was also questioned by the outside world, so why did he choose to continue the string after the death of his wife?
The acquaintance of Jiang Xiaping and Li Changyu is full of fantasy. In 2007, Jiang Xiaping was still an ordinary entrepreneur, and one day she suddenly received an order from the United States, which is a big order, if you can get a very good profit, by the way, you can also open up overseas markets.
But this is actually a premeditated scam. After Jiang Xiaping finished shipping, the other party refused to pay for various reasons, and finally unilaterally cut off contact with Jiang Xiaping. That's when she realized she had been scammed, and in order to solve the corporate crisis, she decided to find the scammer to recover the loss.
So she went to the United States alone and began to investigate the whereabouts of the crooks, but she didn't know anyone there, and things didn't go well. Just when she was at a loss, she met the detective Li Changyu, and after learning about Jiang Xiaping's situation, Li Changyu decided to help her recover the lost goods.
Although the two are one-sided, perhaps because the other is Chinese, or perhaps impressed by Jiang Xiaping's courage to pursue the murderer, with the help of Li Changyu, the scammer was successfully found, and the corporate crisis was lifted. It was also this contact that the two established a deep friendship.
Jiang Xiaping was very grateful to Li Changyu for helping her, and after returning to China, she wrote her story into a book called "Phoenix Nirvana", which detailed Li Changyu's help to herself when she was in the United States. Lee Chang-yu wrote the book's foreword and participated in the new book sale, and he also said that if the book had a chance to be made into a film and television drama, he would be happy to star in Detective.
There were two women in Li Changyu's life who were important to him, one was his mother and the other was his wife. But a twist changed everything. In 2017, Mrs. Li Changyu suddenly suffered from cerebral congestion and died after the rescue was ineffective.
His wife accompanied her for 56 spring and autumn seasons, the feelings were very deep, this incident hit Li Changyu very hard, his whole world became dark, he also had a grief-stricken desire to go with his wife, it can be seen that he has a deep affection for his wife.
Jiang Xiaping, who was far away in China, learned of this news and decided to go to the United States to accompany Li Changyu and help him take care of his wife's affairs. During that time, Li Changyu was depressed and had been immersed in the pain of losing his wife, and it was Jiang Xiaping who had been with him to comfort him and take care of him.
In life, Jiang Xiaping gave Li Changyu meticulous care, and even became his special assistant, helping to sort out some work data, and also accompanied him to participate in various public activities, playing the image of a confidant sister, helping Li Changyu out of the trough of life.
In the company of this time, they shared each other's joys and sorrows, and also found the shining points in each other. Li Changyu said that a good partner can be like a friend, giving you comfort when you are in pain, and can also accompany you when you are lonely, and his ex-wife is such a person.
Therefore, in the face of his wife's death, Li Changyu will be so painful. But fortunately, he met Jiang Xiaping, and during the time they were together, he found that Jiang Xiaping was the same person as his wife, which made him feel kind.
It is precisely for these reasons that the two have a good feeling for each other, and less than a year after the death of Li Changyu's wife, they entered the marriage hall. At that time, Li Changyu was already 80 years old, and Jiang Xiaping was still 18 years younger than him, and the difference between the two was not a little bit.
In the traditional concept, most of the 80-year-old people are planting flowers and grass at home, taking care of their children and grandchildren, and 80-year-olds like Li Changyu are rarely seen, so the outside world has issued a bad comment on this marriage. Some people say that Li Changyu's old cow eats tender grass, some people say that this is disrespectful for the old, in short, this twilight love is not understood by the world.
But no matter what the outside world said, they eventually entered the marriage hall hand in hand. One is a female entrepreneur, the other is a famous detective, both are not bad money lords, it is reasonable to say that marriage such a big thing should be well handled, but what everyone did not expect is that their wedding is very simple, only invited close friends and relatives around them.
And the two did not buy wedding rings, and when exchanging rings, they drew a large diamond ring with a marker on each other's fingers. Perhaps because I have experienced too much, I have already looked down on these external objects, although this diamond ring does not look so shining, but it is of great significance.
In fact, like Li Changyu, there are not a few who continue the string in his later years, and Professor Yang Zhenning is an example. Moreover, the age difference between Professor Yang and his wife is even greater, and when the news was exposed, the outside comments were one-sided, most of which said that the woman was with Professor Yang for money.
But before that, Professor Yang and his wife had a deep relationship, the two accompanied each other through a dark period of time, and the depth of the relationship was not understood by the outside world. And after they are together, they are always together when they go out to participate in activities, and the appearance of happiness holding hands cannot be pretended.
Monet only painted Camille in his life, Wu Ding built a grand mausoleum for women, these loyal loves are talked about by people, but the reality is that when the lover who accompanies him for half a lifetime leaves, everyone will have a sense of emptiness and will want to find someone to accompany, but this is not unfaithful to love, on the contrary, it is because of too much love, so it is necessary to pull themselves out of sadness.
Whether it is Li Changyu or Yang Zhenning, they are all revealing a social phenomenon to people, that is, the problem of empty nesters. Now many elderly people will want to find someone who can accompany themselves after their wives leave, and the elderly need companionship even more. But the children do not agree, the outside world is controversial, more empty nesters who need to be cared for.
No one stipulates that wives cannot be renewed after their death, and we cannot morally kidnap others and criticize their behavior with our own cognition. Many people who say that others are hypocritical are actually the most hypocritical, because they dare not face their own hearts.
Now this era of feelings are very open, flash marriage flash love a lot, so why can't you accept the old man's twilight love? Is it because they are old that they have to lose the ability to love others? It's not like this, love is worthy of age, no matter how old you are, you are entitled to find your soul mate.