Professor Wang is our old department director, who retired early three years ago due to physical reasons. Because of his honesty and selflessness, he was regarded as a model tree by us young descendants. Professor Wang and I are more yearless friends, often discussing problems in the industry with him, and getting a lot of help and inspiration.
Because his daughter-in-law Yu Hong was transferred to our department as the head nurse last year. At work, we cooperate more tacitly, get along better in private relations, and then her father-in-law Professor Wang constantly calls for care and care. Yu Hong also mixed well in our department, and colleagues basically reached the point of talking about nothing.
Yesterday afternoon, Professor Wang took advantage of my break to ask me to go to his house for tea and chat. In the small talk, he sighed with a sad face, which always made people feel a little helpless and tired. Before I could ask him, I could see that he was a little embarrassed: I asked you to come here today to ask for something, and you and my daughter-in-law are young people who are good at communicating. I want to ask you to help me persuade her...
Professor Wang was unfortunately killed by the disease two years ago, and he has always been alone in pain and sorrow, suffering from difficult progress. He often remembers his wife's goodness and misses the past! I think of his wife's meticulous care for him, and I miss the delicious meals that my partner makes for him... As a deceased wife, he once thought of being alone and alone for the rest of his life.
Professor Wang's poor health deteriorated, the only son, daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law did not live together, usually busy with their own work, a few times are suddenly sick at night, even to the toilet can not take care of themselves, fell several times, there is no otherone to accompany and take care of, but also almost killed by the disease. The huge cost of babysitting in the big city made him daunted.
Some time ago, his old classmate introduced him to a retired old woman who was three years younger than him. In fact, it is not too old to say that he is old, people are smaller than him, his body is great, and he is also a single who has just retired. After meeting each other, we talked very happily, and after several contacts, we felt that we could talk to each other. One of the daughters of the woman's family has become a family, works with her son-in-law in the field, and she has her own house and her own pension. It also needs to be accompanied by someone...
Although I have the care and care of my son and daughter-in-law, after all, I can't always accompany and take care of my side! The psychological loneliness and physical inconvenience of the elderly, who can understand these unspeakable secrets? It feels like the time is ripe. Who knew that giving his son and daughter-in-law was denied by his daughter-in-law Yu Hong on the spot. The reason is: the woman may covet his money, house, family property... She was adamantly opposed.
The lonely Professor Wang was dumbfounded by his daughter-in-law's question: "Aren't we bad to you?" Don't care enough about you? ”
It's not easy to meet someone who has the same interests, common interests, and is right; it's even harder to meet a partner who can walk together again when they're old. Professor Wang was not willing to be so decisively stopped by his daughter-in-law that his twilight love, but he could not bear to have a conflict with his children because of this. He wanted to entrust me with the work of his daughter-in-law...
The twilight love of parents is to find a person who loves and helps each other, and wants to find a spiritual sustenance in the old age; if it is correct, it should be supported, and should not be opposed because of their own selfish interests.
As children, we should consider the feelings of our parents, and if we want to sincerely filial piety, we must first start from a comprehensive understanding, and we cannot selfishly and one-sidedly only care about our own happiness and ignore the suffering of the elderly living alone. The twilight love of the lonely old man should not be arbitrarily limited or arbitrarily stopped by the children. Entrusted with a heavy responsibility, I will do my best!