Wen/Jing sister
According to a survey by a well-known media, 90% of the middle-aged and elderly people will choose to live together or try to get married, and they are eager for a twilight love without entanglement.
However, in real life, there are very few that can make "twilight love" successfully go to the end.
"Plum blossom twice" and "dead wood meets spring", the psychological attitude of the elderly to marriage is more realistic, there is no desire to "have children", less beautiful vision for the future. The way they get along is more like a pair of "cold trumpet birds" in winter, eliminating each other's loneliness, snuggling and taking care of each other, this marriage model of the elderly "hugging and warming" is also a "new type of pension" way. But there are also three major problems that have to be faced:
(1): Age
The age requirements of the elderly for the other party are higher than those of young people.
Grandma Wang, who is 65 years old and single, has a son and a daughter under her knees, and she has become a family, and Grandma Wang is not seriously ill, and her health is still OK. Son, daughter on both sides of the take turns to live, but for a long time, there will always be some places that are not welcomed, Grandma Wang has the idea of finding a wife to live together, Grandma Wang's requirements are very simple, there is a house to live, good health on the line, the age does not matter. After her own careful search, it is really let her find it, the other party is a 72-year-old man, the body is still tough, there is a one-bedroom room, so the two came together, no banquet, no license, Grandma Wang carried a bag to marry herself, at first the children still muttered disagree, but later also wanted to open, Grandma Wang This walk is equivalent to dropping a "baggage" for them, why don't they enjoy it?
(2): Income, property
In reality, men do not care much about the woman's income, but the woman is very concerned, because this is her future pension life security.
63-year-old single Uncle Liu, due to the disability of the leg, retired from the unit early, took a considerable pension every month, the children have also achieved careers, for the convenience of Uncle Liu's life, he found a 55-year-old rural nanny to take care of his diet and living, this nanny is also single, for a long time, the two have feelings, but Uncle Liu's children do not agree, they all say that she is running to the family property, Uncle Liu is iron-hearted, and finally had to do "premarital property justice" under the witness of the children. That was what agreed to both of them.
(3): Looks, love
For the marriage of the elderly, the requirements for appearance may not be as high as those of young people, but the man still likes the woman's gentleness and beauty in his heart, and the woman likes the man's temperament.
The elderly are more inclined to the love mode of "first the villain and then the gentleman", because they have experienced the storms of life and see life more thoroughly.
The 46-year-old yu eldest sister can be said to be lucky, looking for a 50-year-old charming man with a successful career, first carried out premarital property justice, and signed a prenuptial agreement, and both of them also expressed understanding.