My son is thirteen years old this year, is a middle school student who is about to enter the second year of junior high school, because my husband and I have experienced the pain of no cultural knowledge, paid a great price for life, and lost almost all the time we can spend together, and nearly fifteen years of married life are running to change our lives, and the heartache of which is only understood by ourselves. Our efforts just want to change the son's life, do not want him to be like us, can only live for life, so many years, the husband has been working outside, the task of naturally managing children is responsible for me, (I have also been at work) First of all, because I have not received too good education, the child's learning is also a lack of experience and methods, from the third grade homework is basically completed in the after-school class, back home basically not much to learn, but also in the primary school, the teacher asked to make up for the class did not fall behind, In any case, when I was in elementary school, my grades were still in the past.
After entering junior high school last year, I was also very confident, including the impression of the teacher, although the grades were not very good, I felt that I could still save, the lessons that should be made up, the truth that should be told, all I could think of, I have been doing my best, for an ordinary family, the cost of spending on him every month is about three thousand, that is nothing, as long as he can take the study seriously, it should be like this until last year's final exam.
All the problems appeared after the epidemic, during the online class, until now the relationship between our mothers and daughters has reached the point of intolerable, let me be close to the state of collapse, crazy, before this will also be noisy but can also be calmly solved, since the beginning of the epidemic, the grades are basically counted down, I communicate with the teacher, contact the responsible make-up class, for learning to feel that he has little to do with him, mobile phone TV I have to control it, the result is that he loves the attitude, Seeing him like this, I will lose my mind and argue with him and even do it, in fact, I know that this is useless, sometimes in the elevator encounter neighbors are embarrassed to say hello because of the quarrel with the child who loses his mind, it must also affect people, plus the husband's incomprehension, think that the child's learning is that I have not fulfilled my responsibility, think about these really have the impulse to get rid of with the child, there is no dignity to live, what is the meaning, just at noon at the Dragon Boat Festival, because of the fierce quarrel of the biological volume, Even if I threatened him with my own life, I didn't let him say a word of confession to me, if it wasn't for the only thing left to worry about my mother in Shandong, it would really end everything, and I didn't know how long I could hold out in the face of such a situation and the child's attitude. (In fact, in addition to learning, this child is not bad in nature, and he is a righteous and kind child, I just don't want him to live a turbulent and displaced life like me and his father)