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On the road of life, there are sour and sweet, bitter and spicy, the important thing is that you can have a grateful heart, have a sense of enjoying life.
Marriage, bringing the other half of men to protect, bringing women to rely on the security of a lifetime, it is like a journey of emotional accumulation, quietly into people's lives, so that men and women have the warmest home in life.
When it comes to marriage, it is impossible to see through how difficult the road ahead is. Entrusting sincerity depends on love and trust.
Marriage is not better than love, love is only a short negotiation process, men and women can love each other unconditionally, can wantonly exert their "youth", and marriage is not OK, it is necessary for two people to accompany each other for a lifetime, signed a lifelong agreement.
Men are irresponsibly "content with the status quo" when they are in love, but when he steps into the palace of marriage, he assumes the responsibility of a family, and to bring women and children strong dependence, he has to work hard.
A woman's love is very pure, she will only dedicate everything to this family, only for the person she loves to grow up happily and happily, her love is like a bet, betting on the man's sincerity.
When a woman gets the man's sincerity, it shows that she has won happiness.
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A good marriage requires not only the sincerity of two people, but also the efforts of both families.
Li You (pseudonym) and Wang Li (pseudonym) have reached the point of talking about marriage, both happy and sad, because considering that their family conditions are not good, Li You tried to propose to Wang Li several times, but they all stopped.
My father was frail and sickly, took medicine all year round, and could not do heavy work, and did not have a good income. When Li You reached the age of marriage, the house still looked very shabby and had no decoration. Not to mention holding a wedding, it is tens of thousands of bride price, he can not take it out.
Wang Li knows that the conditions of her in-laws' home are not good, and she has talked to her parents several times about the situation of Li You's family, that is, she hopes to give her parents a "preventive injection" as soon as possible, so as not to make a fuss and embarrassing scene when they really meet.
Later, Wang Li brought her parents to Li You's house, and at that time, many villagers came to see the liveliness. Looking at Wang Li's father, the suit was straight, carrying a high-grade gift in his hand. Everyone felt that their marriage could not be discussed.
The conditions of the in-laws' family are indeed very bad, but the father-in-law does not look disgusted at all, but very casually talks with Li You's parents, and said that he does not want a penny of the in-laws' bride price when he marries his daughter.
At that time, the neighbors who watched the liveliness immediately began to talk about it. In the local area, it is felt that women are upside down and will be bullied by their in-laws sooner or later.
At that time, Wang Li's father smiled and patted Li You's shoulder and said, "I am optimistic about you, you will not let me down." ”
In fact, Wang Li's father did not have an assessment of Li You, he felt that Li You was just a poor family, there was no good platform, and he would definitely have a career in the future. And in the process of Li You and Wang Li getting along, he also saw Li You's love for his daughter.
In this way, Li You and Wang Li were successfully engaged.
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In a relationship, it is not measured by "money", it is just a material condition, and the maintenance of marriage requires heart-to-heart communication.
On her daughter's big day, Wang Li's father not only did not ask for a bride price, but posted a dowry, 200,000 yuan.
At that time, he said to his relatives: "My daughter has many shortcomings, and I hope to help me discipline her more in the future." ”
Although the wedding is not very grand, it is warm and happy. Marriages that everyone does not favor are getting better and better. After getting married, Wang Li gave All of her dowry of 200,000 yuan to Li You and asked him to start a business.
Li You is very grateful to his father-in-law and his wife for her support, he worked very hard in his career, and finally succeeded in starting a business. When Li You's career was stable and he had the ability to buy a house and a car, but in terms of whose name to write, her in-laws had their own ideas.
The in-laws have always asked their sons to buy a house and a car, and can only write the names of their daughters-in-law, but Li You and Wang Li are very surprised, and the father-in-law said: "Son, you can have today because you married Wang Li, because of her father's dowry of 200,000 yuan." We can't forget our roots. ”
The mother-in-law then said, "Yes, son, if it weren't for Wang Li, your father wouldn't have had the money to treat his illness at all, and his illness wouldn't have gotten better." It is your blessing to be able to marry Wang Li, and it is even more a blessing for us to meet a relative who does not care about us and does not abandon us. ”
Li You looked at his parents' maintenance of his wife, and he said jealously: "Parents, I am your son, but how do I feel that I am like an outsider." ”
The mother smiled and said, "Ever since your father-in-law handed over his daughter to me and pasted the dowry upside down, your father and I have already regarded you as an outsider." Son, if you dare to bully our daughter-in-law in the future, I will never spare you. ”
Later, buying a house and buying a car, Li Youdu only wrote his wife's name, he also felt that if it were not for his wife, he could not have the success he has now, and because he loved her, he did not care whose name the property was written, and only wanted her to live a good life.
In the days that followed, the husband and wife's careers became better and better, and the family was also very harmonious, which was really a winner in life.
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On the road of life, a lot of happiness is obtained by business.
In this world, no one will always be smooth sailing, no one will step up to the top, all this happiness, need to be slowly managed, slowly grown, so is the career, so is the marriage.
We run a life, a business, a relationship, a marriage, and this hard-won happiness is actually in our own hands. As long as you are willing to make an effort, the years will not fail.
The father-in-law in the story is an enlightened person who did not refuse marriage or embarrass the son-in-law's family because of the poor family conditions.
On the contrary, when talking about marriage, my father-in-law was also generous and did not think about it. I didn't want a bride price, but I also posted 200,000 savings as a dowry. It can only show that the love of parents for their children cannot be measured by money.
And Li You's happiness is what he has worked hard to obtain, work hard to start a business, and work hard to manage love, so that Wang Li and his father-in-law have seen his reliable character.
It is precisely because of the father's generosity and open-mindedness that the daughter has been accepted by the in-laws in marriage, and even treats his son as an outsider to love the daughter-in-law.
Everyone is working hard for a marriage, so they end up having happiness and becoming winners in life.
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When people get along with each other, only with a sincere heart can we exchange it for a sincere heart.
Marriage needs the support of parents, the care and understanding of each other between husband and wife, and the trust of each other. These seemingly small two words can bring people "great" courage, and it is the courage that bursts out from the bottom of the heart.
Comparing hearts to hearts, exchanging kindness for another kind treatment, this is the meaning of relatives. "Love" is not only love, but also family affection, and the harmony of the family needs more than the "love" between the families.
On the road of life, sometimes difficulties and poverty are only temporary, as long as there is a sincere heart, hard work to operate, it will be rewarded.
If, at any time, blindly calculating, blindly calculating, will only make yourself lose more.
Everyone needs to be grateful and not forget their roots in order to keep life and marriage on the right track. Life is getting better and better, and marriages are getting happier and more stable.
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When you get married, which side of the dowry or the bride price is more abundant?
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