In June this year, Fuzhou's brother Zhan suddenly suffered a heart attack and was hospitalized, due to economic difficulties, he raised medical expenses through a donation platform, after recovery and discharge, the money of the donation platform was taken away by his son, and after many fruitless negotiations with his son, Zhan brother hoped to get our help.
Brother Zhan: The "life-saving money" was taken away by his son
Brother Zhan and his wife, Sister Ou, waited anxiously for a response on the other side of the phone, but his son Adong hung up the phone as usual without saying a few words.
Brother Zhan and his ex-wife had a son, Ah Dong, after the divorce, Ah Dong was sentenced to Elder Brother Zhan to raise, and later Brother Zhan and Sister Ou reorganized the family, but the two sides did not have common children. In June this year, Brother Zhan was hospitalized for a sudden heart attack.
During the hospitalization, in order to alleviate the financial pressure, Ou Dajie said that they also carried out crowdfunding on a donation platform, using her son Adong's WeChat application. But after Ah Dong took the money raised by the platform crowdfunding, he did not transfer it to his father.
Although he has been discharged from the hospital for surgery, Brother Zhan is still in the recovery stage and needs to cooperate with drug treatment, so they urgently need this money to provide relief.
Because of the pain of the waist, Sister Ou could not go out to make money in a short period of time, and her current life could not be supported.
Heading to find Adong, Big Brother Zhan hesitated
However, when the mediation team proposed to go to Minqing's hometown to find Ah Dong, Brother Zhan seemed hesitant.
The mediator suggested that Brother Zhan call Adon again.
On the phone, Ah Dong stressed that 10,002 has been clearly explained to Brother Zhan, so what is the truth? The mediation team went to Minqing to look for Ah Dong for verification. But when he came to Antoon's residence, there was no answer to the knock, and Brother Zhan dialed Antoine's phone again.
Antoine: 12,000 has been used for the father's medical expenses
Subsequently, the mediation team called Antoine.D. But then it was hung up. Just as we were looking for the place where Antoine worked, we received a call from Antoine.
Ah Dong stressed that the treatment cost more than 50,000 yuan, and the crowdfunding of 12,000 yuan has been used in his father's medical expenses. Because neither side can provide a list of hospital expenses, we can't verify where the 10,0002 was used.
Mediator
At present, Brother Zhan's heart has done a bridge, there is no way to go to work, and now life and medical expenses are a problem. As a son, can you take responsibility.
Brother Zhan said that his son had given 3500 yuan before, and there was very little left after the review.
Antoine has a grudge against his father
Antoine's words made the mediation team wonder why Antoine, as a son, was so desperate when his biological father was ill.
In Ah Dong's heart, Brother Zhan not only failed to fulfill the responsibility of a father, but also had the bad habit of gambling.
Antoine is willing to give his father 3,000 yuan for an emergency
For Brother Zhan's gambling behavior, the mediator Liu Qianwen criticized, we understand the reason why Ah Dong is reluctant to help his father, but for the legal level, children should fulfill their obligations to their parents.
Through telephone communication, Ah Dong expressed his willingness to give his father another 3,000 yuan for emergency. After communicating with Ah Dong, because of real estate problems, There was a dispute between Sister Ou and Brother Zhan at the scene.
Ou Dajie said that before the in-laws had a 130-square-meter demolition and resettlement house under their mother-in-law's name, the two couples had joint funds, and then the property was sold to the ex-wife of Brother Zhan.
Ou Dajie raised a real estate question and the mediator answered
Because Brother Zhan had more than 400,000 yuan in arrears outside, he negotiated with his mother to take this property to mortgage 450,000 yuan.
After that, the family discussed selling the property to repay the 500,000 yuan borrowed by Adong, and the remaining money was distributed.
Sister Ou is difficult to accept the sale of real estate to her ex-wife.
Ou Dajie said that after the sale of the property, she did not get its due share, and now in the case of economic difficulties, she hopes to be compensated.
Regarding the demand for compensation, mediator Liu Qianwen first analyzed it from the legal level.
This house has been transferred to another person, and now the house has nothing to do with you, and at present it can only be communicated with your mother-in-law from a reasonable point of view.
Mediator: Brother Zhan's behavior involves the family
It is understood that the four brothers and sisters of Zhan brothers and sisters, according to the share of the house, he can only inherit the share of the late father.
According to the mediator's analysis, the 500,000 yuan taken to repay the debt has far exceeded the amount that Brother Zhan deserves. Therefore, the mediation team believes that Brother Zhan and Sister Ou should thank their families for their help in their difficult times, rather than blindly asking for it.
Mediator: Husband and wife work together to get through the storm
During the communication, we found that Sister Ou was worried about the house. Mediator Liu Qianwen also communicated with Brother Zhan from the perspective of Sister Ou, hoping that Brother Zhan could have more understanding.
On the one hand, because the payment of the house was not compensated, on the other hand, it was also because she sold the house to her ex-wife, and Sister Ou felt very wronged.
Because of the previous business failures and gambling, the family has been saddled with so many debts, and at this point, Brother Zhan is also very remorseful.
The onset of the disease coupled with the pressure of the economy has made the zhan brother and his wife face unprecedented difficulties, and the mediation team believes that the more at this time the husband and wife must think together, the more energetic they are to go to one place, and to tide over the difficulties together. We also hope that Brother Zhan can change his life through his own efforts.