Yesterday, I took flowers and flowers to watch the picture book "Mermaid Princess".
Hua Hua likes to read stories related to princesses, and always says that she is a little princess. The book read at the end, not surprisingly, the child cried when he saw it.
The story of the mermaid princess is widely circulated, everyone should have seen it, before, I didn't have any special feelings before, but now, with the child watching, the child cried and asked: Why did the little princess exchange legs with the witch with her own voice? Why did the little princess go to the prince? Why didn't the prince like her? How did she become a bubble?
Think about it, isn't it nice for the little mermaid to be a little princess in the sea? Just because love at first sight fell in love with a person who is not in the same world as himself, and finally gave everything, but got nothing? Why should girls pin their happiness on others? Why can't you be your own queen?
Ye Shuhua
Just two days ago, I saw 95-year-old astronomy academician Ye Shuhua, and the speech in English surprised everyone, encouraging girls to break through the ceiling of fate and bravely show themselves.
Now many people always say to boys, you are a man, be brave, be strong, you can't cry; and the requirements for girls have become, it doesn't matter, you are a girl, do it poorly! It will even encourage girls to sell their appearance anxiety in order to please others.
There are a lot of rules and regulations in society, it seems that girls are born with limits, girls can't learn mathematics, they can't learn physics well; travel is too hard, you girls don't want to be strong; this physical work is handed over to boys to do, girls should be blessed...
However, when this girl gets married and has a baby, and the evaluation criteria have become a completely different set, how can you not even bring a child? Isn't it natural for women to wash and cook and do housework, and everyone can do a good job and take care of the family. At this time, girls are no longer regarded as princesses.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Why should you suddenly grow up after having a child? That's because we could have done it well! Girls are no dumber than boys.
So, my daughter, I hope that you can be brave and strong, to pursue what you want, to achieve your ideals, and not to pin your fate on anyone, because any gift of fate is secretly marked with its chips.
Just like the Little Mermaid, if you want to gain human legs, you have to exchange your voice with the sea witch, and I think this is what Grandpa Andersen wanted to teach us.
In this patriarchal society, you may need to work harder to get the same opportunities as men, but don't be afraid, Mom wants you to take your fate firmly into your own hands!