A brainsaver to solve the problem
1. The ancient Chinese chess game has such a saying: abandon the pawn to protect the car. Of course, instead of the slightest objection to such a way of playing chess, we even want to worship the chess players who are proficient in this way as masters. The pieces will not have feelings, so it is not possible to talk about whether they will be proud of their sacrifice to help the "master" win, and perhaps even if the pieces really open their mouths to express their dissatisfaction with this, it is logical that an amiable lobbyist will come out and say: "To understand the overall situation, to understand the general ... ”
2. When dealing with major emergencies, Pei Guangting's adherence to the strategic thinking of valuing peace and implementing targeted strategies requires a lot of courage and strength. At the same time, he insists on valuing harmony and minimizing contradictions and conflicts, which is also an effective way to solve problems.
At present, we are committed to building a harmonious society. Where does harmony come from? Of course, there are many major aspects that need to be worked on, such as correctly handling various social contradictions, properly coordinating various interest relations, and constantly promoting social fairness and justice. At the same time, for every unit and everyone, we should respect each other, love each other, and help each other. In the face of some non-principle issues, you don't have to point the needle at Mai Mang, you are stronger and I am stronger. In the vast world and the vast sea of people, there are always contradictions. When people encounter contradictions, if they always start from their own interests, repel each other, do not give in to each other, and friction is continuous, how can they bring harmony?
Magnanimity is respectable, and small belly chicken intestines are easy to complain. Harmony requires "harmony is precious". Between units and units, between people, the key is to do a good job in the articles of the words "tolerance" and "concession", be good at bearing the overall situation in mind, tolerate people's shortcomings, learn from people's strengths, and forgive people's faults; be good at valuing peace, treat people with humility, pay attention to civilization, and take the initiative to give way when encountering controversial matters. If we can all do this and have measurements, then our society will be more harmonious and warmer.
3. This inspires us that when it comes to solving problems, it is very important to choose a breakthrough. The key to choosing a breakthrough is to target its lifeblood, find the main contradiction, prescribe the right medicine, cure the disease, rejuvenate the magic hand, and promote the virtuous circle and development of things.
4. We should also learn from this spirit of Wang Dan in our work, since we are all in this collective, our destiny is always linked to the collective in which we are located, and the collective glory, I am also proud, the collective decline, I also decline. Therefore, we should always contribute our own strength to the prosperity and development of the collective, rather than only caring about our own temporary gains and losses, but only caring about our own temporary development. How can there be personal growth without collective development? Therefore, we advocate love and dedication, in fact, it is from the perspective of everyone's future!
5. Strictly prohibit the generals from raising eagles and birds and indulging in amusement, and do not advocate starting from bringing them to justice, but first issue a ban, and then follow the law, and achieve the effect of "eliminating evil and eliminating the wind". Strictly demanding this move is actually "first salute and then soldiers". Because only in this way can subordinates be convinced, and superiors can establish prestige and then strictly enforce military discipline. By extension, not only the army, but also everything: we must not suppress people with force, but we must make people convinced.
6. As the saying goes: People's words are terrible; and the rumors of catching the wind and catching shadows and reversing black and white are even more terrible. Boyi is incorruptible. Rumors say that he is muddy; Qu Yuan is loyal, but rumors say that he is unchaste, and in the end he threw himself into the Luo River and died in vain. Therefore, the ancients said: Since ancient times, no one harms people more than slander. For this point, Chen Zaixiang is deeply aware, he was innocent when he was young, but some people with ulterior motives said that Chen Ping had an affair with his sister-in-law. The difference is that Chen Zaixiang is more resourceful than Bo Yi and Qu Yuan, so he can skillfully avoid rumors and stay away from disasters.
7. A gentleman loves money and has a way to get it. Gentlemen and villains love money, which is probably human nature. However, the difference between a gentleman and a villain is that one has a way to get rich, and one has no way to get rich; one is justified and one is improper.
Gentlemen should take care of their own interests as well as the interests of others, and obtain the goods they deserve by virtue of their own legitimate labor, while villains should only take care of themselves and ignore others, and it is common to make ill-gotten gains, and it is not uncommon to base their happiness on the suffering of others.
8. Adapting to changes, flexibility and tact in the use of various diplomatic strategies to serve the monarch of the country is an important guiding ideology of the diplomacy of the ministers. Su Dongpo and Fan Zhongyan combined firm principle with flexible strategy, which cannot but be said to be a successful example in diplomacy. However, Lü Yijian criticized Fan Zhongyun with this, which really did not make much sense. Therefore, the emperor did not pursue Fan Zhongyan's guilt.
Principle and flexibility are two opposing aspects. Principle is the basis of flexibility, and flexibility is a service and complement to principle. In the process of transforming the world, leaders and subordinates must be good at adapting to changes, not sticking to stereotypes and bad customs, and must adapt measures to local conditions and take advantage of the situation, and flexibly implement leadership activities according to objective conditions. This reflects the flexibility of leaders to exert enthusiasm and creativity in the face of all kinds of things, and to be skillful in completing various tasks. As a deputy leader, you must not only become the leader of realizing the intention of the chief officer, but also become the "counselor" of the chief officer to carry out his work. It is necessary to conduct in-depth investigation and study of reality, grasp first-hand information, and ensure that truth is not sought.
9. Weighing the pros and cons is based on the common sense of advantages and disadvantages, and comprehensively analyzing and comparing the pros and cons of the results of a certain behavior, so that the other party can make the correct choice and thus decide its actions. Therefore, doing things cannot be based solely on personal subjective inferences, but should be based on the overall situation.
In our daily lives, we often do this kind of stupid thing because of small mistakes. We don't often think that things are cheap, so we buy a lot of things, so that they can't be used up and wasted. We don't often see that people overtake each other in order to compete for a few seconds, so they get out of the car and argue, spend a longer time arguing, so there are people in court all day long, and therefore the knives and blood are facing each other, casting a big mistake, and there are not a few people who regret for life. Don't we often fall out with our friends for many years for the sake of sesame small things, and even do not interact with each other in old age, but we are still proud? Don't couples often have cold wars for small things for many days, and they don't know that they have lost their home pleasures? If you count those who have lost their reputation, their lives, and even their souls for the sake of small profits or greed for a while, the number of people is too numerous to count. Therefore, through the narrow part of the road, leave a step with the people; the taste is strong, minus three points for people to taste. All of this reminds us that we must not neglect long-term interests because we only take care of the immediate interests, and we must never lose the big because of small things, but should be good at reconciling contradictions and alleviating conflicts.
10. Reuse subordinates, mobilize their enthusiasm, use them for my own use, give full play to their value, not only achieve their own goals, but also make them full of energy and confidence, why not enjoy it?
11. Remember a famous saying of the Iron Man King Jinxi: "If there are conditions, we must go up; if there are no conditions, we must also go up if we create conditions." "If the conditions are very sufficient and the road is straight, then why bother? The problem is that all things are not easy and well-conditioned. Success requires our hard work and unprecedented creativity.
The British military strategist L. Hart Hart) said in The Indirect Route Strategy: "Strategically, the longest detour is often the shortest route to an end. In the competition of modern enterprises, "righteousness" to "profit", adhere to the "unity of nature and man", "value balance", and ethical management and moral management, in order to make the enterprise continue to develop healthily.
12. Traditional Chinese martial arts emphasize "static braking" and emphasize "four or two strokes of a thousand pounds". This wisdom of static braking is deeply rooted in the culture and philosophy of life of Chinese. It requires people to be good at resolving contradictions by means of "static braking". "Static" does not mean not moving, while being still, the situation is also changing, and the opportunities are also changing. It's like a still scene facing a flow of traffic. Although the scene is still, the vehicle it faces is no longer the same. In an emergency, there should be no chaos in the face of danger, and no panic should be dealt with. It is wise to respond to changes with invariance, to move the flag of the wind, to analyze the situation with a high degree of composure and calmness. The proper grasp of the measure and scale in this middle is the highest state of life in the world.
13. Since ancient times, those who are good at judging mutinies, like Zhang Jun, first conceal their patience and do not fight grass and snakes; then conspire under the tent and design in many ways; and finally, with the speed of lightning and concealment, severely punish the evil males and appease the people, and the rebels will surely collapse, reveal their original form, and bow down to their subjects. Those who are not good at mutiny will regard the rebels left and right as the culprits and attempt to annihilate them in one fell swoop, which will undoubtedly drive the masses to rebel and ask for bitter food, not only can not get what they want, but accelerate the process of failure. Don't show the hole card easily. If you show your hole cards too early, you will often lose in future battles. When the wings are not full, they should not be displayed around. The "hidden dragon in the abyss" in the "I Ching" refers to the gentleman's need to move from time to time, to be good at preserving himself, and not to act rashly. As the saying goes: "If you can't bear it, you will be chaotic and plotting." "People often can't suppress their temperament, do things that are not good for the big picture, and say things that shouldn't be said. The game maker must be good at controlling himself and understand what should be said and what cannot be said. What should not be said, no matter under what circumstances, no matter who to disclose, must be kept tight-lipped. Similarly, in the process of negotiation, do not easily show your hole cards, but let the opponent know less about his own motivations, authority and deadlines, the better, and the more you know about the other party's situation in this regard, the better.
14. For those who are in society some high society with status and status, they attach great importance to reputation. The issue of "face" is involved here, which should be said to be common to everyone, but the good is suspected of vanity. If this weakness of the other party in the interaction is captured through meticulous observation and properly exploited, it may also receive better results.
15. The benevolent Jia Tan showed great tolerance and tolerance for Fan Ze, who played improper means in front of the emperor to elevate himself, frame others, and finally take his place. We know that forbearance and tolerance are manifestations of great dignity and broad-mindedness, and they should be promoted. But there must be a principle and a boundary here: we should indeed advocate tolerance and tolerance for problems within the people and for non-principled issues, because this is conducive to resolving contradictions and strengthening unity. With regard to issues of principle, the enemy and the wicked, we must not only be intolerant and tolerant, but must also confront each other and struggle to the end. Only in this way can we expose its conspiracy, let people know its ugly features, beat the drum and attack it, and finally defeat it.
However, to this day, such benevolent and Jia-tan-style officials have not disappeared, and they have shown great tolerance and tolerance for the corrupt acts reflected by the masses, such as cheating, bullying and oppressing, and arbitrariness, and have expressed great restraint and warmth for all kinds of bad phenomena that are deeply hated by the common people. Are you worthy of the people who have given you power? ”
16. Lü Yijian's approach is really clever. Lao Tzu said, "What you want to destroy will be fixed, and what you will want to take away will be fixed." "If one overseer is killed, the other overseers will still exist; but if they are all withdrawn, if there is any fault in the army in the future, the eunuchs will be given a pretext." In order to get rid of the overseers, in the absence of confrontation with the eunuchs' forces, they skillfully used a clever trick to let the eunuchs themselves take the initiative to apply for removal, which is not ordinary cleverness and wisdom, and this roundabout strategy is used properly and can play an ideal effect in many aspects.
17. Zhao Lingtan is loyal, selfless and fearless, and single-mindedly serving the country. He dared to use the law to govern these male brothers. His words greatly moved the emperor. Such talents are really rare! The teachings of teachers are important, but the teachings of parents and families are equally important. How many officials and eunuchs have not gradually formed their ugly habits because of their parents' indulgence and doting? So that in the end, it hurt one side and made the people smell the teeth.
18. Sometimes, in the face of villains, upright people are often not trusted, and if you fight with each other strongly, not only can you not subdue them, but you may be framed by them. Then at this time, you can adopt the method of retreating into advance, first protect yourself, and then find an opportunity to subdue them.
19. Zhu Shengfei first raised and then suppressed, at first did not refuse the other party not to make iron coupons, but first stood on the other side's position, agreed to the other party's request, and then, in the face of facts and ethics, made the other party stop the non-points demand.
Rejection is an art. Sometimes, refusal does not have to be said, but first agree to the other party's request, and then do as it is required, through practice to find out its irregular and logical places, so that the other party automatically gives up, it is equivalent to rejecting the other party in disguise. In this way, it not only gives the other party face, but does not make the other party achieve the goal, which can be described as "killing two birds with one stone".
20. The emergence of stress events is not terrible, the key is to take positive and effective measures to solve. First of all, we must understand that no problem is impossible, it is normal to have problems, take the initiative to exercise their ability to cope with various things, exert subjective initiative, and take the initiative to deal with it. In addition, the standard should not be set too high, everything must be done step by step, one problem after another to solve, there must be a long-term plan.
Generally, after a problem occurs, the person will adjust through several systems. The first is the person's own adjustment system, such as finding a good friend to say things, which can play a role in resolving to a certain extent. Some people's own defense system will also have a role, turning pressure into motivation, but some people's pressure will be very heavy and difficult to convert into motivation. In addition, there are social support systems, such as finding friends to help out ideas and ways to pass, you can also use social institutions, etc., but these are all from the outside world, and you have to rely on yourself to avoid unsatisfactory smoothly. What needs attention is that it is necessary to strengthen the investigation and investigation of contradictions and problems, so as to make early discovery, early intervention, and early resolution, and promptly resolve problems at the grass-roots level.