The line in the movie, "The cruelest part of growing up is that girls are always more mature than boys of the same age." ”
Therefore, at the end of the story, leaving each other in the memory is the best ending for Ke Jingteng, who has a sense of childishness, and Shen Jiayi, who is over-aged and mature.
The pros and cons of Ke Jingteng's childishness are also very obvious, the two people did not get together in the end because of his childishness, and at the beginning of the story, Shen Jiayi's good feelings for him also began with his childishness.
Seventeen or eighteen-year-old boys look very childish, young and vigorous. Like Ke Jingteng, students with poor grades and various misunderstandings of good grades can throw a paper ball to engage in a pitching game, and they feel that their pitching posture is handsome enough. Speaking casually and also love to hurt people, take the mouth without covering up when Geng zhi...
However, such a cynical and childish boy in youth has a light on him.
When Shen Jiayi first saw his evaluation of himself in Ke Jingteng's English textbook, he couldn't help but laugh out loud; and when Shen Jiayi was scolded and cried by the instructor for the first time, and was punished as a bad student with Ke Jingteng and his friends, Ke Jingteng laughed at the broken nose when he said to Shen Jiayi.
Early reading and cleaning the two people did not forget the time when they were blatantly and childishly throwing books at each other; when Ke Jingteng, who was willing to gamble and lose after the monthly examination, cut a bowl of handsome bald heads; and when Ke Jingteng was specially called by other boys to worry that Shen Jiayi would hold hands and ask... So who in the end amazed whose youth?
Two people with very different personalities, complementary personalities are suitable for being friends, but they are not suitable for talking about friends. What girls need is the boy's responsibility and stability, but the boy treats a passion as a lonely courage.
As a result, naivety drew a bottomless horizontal ditch between the two people, and the closer Shen Jiayi leaned closer to the dark fear, the more panicked she became. In the face of the sense of security that Shen Jiayi wanted, the stability he wanted, Ke Jingteng did not understand, really like Shen Jiayi said, he did not understand anything.
Failed the college entrance examination, and Shen Jiayi, who has always been strong, cried and called Ke Jingteng. It was at that time that Shen Jiayi began to guide Ke Jingteng in the direction of boyfriend identity, and the helpless and naïve Ke Jingteng did not understand what this signal was.
He would only sit quietly, handing over tissues and even a vest, but he did not know how to give her the hug he needed most, and he did not even notice the extremely excited loss when he moved the hand that was ready to be placed on Shen Jiayi's shoulder to his back.
On the first Christmas date, when he walked on the tracks with his arms outstretched, he did not know how to take the initiative to hold Shen Jiayi's hand, which once made Shen Jiayi begin to doubt himself, thinking that Ke Jingteng imagined himself too well to dare to open his mouth.
When Shen Jiayi said, "I don't think you like me so much, you think of me too well, I am a very ordinary person...", the aggrieved Shen Jiayi is very distressing.
The meaning of her words is actually almost clear: Ke Jingteng, I am very ordinary, I am very good at chasing, you confess to me!
Ke Jingteng's delay in confessing will only make Shen Jiayi feel that she does not like her so much, because any mature girl will take it for granted that when a boy likes a girl, he will pursue it desperately.
Therefore, with the expectations written by Shen Jiayi on the wish lamp, you want to confess, we are together, you want the answer, I will give it to you now.
Unfortunately, the girl did not wait for the boy to confess bravely, and the boy thought that the girl was difficult to chase.
Missing the opportunity to confess, the boy held a fighting match to show his man's charm, which also made Shen Jiayi completely dead set out to stop giving him the opportunity to be a boyfriend.
What Ke Jingteng never understands is that in the eyes of mature girls, she never wants her loved one to be hurt a little, just like Monica in "Friends" broke up with a rich boyfriend who insisted on boxing, even if the two people are still in love, but she can't bear to see him seriously injured every time, she said she would be distressed.
I think when I saw Ke Jingteng being knocked down in the boxing ring, Shen Jiayi's heart also hurt, so there was a very ignorant, inconsiderate, and incomprehensible side of Shen Jiayi, and the anger, blame and roar in the rain were the last time she accused Ke Jingteng with the role of "girlfriend".
I like your childishness, and finally I like your childishness, so in the end our relationship can only be friends.
At the end of the story, Shen Jiayi said to Ke Jingteng, thank you for your liking. Ke Jingteng said to Shen Jiayi, then I have been so naïve.
After two years of contact is the time of the earthquake, Ke Jingteng called Shen Jiayi for the first time, and at the end of the chat, Ke Jingteng jokingly said that you are my youth, you lost, I am looking for someone to remember our story.
After all, the final story ends with Shen Jiayi belonging to the people in Ke Jingteng's memories.
The final ending of Ke Jingteng and Shen Jiayi did not have the regret of not being able to be together, some of which were our nostalgia for the empathy of youth, the nostalgia for those people and that person.
I once saw such a sentence on Lu Sihao's Weibo, and he said that people in his memories could not be seen.
"I know that when I met you, I will still like you, since I like you and can't love each other, see, it's gone, thank you, the favoritism outside of love at that time." But when I find someone more suitable than you to accompany, I think that you who rejected me in the first place are more mature and wiser than me. “
When I see this movie again, when I see Shen Jiayi get married, I think, I'm married, are you coming?
Ke Jingteng said that Shen Jiayi is his youth, to me, you are not, you are my best friend. "I haven't seen you for a long time", I hope to hear you laugh and say to me one day.
We often miss it, we look back at those years of blushing heartbeat, there are no regrets, only blessings. The more people grow up, they have lost all the way, and the only thing they will remember is the touch of those years and the youthful faces of you and me.
How long has it been since that day that we have new lives and new friends. Everyone talks and laughs, in addition to the longing is still thinking about remembering the love of the past, some people cry, some people laugh, some people still make my eyes red heartbeat, I tell those past to everyone to share, just like telling a story, telling a fairy tale. Under that tree, on that street corner, in those coordinates that can leave a record of being moved, they are all gifts from the past to the future, witnessing every destined happy life path, even if it is a parallel line, the same will be blessed, and may laugh and cry at the moment of turning around! ------ Yang Fan. "Let Go"
Thank you for being in my chaotic youth and amazing time.