Goethe once said: "As far as women are concerned in other areas of talent, as soon as a woman is married, her talent is finished." ”
In life, we are often able to hear stories of women after marriage from other people, some of whom have been happy, some of whom have complained, and some of whom have been numb.
So in today's environment of equality between men and women, how do women live? Is it really as we see, that after marriage can fade away, stuck to the current life to compete?
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Locke Jiahui, whose ancestral home is Taishan, Guangdong, China, was born in Seattle, Washington, USA, and has settled in the United States since his grandfather's generation, becoming an Asian-American family.
His grandfather left his hometown, he deeply understood that language is the first meaning of contact with a person, and in the face of reality, his grandfather had to exchange a job as a maid for an English course. Life is hard, especially for a person in an unfamiliar environment, life is even more lonely.
But he did not succumb to real life, he was diligent and down-to-earth, and from then on, an American dream was quietly stationed in this man's nerves, with a blood lineage, until his descendant Locke Jiahui took the position of governor of Washington, becoming the first Chinese governor in American history. His success is not accidental, it is all based on his own step by step solid and steady.
"The place was just a mile from the governor's mansion in Washington. It took my family a hundred years to complete this mile. ”
The above passage is Locke's view of his family history, from which we can see a man who has crossed nationality, gone through countless hardships, and stood in the position of governor as a victor.
On that day, he truly had his place in the United States. He is confident, talks in the face of the questions of the masses, and does not shy away from his own growth experience.
The solid foundation of political science coupled with the image of the people has made more and more people trust him, support him, and even US President Barack Obama praise him.
Locke is amazing, but the other person's name is also very loud! She is a descendant of Lan Ni, the daughter of the Miao King of Yunnan, and Luo Jiahui's former wife Li Meng.
Li Meng was beautiful and elegant, and she was awarded the title of "Miss Asian American" during her college studies, and Hillary Clinton once expressed her appreciation for Li Meng very directly.
In a word, Locke Jiahui can have today's achievements, Li Meng's contribution is indispensable!
Locke's success cannot be replicated, and likewise, a good woman like Lee Meng is unique. Mature people appreciate each other before they can become one.
Li Meng first met Locke Jiahui because of a special interview to talk about the program, she observed in detail, found that Locke Jiahui only 3 sets of suits to wear back and forth, so asked the reason, Locke Jiahui's frankness and talent attracted the attention of this Chinese woman, she felt that Locke Jiahui is not only humorous and witty, knows how to be grateful, but also has a keen grasp of politics, and his talent is even more admirable.
After the interview, Locke Jiahui immediately launched a passionate pursuit of Li Meng. Their temperaments are attracted to each other, and the three views are highly consistent.
Compared with Locke Jiahui, a confident and independent woman like Li Meng is rare, and marrying her is the greatest luck in his life. The fact that the married lives of the two also confirmed this.
While Li Meng was independent and self-reliant, he also took care of the image of a good wife and immediately won the admiration of others.
After graduation, Li Meng focused on the development of his career, and Locke's three marriage proposals were successful, which shows that this woman has a firm stance and a strong sense of enterprise. She appeared as a reporter on Seattle TELEVISION Channel 5, and she has her own pride as a famous person, but she has never stopped moving forward. However, for the sake of her family's "dream", she finally put down her own little "dream".
At that time, Locke had the intention of running for governor of Washington State, and Lee Immediately supported his husband with all his strength, and she said goodbye to the TV station, even in the ascendancy of her career, and did not regret it.
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During the pregnancy, Li Meng did not stop, she used her experience as a journalist and contacts to help her husband canvass votes, give speeches and press conferences for him. Because of this, in 1996, Locke was elected governor of Washington State to half her credit. Li Meng has always been behind her husband, supporting him, and Li Meng, who takes good care of him in the rear, is undoubtedly a good wife.
A discerning person, a virtuous and capable one
Outside of work, the two are more of a feeling of pity for each other, they have the ability to further broaden their respective careers, but they also attach importance to the construction of the family. In 2003, Locke announced that he would not seek re-election, and as a father of two daughters and a son, Locke intended to leave more time for the family and children.
And her wife, Li Meng, still decided to silently stick to her husband's needs. Her views on state and family affairs were deeply appreciated by Hillary, and she showed a strong interest in children's education, and she did her best to pass on maternal love to more children.
Oba President Ma thanked Lemon at the inauguration of Locke's secretary of commerce, "Because of you, the United States has such a good secretary of commerce." ”
In addition, Li Meng often accompanies Locke Jiahui to attend various activities, which shows that she has a generous temperament and talents beyond ordinary people, and the two can go hand in hand to create their own American dream.
There are only very few people in this world who can take care of both inside and outside like Li Meng, but also do a good job in various fields, such a "strong woman" is worth learning from our contemporary women.
Li Meng's excellence is not only reflected in the family with her husband Locke Jiahui, but also in his attitude towards the marriage problems of the two after divorce.
In 2017, Li Meng confirmed that he and Locke had been divorced for two years. As soon as this news came out, people in the industry were stunned, and they did not expect that the two would still attend the event together.
In this regard, Li Meng frankly said that even if the two of them have divorced, they are still good friends in life and good partners in their careers. It is rare to be so calm and generous. All this stems from Li Meng's self-confidence and insight, no matter what period of life, Li Meng can cope with it freely, self-reliant and self-reliant, she has never lacked her "position" in the society.
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"Life is like the ocean, only strong-willed people can reach the other shore"
In this era of equality between men and women, more and more attention is focused on female independent individuals, and we should show our unique abilities to women, rather than limiting ourselves to one side.
In this way, the progress of the family unit can better reflect that women have long been a presence in society that cannot be ignored, and even play a decisive role.
Whether we are in the family or as an individual, we should strive hard at every stage of our lives, only excellent insight, solid foundation can help us go farther and farther, and the road of the adult world will become wider and wider.