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Ah Zhe came back from a business trip, and the first thing he did when he got off the train was to call a friend: "Hey, come out and have a drink!" ”
The friend asked, "Where are you?" ”
Ah Zhe replied: "I just got off the train"
The friend said: "Don't make trouble, drinking can't drink on any day, you just came back from a business trip, it is the right thing to go home first, who just came back from a business trip to find a friend to drink first?" ”
Ah Zhe was not spared on the phone, insisting on drinking first and then going home. His friend hushed down many times, but in the end he did not beat Ah Zhe. At dinner, the friend again talked about the old saying: Is it really okay if you don't go home?
Ah Zhe replied disapprovingly: You are not bothered, you have said that it is okay, I have a measure of my own affairs, besides, the one in my family only recognizes money and does not recognize people.
Friends are also very interesting, did not continue to ask, so many years of friendship, each other can also be regarded as a very good understanding, even if Ah Zhe does not say, but the friend also probably knows what the reason is? It's as if there are some things that you know each other well, and there's really no need to put them in the name.
Friends who are familiar with Ah Zhe know that there is one reason why Ah Zhe is unwilling to go home, that is, to go home in his heart, because for Ah Zhe, going home is a painful word, and it is better to be at ease outside and be extremely comfortable.
A Zhe is 33 years old this year, married for 4 years, his daughter is 2 years old, and his career is successful, in the eyes of outsiders, Ah Zhe's life seems to have no regrets, but the truth is indescribable.
I and Azhe met through friends, each other is not very familiar, just a few meals together, in fact, I am also very curious about Azhe's story, but I am very sensible and did not take the initiative to ask, as if everyone has a story, but not necessarily see one to say one.
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That night, Ah Zhe drank a lot of wine, talked a lot, chatted and talked, as if to evoke Ah Zhe's sad past, and then Ah Zhe suddenly asked me: "Do you know why I don't want to go home?" ”
I shook my head and said I didn't know.
Ah Zhe did not sell GuanZi to me through the strength of wine, and it seems that he also wants to say what he thinks in his heart, which is also a kind of venting!
Ah Zhe said that there is only one reason why I don't want to go home, that is, I am happier outside than at home, the mood is more comfortable, you don't know, my home, not even a place to walk, the home is simply more chaotic than the toilet, and even can be directly described in two words, dirty and messy.
From Ah Zhe's mouth, I probably understood something, and probably understood why Ah Zhe didn't want to go home, why Ah Zhe's wife wouldn't take care of Ah Zhe.
A zhe is 33 years old this year, looks very clean, very sharp a man, the biggest hobby in life is that he likes to clean at home, not because A zhe has a cleaning habit, but because A zhe likes to clean up the house a little, because he thinks that it will look very warm and look like a home.
And the wife is the opposite of Ah Zhe, delicious lazy to do, but also lazy to the extreme, never clean up the health of the home, will not take the initiative to do housework, every day food all rely on ordering takeaway, unless there is no clothes to change, will reluctantly open the washing machine, as long as Ah Zhe is not at home, the dishes in the sink can always be stacked higher than the pool.
Usually, the sofa at home, the living room, the shoe cabinet, is simply incomprehensible, so every time Ah Zhe is in a good mood in front of him, but as long as he returns home and sees the messy home, he always does not hit the fire, and his heart feels blocked and panicked, and he can't breathe.
In the past, Ah Zhe often quarreled with his wife because of these, ah zhe said, I am usually busy at work, you do not do anything at home, do not ask you to clean up the home, but at least you have to see the past, can't you? Aren't we comfortable looking at ourselves?
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As a result, the wife replied: I think this is very good! Home is to be a little messy to have the appearance of home.
Later, once Ah Zhe was angry and accused her of not doing housework, and as a result, she replied uncompromisingly: "Why do you want me to do it, why don't you do it", Ah Zhe said that I don't want to go to work? I'm not going to make money, what do you eat? What to drink?
The wife still replied with a straight face: "It is great to earn money!" People's husbands earn no less than you, but they still don't go home every day to wash clothes and cook."
Later, Ah Zhe never mentioned it in front of her again.
And she still maintains the previous style, every day is beautiful, one person eats the whole family is not hungry, immersed in her own world.
Ah Zhe has been married to her for 4 years, she has not worked a day, she said that she is a woman, she should be supported by a man, how tired to work! Ah Zhe said that it doesn't matter if she doesn't go to work, I can also afford to raise her, but I just can't get used to her delicious and lazy cooking, I am so busy every day, can't she help me share a little? After 4 years of marriage, the family has always been cleaned up by me, and I am alone to support a home, am I not tired?
The child is carried by the mother-in-law, and her task, in addition to sleeping every day, is to go out to play, would rather lie on the sofa and watch boring TV series, rather than pick up the broom to clean the house, clothes are thrown away, shoes are thrown around, especially the bathroom, it is a mess, and she really can see it at home every day.
Ah Zhe said that she simply interpreted the four words of delicious and lazy to the fullest, not doing housework at all, but she did not know how to give except to know how to take.
In fact, before getting married, Ah Zhe knew that she was lazy and lazy, but at that time, because of the novelty, because I liked it, and Ah Zhe felt that now women are like this, after getting married, they will naturally become better.
Later, Ah Zhe learned that a person's inferior roots are predestined by heaven, and the so-called Jiangshan is easy to change and difficult to move, but unfortunately Ah Zhe knows too late.
Azzie, who is 33 years old, then told me: a man who would rather be single for the rest of his life than marry such a woman. A woman who eats well and is lazy is definitely a nightmare in marriage, and such a woman is like a vampire, a parasite, that makes you cry and has no place to cry.
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