At a certain age, what bothers you is not only the hardships of life, but also the urging of marriage from your parents. In their eyes, getting married is the biggest thing in their lives, and only getting married is your lifelong guarantee. They always remind you that when you are old enough to get married, you have to go step by step.
Parents who want to control the route planned at birth throughout their lives will be attacked by "for your own good" if they deviate from their course. In the matter of marriage, they seem to be selectively understanding obstacles, and the result of breaking their lips is: Don't be angry with me, let me save my snacks! Stubborn thinking really wants to give them a key to empty the garbage bin.
In this day and age, we don't need to rely on anyone to be happy, why do we need to have a marriage to set off our own good and bad lives. Parents always think that there is someone who can live together and will share their worries, but can a piece of paper be punctured to ensure that that person can take on his/her responsibilities for a lifetime?
Everyone is an adult, responsible for their every move, and can support themselves independently. So if that person's appearance is not to make the current life better, why bother with each other, every day in addition to the trivial life of commuting to and from work, but also have to take care of the lifestyle and emotions of another person, in the face of the friction in life collapse to shout at one person.
The principle of adhering to it for so long does not want to be denied for a moment, the marriage certificate will not guarantee that the responsibility should be paid well, so why should life choose to be, look at a face that does not feel like living the same life as others every day, and then year after year until old, sitting in a rocking chair to recall if you choose the right person in this life will not have different ripples, with a lifetime to prove how wrong the original decision was.
The meaning of the existence of the other half of everyone should be the icing on the cake, because your appearance makes my life more beautiful is the ultimate destination of marriage, in all the people who are not the right time to meet, then I can take good care of myself, repair the roof lights and also move to buy the rice, earn money to support the family and play with the wine in the cup.
I don't believe in long-term affection, at first glance you did not enter my heart, even if you feel that the other party is as good as each other, it is only suitable for being a friend. Because the world of feelings does not need to be rational and calm, he is not your first glance of the special is not the feeling of rapid heartbeat, then what you accept is only the touch after he pays, love, is the heartbeat of that moment and the uncontrollable emotion can not help it, in the case of rational analysis of feelings can only be concluded: suitable.
I have my own ideal ending about love, it does not matter whether it should be knotted or not, whether it is old or not, just because two hearts will have a wonderful induction when they are close, and the right person appears like a positive pole with a huge magnetic force, which can only attract me to a matching negative pole.
Feelings should have their own positionSinking to simply talk about a relationship, and you are starting from mutual appreciation. I want you to be the one who ignores the presence of other people and is the one in the crowd who can be locked on at a glance. All your high coldness is only gentle in front of me, removing all disguises shows all childishness and vulnerability in front of me, I am a shoulder you can rely on and a trust that you can unload your defenses. Because you are the right person, everyone else automatically and implicitly rejects everyone's ambiguity, and the first time they meet you, their eyes, hearts, and minds are full. Marriage is not to throw yourself "bar" on another person to completely rely on him, you will be disappointed because of expectations and he will also be tired because of too much burden, and there is no longer the beauty of love between husband and wife. The best state is to have their own responsibilities, you have lived well alone before you met him, it is not a reason to get married completely entrusting yourself to another person, and the more than twenty years before you met him have also been very good, and more people are not the reason for you to become semi-self-conscious.
The phrase "don't trouble others with what you can do" also applies to marriage, don't rely too much on anyone. You are not married to a nanny, washing clothes, cooking and taking children is not a compulsory course for her; you are not married to a god, he can not make more money and accompany you to three meals a day, let alone unconditionally tolerate your temper and unreasonable trouble.
So what you need to get married is courage, love needs to be impulsive, you are not a princess, so the person who marries will not be a prince, and it is not a pleasant thing to be picky and like too much. As long as he can bring you a heartwarming feeling, why care if you can hold it for a long time, like is not necessarily for yourself, sometimes there is a person who makes you stand where you can see him, happy for his happiness and pride for his achievements is also a fortunate thing, at least there is that person can let you experience the feeling of liking.
However, the ex is like a mango, who once tasted his taste, and then no matter how much he missed it, he finally lost the courage to enter, because you know that even if it is sweet and once it is ingested, it will be itchy, he is only suitable for the delicious taste of the past to stay in the memory, and picking it up again is only the result of the first time he learned to put it down.
Look forward to love, no matter how much you have experienced, believe that love will still come, and devote yourself to the first second of his arrival, do not ask the ending does not care how long, only care about love!