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"I'm ugly, but I'm gentle" original singer Zhao Chuan, 12 years of marriage, finally separated

author:The little monk has a glass of water

Speaking of the name Zhao Chuan, many people may not know, but when it comes to these two songs, you must have heard and been impressed, "I am ugly, but I am gentle" in the lyrics of "Although I am ugly, but I am very gentle, if you don't believe it, please ask the corgi dog raised by my next-door neighbor" Ordinary lyrics, slowly telling us is Zhao Chuan's gentleness. There is also "I am a little bird" at that time this song sang how many ordinary, can not find a way out of the heart of the voice, now it sounds, still very moving.

"I'm ugly, but I'm gentle" original singer Zhao Chuan, 12 years of marriage, finally separated

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His songs, such as his people. Zhao Chuan really looks too ordinary, just like the passers-by you walking next to you on the street, you will not have any illusions about his appearance. Some netizens said that if Zhao Chuan said that in this era of valuing appearance, then he is estimated to be only an ordinary person, living an ordinary life, going to the market to buy vegetables, going to work, helping to take care of children, singing when there is time, or living behind the scenes. Fortunately, he became famous early, let us remember him.

In 1998, Zhao Chuan married Li Bingzhen, a girl from Shanghai, and after marriage, the two had two daughters and a son. In fact, the marriage relationship between the two people has been incompatible in the early days, but it has not been announced for the sake of the children. In 2010, the two people had already broken up peacefully, but there was still contact after the breakup. Zhao Chuan said in an interview that the reason why the two broke up was because of personality incompatibility.

"I'm ugly, but I'm gentle" original singer Zhao Chuan, 12 years of marriage, finally separated

The word personality breakup has been heard too many times, why do you care so much about each other when you are in love, and only after being together did you find that the two are actually not suitable. This tells us that love is not marriage, love is not the same as marriage, marriage should be based on love, yes, but in addition to love, but also need economic conditions, as well as personality complementarity. Why are some couples, the wife is very grumpy, like a "tigress", but the husband and wife still get along very well, and even work together to whitehead. And some people look at the appearance of men and women, very matched, but divorced within a few years of marriage, personality is a very important factor. Why can the former couple grow old, because his husband has a gentle personality and can tolerate his wife's violent temper, so the two can get along with each other. And the latter, although the appearance looks like a match, but after the two sides get along, they find that there is a big difference between the three views between each other, and this difference is rubbed in daily life, and finally broke out, and can only break up.

"I'm ugly, but I'm gentle" original singer Zhao Chuan, 12 years of marriage, finally separated

Before getting married, both parties must live together like husband and wife for a while, and in the process of living together, they can find each other's shortcomings and contradictions. If these contradictions can be resolved smoothly, then the two parties can get along well after marriage, and if these contradictions cannot be resolved, the final outcome can only be one shot and two scatters. Of course, in addition to personality discord, there will be many factors that lead to the two breaking up, such as too much love for each other, this love has reached a "deformed" state, the other party "imprisoned" around themselves, such love is very tired, in fact, too much care about each other is not a healthy love mode. If measured on scales, the love you give is already grossly out of the mark on the scale. Love in love is mutual, not one-way, and then mutual love intersects, and one-way love is always off course.

"I'm ugly, but I'm gentle" original singer Zhao Chuan, 12 years of marriage, finally separated

Although Zhao Chuan and Li Bingzhen ended their 12-year marriage life, after the divorce, the two still lived peacefully and raised each other's children. Such a way is probably an ideal state for children, and if there is no divorce, the accumulated contradictions and quarrels will be even worse for children. Marriage is a big event in life, if it were not for the irreconcilable problems, no one would want to end it easily, after all, at the beginning of the love is also vigorous.

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