Text/Xi Xi Huan
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In a love, I believe that no one will be unwilling to hear the other party say the three words "I love you", especially for women with more delicate emotions, men's love words will sometimes give her confidence to the greatest extent, making her feel that she has become the person that men prefer in their hearts.
However, if men really feel that women only care about sweet words in love, I am afraid that the final result may not be satisfactory.
Maybe some men will feel that women want too much, the requirements for men are too high, in fact, that is a misunderstanding of women, in love, women care most about these three things, as a man, and what degree do you seriously understand? How many things have you given to her beloved?
Security
Women caught in a relationship are often prone to gain and loss, there is a law is very common, men are more and more confident after establishing a relationship, but do not have the enthusiasm when they just fell in love, on the contrary, women may not be very enthusiastic when they are pursued by men, but with the establishment of the relationship, the payment of feelings, but more and more care about this relationship.
Such a pattern causes a woman to become more and more insecure, especially after feeling the change in the man, she will be jealous of herself, is he not loving me? Is he tired of me?
The reason why women have such a feeling shows that men must have places that cannot be done in the process of interacting with women, so women will have negative speculations in their hearts.
Men should know that in fact, what women want is very simple, that is, the sense of solidity and security you give her, if you have her in your heart, you must understand her worries and grievances.
Maybe you are really at work and busy all day, maybe you are too busy to even have time to eat, but be sure to remember to say peace with her, or send a "I miss you", it is enough to let her continue to be happy in this relationship.
The reason why a woman cares about the sense of security given by a man is because she still cares about this man in her heart, so she is afraid of losing a man, afraid that she is no longer the most special existence in a man's heart.
Some men may feel that this is a very distressing thing to have humanity, knowing that they have not changed anything, why don't women get the security they want? In fact, it is because men do not guess the careful thinking of women.
Women may lie to you, will complain to you, all because of your negligence to her makes her feel snubbed, so the heart will feel uneasy, want to eliminate their uneasiness is also very simple, that is, brush your sense of presence in front of her, let her perceive that you are by her side, even if you are not by her side, your heart is also worried about her.
Men who know how to do this tend to get a lover who understands him more and is more empathetic.
Men's singleness
Some people say that men are born with flowers, even if they say that they only love one woman, but their hearts may have cheated countless times.
Although the words are somewhat absolute, I believe that no woman can accept and tolerate such a thing as a man cheating, because the feelings are selfish, and they pay attention to the only one, and they cannot tolerate the existence of a third person.
Whether a man's specificity directly determines a woman's attitude towards this relationship, that is, only if a woman thinks that a man's feelings for her are sufficiently dedicated, she will take this relationship 100% seriously and pay for this man.
Conversely, if the man is not single-minded and makes the woman feel respected, then she will not take the relationship too seriously.
Friend Sun Yang is always called "love brain", everyone laughed at her and said that as long as she hears the three words "I love you", she can simply go to the soup for each other.
But in fact, Sun Yang herself feels that the reason why she is willing to give all her emotions for the other party is not only for the sentence "I love you", but also for men to make her feel that it is worth it.
Sun Yang's first love is a very handsome boy, but this boy not only charmed Sun Yang alone, but also other girls, so he was finally discovered by Sun Yang who had three girlfriends at the same time.
Although the boy repeatedly stressed that his favorite is Sun Yang and hopes to continue walking with her, Sun Yang understands that the other party is not single-minded and unfaithful to feelings, even if he says "I love you" to her every day is meaningless, so she does not hesitate to propose to break up.
Later, Sun Yang made a boyfriend, a very wooden man, who would not say anything sweet, but Sun Yang always mentioned him with a sweet and happy face, because she knew that men were absolutely exclusive to her, and she was also convinced that only she could be seen in men's eyes.
I have to say that the man is very smart, although on the surface he does not understand the style, but he gave Sun Yang the most wanted sense of certainty, and the feelings between the two people also warmed up.
wish
It is said that women are pragmatic, after all, the wind and snow can not replace the trivialities in life, so it is understandable that women can look at each other's ability when choosing love and choosing a partner.
A man can talk sweetly again and coax women to be happy again, and if he makes women invisible to the future hope of two people together, then the relationship will not last long.
Many men feel that if they want to get a woman's heart, they must say more love words that she loves to hear and give her favorite gifts, but these can only bring women a moment of joy and emotion, and cannot make women really recognize this man.
If men only know how to enjoy the life in front of them, and there is no plan for the future, it means that there is no sense of responsibility, nor do they think of having a home with women that belong to two people, women can't feel the man's responsibility, how can they be willing to pay their own sincerity?
So, men have to understand that if you really want to go further with her, then show your sincerity and let her see the efforts you have made for your feelings, at least you want to make her feel that with you, the future life is hopeful, not all the time.
Men who can make women feel more hopeful are usually very assertive, whether it is work, life or emotion, he has a certain degree of control, which will not make women feel that men are tyrannical and domineering, but will bring women a more solid sense, and will make women feel at ease to hand over the rest of their lives to men's hands.
For feelings, everyone knows to pay, but how to pay, we must first know what the other party really needs, which is the real half the effort.
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