Teacher Zhao Zhongxiang is gone, the earliest big coffee in the Chinese hosting industry, leaving the deepest impression on many people in addition to the 12-year Spring Festival Gala host, it is estimated that whenever you look at the animal world, the magnetic baritone inside: "Spring has arrived, everything is revived, and it is the season of animal mating." ”
We Chinese pay attention to the fact that the dead are great, people die, they disappear, there is nothing to worry about. Death may be a fig leaf for some, and the deceased rests in peace.
But teacher Zhao and Dr. Rao's little thing, all the information is recommended by the artificial intelligence data package today, whether you are on social media or the website to search for his name, automatically search one and send one to bring.
It is estimated that people with curiosity can't help but open the old smell to take a look, is the truth not known, but still think this set of good eyes, is there?
In the mid-1990s, Dr. Rao was a young, beautiful, and knowledgeable professional, why did he lean on his thighs? It is very incomprehensible, one born in 1942, one born in 1965, 23 years old age difference, followed him for seven years, only received a bottle of perfume, a little living expenses, the house is rented.
But she was fascinated by him to abandon her husband, divorce, quit her job, beat the fetus, commit suicide, waiting for him to divorce but was abandoned, what is this? Isn't all elements of the current popular PUA included?
Was Dr. Rao PUA? Or do you give everything for love, and if you don't get it, love will give rise to hate? Or is it self-willing to fall and climb high branches, preferring to paste upside down to do small three? This question, well, is hard to answer. Let's take a look at what PUA is!
According to a certain encyclopedia, pua, the full name (pick-up artist) originated in the United States, literally, is the art of hooking, from simple hookup to the entire process of gender interaction, mainly involving, hooking (first acquaintance), attraction (interaction), establishing contact, upgrading relationships, until intimate contact occurs and determines gender relations. And now in China, pua means to brainwash the opposite sex.
According to an article published by the Overseas Edition of the People's Daily on October 11 last year, the truth of PUA science exposed was:
"Deception, deception, seduction... Do not hesitate to cause the other party to commit suicide to achieve the purpose of emotional manipulation. ”
Looking at Dr. Rao's diaries and books, these words are quite a few. She said that after she was raped for the first time in the name of being seen by him, she softened her heart after saying a few thoughtful words.
Excerpt from The Diary of Dr. Rao on Weibo
Whether this is rape or seduction is a matter of opinion, in short, Dr. Rao has been involved in an extramarital affair for 7 years since then.
As everyone knows, all passions have a shelf life. Whether it's before marriage, inside or outside of marriage. Dr. Rao's extramarital affair is no exception. But she had fallen too deeply, listened to his words to get a fetus, quit her job to study Chinese medicine health care, gave up the opportunity to go abroad, endured his sexual abuse, committed suicide, and the whole person revolved around him.
Finally tearing up the faces, recording each other, and going to court. But this was not a tie-breaker, and the lawsuit ended in Dr. Rao's defeat.
All of the above aspects conform to the PUA routine, right? Except for the final counterattack.
Dr. Rao finally fought back against this series of operations, publicly published a diary, exploded recordings, sued the court, published a book, and accepted interviews, how to look like because he gave everything, but he did not get rewarded, and after being abandoned, he was born of love and hate, and both sides were hurt.
This warns us female compatriots, no matter what kind of passion, there will be a deadline, if it is before marriage or marriage, enjoy it, but do not put yourself into it, there is no self, always maintain the ability to withdraw at any time is a must for modern women.
And if it is an extramarital affair, it is really prudent! No diamonds, don't do porcelain work. Without the determination to stop the loss in time, you will only cry and complain that there is no way, and if you are not careful, you will put the second half of your life into it.