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Parents should all hope that their children will have a smooth sailing in the years to come, get the favor of fate, suffer less hardships, and live a stable and happy life. Therefore, if parents have the opportunity to express their wishes to their children, they should give the most beautiful wishes to their children. However, when The Chief Justice of the United States, Mr. John Roberts, delivered a speech at his son's junior high school graduation ceremony, he did not directly send good luck and blessings to his son, but wished his son misfortune and pain.
When I first heard that a father wished his son pain and misfortune, some people may think that this father must be "cold-blooded" and "vicious". However, reading the content of his speech will reveal that this is a wise father expressing deep love to his son.
In fact, I hope that children will grow up as soon as possible in the midst of suffering
Maybe the chancellor's blessing doesn't sound very pleasant, but it's actually educating the child on a sword-to-edge approach. Here's an excerpt from his speech, where he says, "In the years to come, I want you to be treated unfairly so that you understand the value of justice." I want you to be betrayed so that you understand the importance of loyalty. I'm sorry, but I also hope that you will always feel lonely so that you don't take your best friends for granted. May you have bad luck once in a while, so that you will realize that your own success is not taken for granted, and the failures of others are not to blame..."
It can be seen that the justice is ostensibly wishing the child misfortune and pain, but in fact he is telling the child in a novel way, hoping that the child will continue to learn lessons from misfortune and pain, gain something, and grow up as soon as possible. Don't be a delicate flower that has never been seen before and does not know how to cherish. Because this speech was full of parents' love for their children, it also won a round of applause from the audience.
Parents teach their children not to give him positive encouragement all the time, but also to let him know the pain of reality
In the eyes of many parents, the child's vigorous growth needs patient care and constantly gives him positive strength. However, when the child is slowly establishing his own outlook on life and the world, and begins to face this complex world, he actually needs parents like the justice above, when he is at an important fork in the road in life, use unpleasant "bad words" to give him a slap on the head, reminding him how to balance his mentality, face life, and deal with the ups and downs in life.
Parents should let their children know the truth about life and teach them to continue to love life
The child's life is very long, instead of wrapping the child in sugar coating and letting him temporarily stay away from the pain of reality, it is better to let the child know the truth of life and teach them to continue to love life, which is what parents should do in educating their children. To borrow a phrase from Romain Rolland, "There is only one true heroism in the world, that is, after recognizing the truth of life, you still love life." I hope that children will have the ability to live independently and actively as soon as possible.
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