The Buddha said that there are "eight sufferings" in life, "birth, old age, illness, death, love and separation, resentment and hatred, unattainable, yin and blazing", and the Path has exhausted the cycle of fate of all sentient beings. Love is no better than marriage, there is no distinction between poor and poor, beautiful and ugly, with the most equal attributes in the world, even if it is a Tang monk, when the king of the daughter country is deeply retained, his heart has a momentary trembling.
Love is the purest emotion in the world, and fate often inadvertently arranges a wonderful encounter for you. Maybe on campus, on the road, in the workplace, everyone can taste it. Maybe it's just a hazy affection, or a silent crush, or a fiery pursuit. So, don't say "you don't have love", maybe your love has quietly left, or "love you", not "you love".
However, the fruit of love is often bitter, just like the love of "a poetic Thousand Waterfalls, April Day on the Ancient Earth" Lin Weiyin, the first talented woman of the Republic of China, "love, do not love, has been saying goodbye". But love is also the most precious, and only after experiencing life will it be complete.
What is marriage? Zhang Ailing said, "Marriage is the graveyard of love", but few people know the second half of this sentence, "Without marriage, love will die without a place to bury." "As many of our friends grow older, they often encounter the dilemma of being urged to marry and being blind dates. We complain that our parents "don't understand ourselves," but how can we understand their feelings of "wanting us to grow up and take responsibility."
Love is pure, does not require material equality, and the poor boy can also have the qualifications to fall in love with the princess. Marriage has a cost, not only material efforts, but also the embodiment of responsibility, because marriage is a debt owed in previous lives. You know, the results of the fateful situation in the previous life make us "love and part, complain for a long time, can't ask for it, can't put it down", and this life can only be repaid by marriage.
So, when you give everything for love and get nothing, don't be discouraged and desperate. Friend, if you give everything you have in this life, he or she will spend his or her life "paying the bill" in the next life.