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Years flies, youth is short. Everyone has had the years of youth, everyone has had a time of confusion, no matter how absurd the years are, we always have to experience it.
"Whose Youth Is Not Confused" is a spiritual guide for all young people and a gift for the growth of all peers. The 30-year-old Liu Tong looks back at his ten years of growth in the north drift, summarizes the past experience of this decade, feels and thinks, builds a three-dimensional world with words in the interlacing of time and space, and sees the roads he has traveled, the stories that have happened and the people he has met. Then found that we grew up in this way, youth is not an age, but a state, you feel lonely is right, you feel confused is right, whose youth is not confused? This is a warm and fresh inspirational book, and there are many authors who have summarized their own life insights, which are very worthy of reference by their peers. It represents the mental journey and growth of the post-80s generation of young people, allowing people to read the narrator's true feelings, have the desire to communicate, have resonance and touch, have gains, and can learn from their own lives and outlook on life.
When I was in college, a friend gave me this book on my birthday. When I saw the book cover, I thought it was a novel, but I didn't expect it to be an "autobiography", which was Mr. Liu Tong's review of his past experience. Some of his words are thought-provoking, "Whose Youth Is Not Confused" is my favorite reading, looking at it has too many feelings, too much comfort.
1. Most people's youth is confused
In our youth, confusion is a very familiar psychological state. We are often full of ambition, but we are often depressed by setbacks; we often play with friends, but we are often lonely; we are eager to harvest a sweet love, but we look forward because of the bustling red dust; we are energetic and aggressive, but we lack experience and qualifications and appear young; we want a stable place to live, but we are helpless to live because of the frightening house prices... In our youth, we may be a combination of contradictions, thinking more and doing less. No wonder the author says: Whose youth is not confused.
2. It is precisely because of confusion that the future is full of ideals and beauty
Seeing clearly is also a kind of beauty - hazy beauty. Confusion is the normal state of youth, and it is also a warning sign on the road of life. It is precisely because of confusion that there is motivation to continue to move forward, and there is the possibility of realizing dreams. Everyone has a time of confusion, and the confusion experienced in youth is roughly similar. Each stage of life is a new challenge to ourselves, we will also have a period of confusion at each stage, when we just enter a new environment, there will always be some discomfort, we have not yet been equipped with a sword, and in the blink of an eye, we have entered the jianghu.
3. The most important thing is to grasp the moment and enjoy youth
Who can grasp the future? I think everyone dares to say yes. The future is full of unknowns, and it is certainly full of confusion, but as long as there is another goal, even if it is in the opposite direction, it will eventually reach the end. Confusion is not terrible, what is terrible is going astray. Good thing I didn't.
The youth we have passed and are experiencing are all deep and shallow left by ourselves, each choice carries the efforts of the past, and every dream carries the weight of growth, even if it is repeated and not copied. And confusion is also a normal state of youth, just like blandness. When you are not confused and can know the answer soberly, it is a time to look back and reminisce about the past, and I think that you are also dying at that time. So, enjoy the moment, because youth is far more dazzling than confusion.
Whose youth is not confused, growth is not easy. Don't choose to be comfortable when you are young and fighting, maybe the road ahead is still invisible and there is no end in sight. But so what? You can't be disappointed in the future or even deny your efforts because of your temporary confusion.
Whose youth is not confused, in fact, we are all the same. We always grow in exploration, grow after falling, and create our own colorful future with our own hands and feet. Whose youth is not confused, in fact, we are all the same, the same youth, the same confusion. But still on the way...