It is said that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and they can meet good neighbors who are close to each other, which directly improves the happiness index of life, gets along with each other, and can take care of each other.
However, Ms. Ji, who lives in Taoyuan Yaju in Licang District, mentioned the neighbors at the door, feeling very speechless, the two families were sword-fighting, and they lived a life of fear every day.
Ji Yonghua is 60 years old and lives in Taoyuan Yaju in Licang District. It is said that at this age, she should enjoy her old age and live happily; but for the past two years, she has lived in fear every day, and even needs monitoring to do security. Why did the neighbors who were supposed to be harmonious and friendly on the same floor and living on the opposite door fall to such a point?
Ji Yonghua recalled that one day in 2018, she accidentally saw Mr. Ji at the door cut down a cherry blossom tree with a diameter of 12 centimeters at the door of the unit, asked a few questions herself, and saw that the other party was not waiting to see, so she silently returned home. After that, the neighbors continued to talk to each other, but she found that Mr. Ji's family did not take care of themselves much, and Ji Yonghua did not care too much. Until 2019.
Ji Yonghua said: "In August and September, I cut the figs in front of my door, I said two words, and he used this as an excuse to intercept me in the corridor with his wife and beat me up. The neighbors all came out that day and pulled me, or they would have beaten me up. ”
The neighbor's attitude towards himself changed greatly, and Ji Yonghua was puzzled, but he did not investigate deeply. I thought that the well water did not violate the river water, so I lived my own life, but life often backfired, and soon, the contradiction between the two families escalated again...
Ji Yonghua was sent to the hospital by the colleagues of the property, after more than 40 days of hospitalization, in January 2020, he was discharged from the police station to deal with this matter, the son of the Ji family was originally going to accept punishment, but Ji Yonghua only let him compensate for the medical expenses for the sake of the neighbors, and did not pursue his responsibility. However, the other party did not pay for it, and Ji Yonghua sued him in court.
Ji Yonghua said that from here, the relationship between the two families fell to a freezing point. The family began to harass them frequently, although they also called the police, but the situation became more and more intense, and the family came in and out, and they were uneasy.
If the contradiction between the two families is only between the two sides, Ji Yonghua and the opposite door live on the first floor, and what worries her most is that the two families are inseparable, which will affect the neighbors on the whole floor.
Because of all kinds of trivialities, the lives of the two families have become mutual surveillance and destruction. A few days after the New Year this year, I entered the police station again, and I also wrote a letter of guarantee to Mr. Menji that there would be no more quarrels, beatings, and other things with Ji Yonghua, but this guarantee was only an empty paper, and the two sides did not stop.
Ji Yonghua's relationship with the other door is getting more and more rigid, and even if he doesn't agree with each other, how can he live a normal life? What made Ji Yonghua feel even more puzzled was that what exactly did he do badly would make him hate himself so much? At this time, the hostess of the opposite door returned, and the reporter wanted to take the opportunity to communicate with the opposite door, so can the contradiction between the two neighbors be resolved?
When it comes to the right door, Ms. Shao also has a lot of dissatisfaction with this neighbor in her words, and things don't seem to be as simple as Ji Yonghua said. Seeing that the other party directly closed the door, the reporter telephoned Mr. Ji of the 101 households on the opposite door.
Subsequently, the reporter came to Mr. Ji's house again, and his wife, Ms. Shao, told the cause of the entanglement between the two families.
Ms. Shao admitted that at first, when they first moved over, there was no monitoring installed, and the relationship between the two sides reached the current point, and they were forced to force the door.
What Ms. Shao said was that it was Ji Yonghua's hospitalization that brought the relationship between the two sides down to a freezing point. She believes that the neighbor to the door is taking the opportunity to find trouble, not only that, but what Ji Yonghua has done to his family is also very excessive.
It can be seen that the two families have a lot of resentment towards each other. In addition to the above, the main contradiction between the two sides at present is the occupation of the common area on the first floor.
On the one hand, it is said that the parking of vehicles is because the gate cannot be closed, and on the other hand, it is said that the chain is not closed for personal safety, and the two families have their own reasons. But after all, they are neighbors who look down and don't look up, so why torture each other so hard? What's more, Ji Yonghua deliberately turned Gan Ge into a jade veil, can the knot in the hearts of both sides be resolved? The reporter took the two to the Taoyuan community together and asked both sides to talk about the problem here.
When they met without saying a few words, the two sides quarreled again in the community, and the community staff said that the two families had been in conflict for a long time, and they had mediated many times, and it was difficult to solve it for a while. Is it really so hard to live a peaceful life?
In the end, mediation failed...