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"Never let your daughter marry someone who likes Naran's sex", a sentence from the father-in-law, made the boy sad

author:Flip through the pages of the book in a breeze

As a young man born in the early 1980s, I still remember when I was in college, the little brother in the next class asked me: "Do you like Haizi or Wang Guozhen?" I told the truth: "Of course it is Haizi, and the poems written by Wang Guozhen cannot be appreciated at all!" "As a result, for a full 3 months, the little brother did not pay attention to me again.

It sounds like an incredible thing, but for our generation of young liberal arts youth, it really happens from time to time. What I didn't expect was that a similar thing had happened around me recently, and it was also related to Naranjand.

Here's the thing: My friend Xiao Chen is from Gansu, talked about a Chengdu girlfriend in college, and after graduation, he followed his girlfriend to Chengdu to work hard. As a result, the two talked about marriage and got married, but the father-in-law accidentally learned that he was usually obsessed with the words of Naran sex, and he was quite unhappy, saying bluntly: "Never let your daughter marry someone who likes Naran sex!" ”

"Never let your daughter marry someone who likes Naran's sex", a sentence from the father-in-law, made the boy sad

In this regard, Xiao Chen was really speechless. In any case, the father-in-law is also a retired primary school teacher, and he is also a cultural person in that generation, how can he dislike Naran so much? Therefore, Xiao Chen deliberately told me about this matter, hoping that I could help him think of a way to persuade the old man.

His words are also very emotional for the author. For many years, the saying that "men do not read Naran sex, women do not read Cangyang Gyatso" has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Even in recent years, whenever some young men are mentioned that some young men are not masculine enough, some people will always take Naran's sex and say that they probably read more Naran's words. In this regard, I just want to say: it is time to return Naran to a "innocence".

One: Naranjande can't keep up with his progress

Many people have opinions about Naran's sex because they have long labeled him: not thinking, just a man full of love and love.

But in fact, Naranjand has many other identities besides being a lyricist. He read poetry and books since childhood, entered the Guozi Prison at the age of 17, raised a man at the age of 18, and became a tribute soldier at the age of 19. Don't say all this because his father is Naran Mingzhu, after all, there are so many children of important courtiers in the DPRK, and Naran Mingzhu also has many children, and there are too few in terms of "cultural value" that can be compared with Naran's character.

"Never let your daughter marry someone who likes Naran's sex", a sentence from the father-in-law, made the boy sad

At the same time, on the "value of force", he was not inferior, he had studied martial arts from famous teachers, and after entering the dynasty, he was not a civilian official at first, but a third-class bodyguard by Kangxi's side, and later promoted to the first class. Even when Kangxi went on patrols, Naran Wased often accompanied as a bodyguard. He was even ordered to send an envoy to the Solong area and inspected the border blockade on many occasions.

Naran, whose career has been very smooth, has never been at home to "nibble" his father, and until his death at the age of 30, he still has an official position. Such a person, you say that he is not motivated, obviously can not be said.

Two: It's not just about love

There is no doubt that Naran is serious, as can be seen in his lyrics. But this does not mean that he is really full of only love, in fact, the breadth of people's friends and the righteousness of their friends are famous in Beijing.

Compared with running a career, Naran is obviously more fond of making friends with literature and living a casual and free life. Xu Qianxue, a famous Confucian in the Qing Dynasty, once said that the friends he made were "all handsome and different for a while, and what he called in the world was a widow", which means that the friends he made were all talented people at that time, regardless of their origins or nobles. For example, the Qing Dynasty celebrity Yan Shengsun, mingming, was more than 30 years older than Naran Sexde, but he formed a friendship with him.

"Never let your daughter marry someone who likes Naran's sex", a sentence from the father-in-law, made the boy sad

For these friends, Naranjand was quite righteous. But whoever has difficulties, as long as he knows, he will basically help. For example, the literati Wu Zhaoqian was framed and assigned to Ningguta. The younger sister Wu Wenrou sadly wrote a poem "Gurudwara Golden Gate", And Naran Sex Deben was not familiar with this Wu Zhaoqian, but he was moved by this word, so he went around for them, and finally Wu Zhaoqian was pardoned.

There were many more things like this, and this made it possible for a large number of talents to vote under Naranjande at that time. Therefore, "families compete to sing drinking water words" is not entirely because his love words are well written and have a certain relationship with his good popularity.

After spending a long time with the literati, Naranjud thought of practicing some books with them. To this end, he spent 400,000 taels of gold to compile the 1860 volumes of the Tongzhitang Sutra. At the same time, he built several libraries in various places. To this day, the things he left behind are still of great value.

"Never let your daughter marry someone who likes Naran's sex", a sentence from the father-in-law, made the boy sad

From the above two points, we can see that although Naran Zhide does not like the deceit in the court and prefers to get along with the folk literati, this does not mean that he has achieved nothing in his life. So why do modern people have such a big misunderstanding of him:

First, of course, the most famous of his lyrics, are basically love words. But this does not mean that he has not written works on other subjects, and there are more than 340 extant lyrics, including border words, wing words, poetry words, friendship words, etc. in addition to love.

Second, it is estimated that some people have misunderstood him and are influenced by some TV series. Naranjand has several legendary loves, but not as in the TV series. He was obsessed, and some people even thought that the reason why he died early was related to the loss of his beloved wife. But it would not be a shameful thing for a talented man to die of illness because he missed his deceased wife?

"Never let your daughter marry someone who likes Naran's sex", a sentence from the father-in-law, made the boy sad

Third, his achievements in literature are far greater than other aspects, so the world only sees his obsessive side. In this regard, he is very similar to Li Yu, and when we mention Li Yu, we will all think of his words, but we can't remember what he did when he was emperor.

In summary: The author personally believes that Naran is by no means an unmotivated, masculine man. Of course, as for whether you like his words or not, it all depends on personal preference. What do you think about this? Discussion is welcome.

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