Recently, a 35-year-old colleague of mine was found crying in the toilet, and after questioning, he learned that there was something wrong with his love life, and after everyone sighed twice together, we ordered him to go back to work, "You can't be lazy in the toilet during work hours!" ”
New media people have no love and no right to cry.
If you see a middle-aged man shedding tears for love, don't be surprised, don't be sad, middle-aged people only sob silently in places where no one can see.
Today we are ready to care for the physical and mental health of middle-aged and elderly people, the following is the love story of four middle-aged people.
How to say, if you can still shed tears for love, it means that you are not a middle-aged person, right?
Right?
At the beginning of the year, Zhang Wei wanted to divorce, there was no reason, just like when he was 26 years old, he wanted to have a home, and people wanted to divorce when they reached middle age.
"Divorce is the trend, my parents have long left." He said, "I see that my wife also wants to leave, that is, no one dares to say, the life of middle-aged people is to wait for whoever opens their mouths first, and it is not mentioned." ”
At the end of last year, the company went bankrupt and Zhang Wei was unemployed, he told his wife that he was unemployed, and her wife said "Oh", and then reminded him that "the money for his son's English class is going to be paid."
"You see, she doesn't care about me at all." Zhang Wei said, "She didn't love me for a long time. ”
"Actually, I don't love her anymore." Zhang Wei also said, "I don't look for her if she doesn't come home at night, so I act as if she doesn't exist, and my married life even has the feeling of a single father." ”
Zhang Wei and his lover met at a park blind date, it was Zhang Wei's tenth blind date, compared to the previous nine times, Zhang Wei's card was better, he was promoted to become the middle level leader of the company, the salary reached 20,000, and the boss personally promised equity.
Zhang Wei mortgaged a 100-square-meter house in the city, "My parents gave 400,000 yuan, other relatives pieced together 400,000, the remaining one million, I want to pay back twenty years." Zhang Wei showed a happy smile on his face, and he also bought a second-hand car, "twenty thousand yuan, running up and creaking, but better than no car." ”
At that time, Zhang Wei would not know that he would lose his job in a few years, and he wanted to divorce, and what it felt like to love, he would never understand. Is it to watch a movie together? Is it kissing and hugging to enjoy the pleasures of carnal desire? Or a sumptuous dinner on the way home from work?
"My wife has never cooked, and she doesn't like to eat what I cook." Zhang Wei said, "Kissing, we haven't kissed during sex for a long time, and when you reach my age, you will feel salivating and disgusting." ”
As for watching movies, the last movie Zhang Wei watched with his wife was "Reunion 3", he was very excited, into the pit Marvel for ten years, he is not a young man in his early twenties, he said to his wife: "Why am I not Tony Stark? The wife asked, What's the tucker dragging your? Zhang Wei said: "A rich second generation." The wife said dismissively, "Oh, your father can't do it." "Zhang Wei his father is not good, he has been a small clerk of an insurance company for a lifetime, his salary is not as high as Zhang Wei's, and he is said by Zhang Wei's mother every day that he has no interest."
Zhang Wei feels that he is becoming more and more like his father, such as being disliked by his wife, "A big sign of the midlife crisis is that he is becoming more and more like his father." Zhang Wei said, "Another sign is that I want to make money, but I can't make money." ”
When the Hulk was beaten by Thanos, the son quarreled to eat ice cream, the wife did not let the son eat ice cream, the son wanted to eat ice cream, the wife slapped the son, the son cried, the man in the back seat stood up and accused Zhang Wei of no quality, the bear child was damned, Zhang Wei stood up and theorized with the man, and then he was beaten like the Hulk was beaten by Thanos.
Afterwards, Zhang Wei's wife hugged her frightened son and said: "Daddy is really useless, don't cry, come, Mom will take you to eat ice cream." ”
At that time, Zhang Wei looked at the back of his wife's fading away, full of thoughts about the scene when he watched love with her in the trilogy after blind dates, when Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpe hugged each other in the streets of Paris at midnight, his wife asked Zhang Wei, "Do you love me?" Zhang Wei said affirmatively: "Love." ”
After listening to this story I was ready to say something, "I know what you're going to say. Zhang Wei took a sip of health tea brewed with goji berries, interrupted me and said: "I have lived to the level of "Love Before Midnight" at this age, the hero and heroine took off their clothes to prepare for intimacy, a phone call came and said that your son has an accident, this is the love of our middle-aged people. ”
Zhang Wei did not divorce in the end.
After struggling for half a year, Zhang Wei sent a WeChat message to his wife who had not seen anyone for half a year: "Let's get a divorce." ”
The wife asked, "Why?" ”
Zhang Wei said: "I don't think you love me. ”
The wife asked again: "Does anyone love you when you are divorced?" ”
Zhang Wei: "....."
Wife: "Almost forty years old, mature." ”
"In fact, marriage has nothing to do with love." Zhang Wei concluded, "That's more of an economic connection that allows our fragile human beings to be, better, to survive, and love, we middle-aged people don't have love." ”
Thirty-five-year-old Zhang Wei occasionally went to the toilet to escape life, and colleagues recommended him a book, "Love in the Time of Cholera" written by Márquez, which reads: "The most important thing for a loving couple is not happiness but a stable relationship." ”
Recently, Zhang Wei was emotionally stable and ready to greet his 36th birthday, and his son was going to elementary school, "I don't know where to go." Zhang Wei said expressionlessly.
"I cheated first."
Workshop director Wang Gang sat on the boss's chair, constantly patting his beer belly, he had just experienced a breakup, shed a few tears for love, and just half a year ago, he divorced his wife who had been married for more than ten years, at that time, his heart was joyful, but he did not expect that the sadness came faster and more violently.
"Don't you want to talk about love?" How to talk about the love of our middle-aged people, is a bargain, is the desire to refuse to return, is the conflict between ideals and reality, is to fade all the disillusionment when facing desire, is the decadence after the second shot, is my no longer young remorse, love, that is, nothingness. ”
Wang Gang,Chinese the workshop director who has not read a few books, expressed his views on love, and for a while the listener wept and heard the sadness, only he smoked a cigarette and laughed, and told his love story unhurriedly.
Director Wang's first love began at the age of 16, "Our family has four brothers, my youngest, my father died a long time ago, my three brothers are waste, do not work, all day at home idle, people will quarrel when idle, I can't stay in that home, I will go to the neighbor's house to read." Director Wang recalled, "That's how I met my ex-wife." ”
Ms. Liu, Director Wang's ex-wife, recalled Director Wang like this: "You don't know how handsome he was at that time, he brought a book to my house every day to read, and he also played harmonica, so I liked him very much." ”
Director Wang recalled Ms. Liu like this: "I think she is very beautiful, I have not seen a beautiful girl, at that time we were all introduced, suitable on the line, what is called suitable, there are hands and feet and work can be." ”
Director Wang, who loves to read in his spare time, did not go to college, went directly to work at the town's power plant, and two years later he married Ms. Liu, who worked in the food factory. Both recalled their married lives in this way.
"It's not without change." Ms. Liu said, "Just married, he is very industrious, after playing cards, he went home to wash the children's diapers, and then he didn't do anything, I came, am I a slave in the family?" ”
"There has really been no change for more than ten years, she never does housework, she sleeps in bed as soon as she comes home, I often come home late at night to wash clothes and wash dishes, am I a slave in the family?" Director Wang said angrily, "Of course, we middle-aged people have no way, and everyone understands each other." ”
Regarding love, Ms. Liu said: "Before I got married, he wrote me poems, played harmonica for me, did nothing after marriage, and didn't even buy me a flower." ”
Regarding love, Director Wang said: "Our generation does not know the taste of love, when they were young, they got married in a vacuum, and after cheating, I only knew the feeling of love." ”
Wang Gang's derailment object is his subordinate Ms. Chen Hong, according to him, that day he worked overtime until late at night, it was cold, hungry, his wife did not call him to ask why he did not come home, he was very sad, discouraged, felt that life was not interesting, and then Chen Hong suddenly appeared, "She brought me a bowl of noodles, at that time I fell in love with her, it was a feeling that had never been felt before." ”
And Ms. Chen Hong described what happened that day: Director Wang asked me not to leave after work, and then we went to bed, I don't know what happened, he only had six seconds.
Director Wang did not deny this, "It doesn't matter how love begins. Director Wang said, "The love of our middle-aged people always begins suddenly, the form of expression is to go to bed, not to twist and pinch like when they were young, to live to this age, everything is very fast." ”
"So that's why you're six seconds old?"
Director Wang and his subordinates of the underground love affair lasted for half a year, this half year he did not find his wife, his wife did not look for him, his son asked him for pocket money, he let his son call Chen Hong aunt, the son called Chen Hong sister, Chen Hong is very happy, "Your son is more handsome than you, not like you were born." Chen Hong said, and Director Wang said: "It's okay, let's have another one." ”
Half a year later, Director Wang and Ms. Chen have done what ordinary couples do, including eating, watching movies, shopping on the street, going abroad to travel and give gifts... Director Wang sent Chen Hong iPhone13, a car, LV's bag, Chanel's perfume, Chen Hong gave him a set of men's health underwear, Director Wang liked this set of underwear, "After putting it on, I was twenty years younger, this is the power of love." He touched his stomach and said.
Love to this point, Director Wang felt that he should divorce, "I Wang Gang is a frank person", he went directly to Ms. Liu, said that he wanted to divorce, Ms. Liu was overjoyed, "I also want to divorce", Ms. Liu said, Wang Gang was surprised: "I, I cheated." Ms. Liu looked guilty: "Me, me too." Wang Gang also looked guilty: "I'm sorry for you." Ms. Liu: "No, this is also something that cannot be done." ”
So the two divorced amicably, the two recalled the bits and pieces of being together for so many years, in a warm atmosphere, director Wang was out of the house, the property was not penniless, "This is my responsibility as a man." Director Wang said.
........ Then Chen Hong broke up with Director Wang.
I heard that the Night King Director drank a lot of wine, and a person sobbed silently and shed a few tears for love.
For this relationship, Director Wang concluded: We middle-aged people can only use money to buy love, and sometimes we can't buy it.
What makes the difference between divorce and non-divorce? You can't expect love to save your hopeless life.
But it's better to get a divorce.
Where love comes from, it is nothing but desire.
alas.
How to say it, I can only say that I have loved, I have no regrets!
And Ms. Chen Hong said: Middle-aged people are stupid X.
It's heartbreaking.
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