Everyone should have had such an experience, that is, at present, everyone's understanding of love seems to have changed and lost its taste.
Nowadays, the feelings of young people will always have some kind of interest relationship, sandwiched between them, how difficult it is to exchange sincerity for sincerity.
At first, I thought that feelings were desperate and endlessly sympathetic; in literary and art films, young men and women speculated with each other; in foreign movies, the death of male housewives; and in ancient martial arts novels, they were endlessly vengeful.
But because Lao Zhang told me a story, I understood that true love should be simple and casual. Lao Zhang came to me and, in small talk, recounted his own miserable emotional process.
Ah Zheng is not old, he has made a girlfriend on campus, and when the two are together at the beginning, they will always stick together, teach together and get out of class, eat and shop together, and talk and laugh every day.
After living together for many months, coupled with the New Year's holiday, Xiao Zhao took the girl home and met her parents, and the woman was also very obedient, plus the girl looked very good, which made Ah Zheng's parents like it very much.
But the good times are not long, in the case of what everyone calls the "love stage", there are various size problems and differences between the two, and in the campus, the two quarrel as soon as they meet, and the more frequent, the girls will avoid more and more.
The two people are like this and after a while, one day, A Zheng found that the woman's WeChat chat mobile phone software, there is another boy's number, A Zheng asked the girl, who is this man, his girlfriend constantly covered up.
Not long after, the two people broke up, or the beautiful woman clearly proposed, Ah Zheng felt very sad, seeing the girl quickly with another man, making Ah Zheng more sad. Therefore, I told Ah Zheng about his sorrows, constantly complained about the girl, talked and talked, and mentioned the love of his parents and fathers.
Mom and Dad are friends with each other, from middle school, all the way to college, although the two have had many differences, but never said to separate.
Nowadays, the two of them always quarrel with each other, all for the sake of trivial matters, and his mother always tells him that his father always does something wrong, which makes her angry.
One day, his father was hit by his mother because he had broken many dishes, and he beat him while talking, and he was angry all day long. However, although the two often quarreled, they took care of each other for more than half a lifetime.
Dad did not like egg yolk, his mother made him a yellow fried poached egg in the morning; his mother's waist was not good, the food was bought too much, and his father would feel heartache when he saw it; his father did not want to sleep in the afternoon, and his mother was very reluctant to let him sleep; his mother would pull his father's ear inside, and his father would deliberately bend down and shout pain in his mouth.
Before Dad came out, his mother would put more money in her purse, remove her bib early, check whether her umbrella was in the bag; after her father cleared it, her mother would urge him to take a bath, cut his hair, wash his clothes and pants.
Zhang Ailing once said: In the tens of millions of people to meet the people you meet, in the tens of millions of years, in the endless wilderness of time, there is no step earlier, there is no step later, just caught up, then there is no other thing to say, only to ask softly: Oh, are you also here?
Old Zhang's parents and fathers, there are many things like that, and they can't say it.
In his eyes, I saw a string of tears, and I also understood how much I looked forward to having such a love, and this kind of love, some people can't move!
However, have they ever thought that people will have different feelings, there will be different concepts, and there is no run-in period for getting along, how can there be so much impropriety?
Feelings are undertaken, long-lasting, loyal, mutual mastery and mutual run-in.
Only through the tempering of time will there be a most beautiful rainbow of seven colors, and the most suitable two people will appear.
Look forward to the world thousands of miles of marriage a line of ties, you can also fall in love like this.