Upstream journalist Wang Yufeng Courtesy of Liangjiang New Area
"After my mother-in-law passed away, my grandfather lived alone, and one day, I met him sitting alone in the doorway at the supermarket without saying a word. Later, I learned that because he lived alone and was too lonely, even his own one-bedroom house, he rented a bed for others, and he wanted someone to talk to. Hearing all this, zhou Qian, the former neighbor, would feel a tightness in her heart, and she couldn't bear to let the old man live alone.
Returning home with his family, he took the 90-year-old Korelin to his own modest home and lived happily like a family.
Zhou Qianhui, son Deng Zhonghong and Grandpa Ke Ruilin's "different" grandchildren
Now, 15 years have passed, this year's 111-year-old Corrilling old man because of physical reasons upstairs is not very convenient, so, people and street pension service center to take over the baton to provide "dependence" for the elderly's pension, Grandpa Korelin lived in a nursing home with professional nursing care to enjoy the old age.
Born in 1910, the elderly Currylin witnessed the changes in the world for more than 100 years, he still has a clear mind, and often says in the nursing home that he should thank the Thousand Associations, the party and the government, without them, he would not have a happy old age.
Because of family affection, the old man feels very happy in his old age
The 90s often feel lonely
She welcomed him home with love
The 111-year-old Ke Ruilin should be the oldest person recorded in Liangjiang New Area. Ke Ruilin and his wife and children are people and local villagers, who have lived here for generations, have no children under their knees, and before, they rented a house with their old partner and children in the Zhou Qianhui family.
15 years ago, after his wife and children died of illness, Grandpa Curryn was often alone in a daze because he was lonely.
Once, Zhou Qianhui saw his former neighbor and now tenant Grandpa Ke sitting alone in the doorway in a daze at the supermarket, asking him with concern why he did not go home.
"I don't want to go home, alone, I don't have to talk, I can count people's brains outside." Grandpa Ke spoke like a child.
Zhou Qianhui learned that the house he rented to Grandpa Ke was a room and a hall, originally the old two lived together, after the old wife left, because of the fear of loneliness, Grandpa Ke rented half of the house to others, just to have someone to talk.
Hearing this, Zhou Qianhui's tears couldn't help but flow down. "Grandpa Ke is a cook, has a good cooking skill, we used to be neighbors, Grandpa Ke's cooking, often let the small yard flutter incense, the neighbors also enjoy the blessings." 」
Zhou Qianhui said that he still had three brothers above him, the family population was large, and Grandpa Ke's family would bring a copy of what delicious food he made. "My grandparents are old, his family carries water and plants red amaranth, and my parents go to help."
Zhou Qianhui's parents are also very supportive of their daughters taking care of the elderly
Because of mutual help, the relationship between the two families has always been good. And the Currylins also like this neighbor "Thursday Sister" (Zhou Qian will be the fourth oldest in the family). Later, 19-year-old Zhou Qianhui, under the sponsorship of Grandpa Ke and his wife, came to work in grandpa Ke's restaurant where he was a chef to earn money and had his first job.
In April 2006, Grandpa Ke's old partner Xie Shuqing died, the old man lost his only relative, and he was the only one left in the rental house.
Thinking of this, Zhou Qian would make a bold decision: to bring this old man who was in his own grace to his home and live with himself.
Zhou Qian will take care of Currylin without complaint
A family of three becomes a family of four
Their laughter became a beautiful talk for the neighbors
Zhou Qianhui returned home and discussed the thoughts in his heart with her husband Deng Xingrong, but she did not expect that her husband agreed at once.
Therefore, Zhou Qianhui's family of three moved into a one-bedroom rental house and lived with Ke Ruilin. She said to the old man, "As long as I have a bite of meat to eat, I will never just let you drink soup." ”
Since then, Zhou Qianhui has confiscated a penny of rent for the elderly. She and her husband naturally called Ke Ruilin "grandfather", and her son Deng Zhonghong called Ke Ruilin "zuzu".
Today, Deng Zhonghong is a 28-year-old young man who remembers that the rental house was not large, and after moving, his mother let him sleep with his grandfather. "My mother said, this is my ancestor, I want to kiss him and be filial to him. Since then, in addition to my mother-in-law and grandfather, I have also had a kind backer to protect me from being quarreled by my parents after being naughty. ”
A "grandpa" made Zhou Qianhui have more worries from now on, and also allowed the hundred-year-old widow and widowed old man Currylin to rely on and have a home.
When the neighbor Jing Tinghui first saw that Zhou Qian would take Grandpa Ke out to bask in the sun, he was curious.
"Why is your grandfather's surname Ke and your surname Zhou?" When he learned of the relationship between the two, Jing Tinghui was moved, "Don't say that there is no blood relationship, even if the family has bumps, Zhou Qianhui will really be a good person." He gave her a thumbs up, and from then on, they became good friends.
Little snail dwelling
Overflowing with 15 years of family affection
In 2010, after divorcing her husband, Zhou Qianhui moved into her current residence with her grandfather and son.
This is a two-bedroom apartment of more than 60 square meters, one room in Corelin, the remaining room, Zhou Qianhui left to her son, "the child is older, in love, needs her own space", she herself slept in the living room.
Most of the residents of the resettlement housing community come from the same village, are familiar with each other, and retain the habit of visiting the door in the countryside in the past. In the interview, many of Zhou Qianhui's neighbors said in unison that Thursday Sister was "virtuous."
Zhou Qin said that Thursday sister slept in the small bed in the living room by herself, and there was a cardboard box at the foot of the bed, which contained her clothes, while Grandpa Ke's clothes were neatly folded and stuffed into the closet.
For the daily care of the elderly, Zhou Qian will never fake his hands to others
After the divorce, Zhou Qianhui had two or three blind dates, and after learning that she was not financially rich but independently supported a hundred-year-old grandfather, she played a "retreat".
In this regard, Zhou Qianhui looked very open, "For people who don't understand me, I don't force it." My grandfather is not a burden, there is an old treasure in the family, he is my family's treasure. ”
Three years ago, Kong Xiangming, a 6-year-old from Yubei District of the Great Zhou Qianhui, appeared, "When the fourth sister asked the middleman to introduce the situation, she must mention that she took care of her grandfather." In fact, I didn't mind at all, but felt that she was a kind and loving woman. I also have a mother in her nineties at home, and it is a matter of course to honor the elderly. ”
Deng Zhonghong, the son who is about to get married, installed the house, the master bedroom is used as a marriage room for two children, and the second bedroom is occupied by Zhou Qianhui, "If Grandpa comes back, we will let him live in the second bedroom, he is our family, always will be." ”
Where did Grandpa go?
It turned out that Zhou Qianhui's family lived on the third floor of the resettlement housing community, and since this year, after Grandpa Currylin was hospitalized for physical reasons, it was inconvenient to go up and down the stairs. The community began to pay attention to this "special" family, and when it learned that the elderly were in difficulty, they took the elderly to a nursing home and cared for by a special doctor.
Nowadays, the elderly live in a nursing home, Zhou Qianhui family will visit the elderly every three to five, and yao Hongmei, the secretary of the community, also cares about the elderly Ke Ruilin as a family, "Everyone pays a little, a little more moved, and our home will be warmer." ”
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The elderly who need to be cared for like Grandpa Currylin need to go to a nursing home, and more elderly people who can take care of themselves or are still relatively young can achieve home care at home.
It is understood that the Liangjiang New Area and the subdistrict jurisdiction area of 16.87 square kilometers, the existing permanent population of 164309 people, the total household registration population of 90355 people, 60 years old permanent elderly people over 60 years old (8630 household registration elderly people), accounting for 13% of the total permanent population. In the face of the increasingly severe situation of population aging, People and Streets have built a home-based and community-based old-age service system to create a "doorstep" old-age service position for the elderly.
Liangjiang New District Renhe Street Hemu Road Community Good Neighbor Pension Service Station was officially launched on April 24, 2021. Yao Hongmei said that the community good neighborly old-age service station is divided into seven functional areas, namely the "good neighbor" service reception area, the "good neighbor" activity exchange area, the "good neighbor" health management area, the "good neighbor" humanistic care area, the "good neighbor" day care area, the "good neighbor" multi-functional education area and the "good neighbor" management office area.
The elderly in the center of the Hemu Road Community Elderly Activity, photographed by the reporter
Their services are mainly to ensure the basic daily life needs of the elderly, empty nesters, disabled elderly and other basic daily life needs, to meet the spiritual culture of the elderly in the community, life care service needs, to provide the elderly with medical, day care, dining, health, learning and other diversified wisdom pension services, to create basic medical services, day care, smart catering, day housekeeping services, universities for the elderly, voluntary help and other systematic, intelligent and convenient service system, to achieve community old-age support, old-age medical care, old-age education, The old have learned, the old have done something, and the old have fun.
These flowers are handmade by the elderly, and many caring people come to buy them and the reporters take pictures