Deng Lian, a girl in Dazhou, was abandoned by her biological parents when she was born, and her grandmother Wang Congying, who was 61 years old at the time, took her home and raised her by farming. Now 27-year-old Deng Lian has married and started a family, although the two are grandchildren in terms of age, but for her, her grandmother is more like a mother, giving her a second life, sending her to study, and raising her to grow up.
Recently, Deng Lian took a special set of "wedding photos" with her 88-year-old grandmother, which touched countless netizens for a while. On March 6, a Red Star News reporter contacted Deng Lian and talked about the original intention of taking the photo, she said: Grandma has worked hard all her life, and there was no ceremony when she was young and married. She wants to keep the most beautiful appearance of her grandmother by taking "wedding photos".
Deng Lian and Grandma
Childhood:
Abandoned by their biological parents
Grandma raised her like a mother
"88-year-old grandmother, eating hot pot and braised pork that is called a fragrant." Open Deng Lian's circle of friends, half of the content is related to Grandma: take Grandma on a trip, take pictures of Grandma, cook for Grandma... Deng Lian wrote in the circle of friends: Without sunshine, there would be no warmth of the day; without you, there would be no me now; only your dripping grace, but I did not repay the spring.
Deng Lian, 27, from rural Dazhou, Sichuan Province, was abandoned by her biological parents when she was born, and her unrelated grandmother Wang Congying raised her to her current family. At that time, my grandmother was 61 years old, but my father was not yet married, and a few years later my father started a family and gave birth to a younger sister, who thought that there would be "mother" care, but I did not expect that my sister had just turned a full moon, and my stepmother left. Deng Lian grew up in an unsound family, without the love of her mother, because it is difficult to get the recognition of her family because it is adopted, and it is her grandmother who grows up with one hand.
"I have always lived with my grandmother, my sister has lived with my father, and although I am a grandmother in terms of age, she has played the role of a mother more, taking care of me like a mother to her own children." 」 Deng Lian said that the conditions at home are not good, even there is no TV, they all go to other people's homes to rub, only eat one meal of meat a week, better fruits usually can not eat, Grandma relies on planting crops to support her life, And Father works outside the home to earn tuition.
Despite the difficulties, Grandma did her best to give her a good life. "Grandma said that although expensive things can't be eaten often, we must also know its taste, so that we will not be ignorant in the future, so even if I can only buy an apple, Grandma will buy it back to let me taste it."
Grandma Wang Congying
Growing up:
The grace of parenting is not enough to repay
Take "wedding photos" to make good memories
Under the nurturing of her grandmother, Deng Lian grew up to enter social work, and now the 27-year-old Deng Lian has married and started a family, working hard in Chengdu with her lover, while her grandmother is 88 years old. Due to the busy work, I can only go home once or twice a year, and I have very little time to spend with my grandmother. On weekdays, she can only greet her by phone when she is worried about her grandmother, "How is Grandma's health?" What did you eat today? Where to go? ”
After the Spring Festival this year, Deng Lian returned to her hometown in Dazhou and proposed to her grandmother the idea of taking wedding photos, although at that time, her grandmother did not know what wedding photos were, and she did not understand it, but she was very happy to agree. So, she and her sister took grandma to the studio, and when grandma put on makeup and saw herself in the mirror, she didn't know herself anymore, and said: "There is another old woman in the mirror, which one?" Deng Lian said that from makeup, trying on clothes to shooting, grandma was very happy in the whole process, although grandma did not know what she was going to do when taking pictures, but the whole process was full of joy.
Take a wedding photo with grandma
"Let Grandma experience the wedding dress and the look of wearing a Chinese dress, leave a good memory, let her know that life is getting better and better now, she can experience some more beautiful things." 」 Deng Lian said that in the past, the living conditions were not good, and her grandmother did not hold a ceremony when she was young and married. She wants to keep the most beautiful appearance of her grandmother by taking "wedding photos". On February 22, when she got the film, she put the photo on tv and played it to grandma, who was very happy.
Gratitude:
Deep affection is not related by blood
Take grandma around Chengdu and return with a lifetime
Recently, Deng Lian took her grandmother from Dazhou to Chengdu and took her grandmother to Taikoo Li and People's Park. When I walked to Tianfu Square, the 88-year-old grandmother said innocently like a child: "This dam is really big!" Because of the advanced age, deng lian and her husband pushed their grandmother to the "airport flower field" in Chengdu in a wheelchair to watch the plane take off and land at close range. Seeing the plane, Grandma also said happily: "The original plane is so big, I dare not sit!" Don't dare sit!. ”
Deng Lian said that for her and the relationship between the two is more like mother and daughter, Grandma's care and nurturing can not be repaid with words, hoping to make Grandma healthy and happy through what she can do, "As long as she is happy, I will be happy!" "At present, her biggest wish is that her grandmother is healthy, and she can take her to various places to walk more, see, experience different lives, and accompany her more."
Deep affection is not related by blood, Deng Lian and Grandma are not grandchildren like grandchildren, one raises children with the simplicity and kindness of the heart, and one does his best to return the good.
Red Star News reporter Zhang Zhaoting pictured according to the interviewee
Edited by Li Yue
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