I think everyone is willing to be an idle person, the life is pure and simple, life is not silent, there is a lot of time, used to waste, without worrying about the passing of the year, the momentary whitehead. It's just that how many people in this world can be so lucky to enjoy a quiet time, sitting alone under a wooden window where the moss grows, making a pot of idle tea, and watching the sunset and smoke.
——Bai Luomei's "Quiet Years, Stable in the World" Like most children, from the day I was born, I began to enjoy all kinds of pain and love from my parents, which is not a princess-like treatment, but a treasure held by the whole family. Escorted by my parents along the way, my life didn't seem to suffer too much, or even smooth sailing. Although there are occasional small storms, it does not affect my pursuit and yearning for life. During the winter and summer vacations, many students go to work to earn money. I was a little agitated, but my parents always blocked me and advised me: "If you are really bored and don't want to stay at home, go out and have a look!" So, just like that, I started my own trip. Every winter and summer vacation, I have plenty of leisure time. At this time, my father would design a route for me, my mother would prepare my bags, and I would rush to the train to Chongqing, Chengdu, Xi'an and even Lijiang. I don't have to worry about flights, hotels and trips. My task seemed to be to record this beautiful landscape with a camera. But how could I enjoy such a wonderful landscape alone? So I often take pictures of my circle of friends. Beautiful scenery, delicious food, warm strangers made my classmates blush with envy. They often said to me, "You're so happy." You can hang out often, it's the same as we are. You either work as a tutor or a part-time worker, and your parents are too nice to you. I've always disagreed with this performance: "What's the money you're making for?" Flowers, of course! As a child, I was weak and often sick. My parents always took good care of me and encouraged me to go out more. They say: Cheerfulness is always good for the body. At that time, I often posted some words in the circle of friends, mostly "the years are quiet, the world is stable", so that many friends think that I am lucky. By chance, I went to my father's office to look for him, but when I went to the office, I didn't see anyone else. I let his colleague know he was waiting for a client downstairs. I wondered why I didn't see him when I came up and hurried downstairs. When I went downstairs, I saw my father standing in the doorway against the howling cold wind, so I stood unhindered. Although in the south, february temperatures are still very low. In the cold wind, my father, dressed only in a thin spring coat, stood straight outside. There was only a glass door between us. I was inside the door and enjoying the heating of the air conditioner. My father was outside the door, subjected to a biting cold wind. Through a glass door, I could clearly see a layer of goosebumps on his face. He looked into the distance with a humble smile. Suddenly, the happiness I had shown before came to my heart, and I couldn't help but laugh. Before that, I really didn't know that my father's work was so hard. Behind those glamorous scenes, like he was shivering in the cold wind in a thin spring coat, it was just a support for clenching his teeth.
We who are young and young have never understood our own cheerful way of life, all of which come from the support of our parents. I indulged in Murong Xi's poems, made Qiong Yao's powder, and spoke strongly of new words, but I never thought about the hard work and tiredness of my parents. And I, when I was so old, I had never washed clothes or even washed dishes at home. Once a neighborhood grandmother said enviously after seeing my hands full of long pointed nails: "Eat well, raise your hair; play well, raise your nails." With such long nails, life should be more comfortable! "After listening to it, I not only didn't feel ashamed, but I was somewhat self-congratulatory, slightly satisfied. Thinking about it now, it really makes me feel guilty of being landless! Mom and Dad had borne too much of a burden for me, but I always thought it was unreasonable. All sentient beings are suffering, no one will be rated by fate, if you live easily and smoothly, someone must have taken on the weight you should bear for you.
The person who carries the weight for you must be the only person in the world who loves you, he is always afraid that you are too tired, and puts the most weight on his shoulders. If there is a person who is good to you, it must be a reward of fate, not a matter of course. Even if it's a couple. Even Mom and Dad. You have to learn to cherish that person.
Life is made up of two things: unsatisfied desires and suffering, and uninteresting after satisfaction. Life has no ultimate meaning. Don't dismiss it lightly. We need to re-examine, in the most painful worldviews, the desires that always make us miserable in the present.
The desire that man clings to is so vain, empty, and boring, but it is not easy for us not to cling to it. Man is born in this world by force, and the moral and competitive consciousness of the world that is born in the world dooms us to be unfree. An idealistic view of life is that the length of life need not be subject to the natural decay of the body, it should be chosen by the needs of your mind and your happiness.
As you grow older, you feel more and more that there are no years in this world that are quiet and good, and the so-called years are quiet, but someone is carrying the weight for you. Life is like a journey against the water, the world is uncertain, there will always be days of wind and rain, full of setbacks and bumps, and occasionally sometimes, there will be disasters and hardships unexpectedly.
There will always be people, against the wind, running towards the sun in the wind and rain, living themselves into a beam of light, illuminating the front, blocking danger with their bodies, desperately protecting us, doing the sun that illuminates their own lives, and becoming the hope of others to live. In this life, if anything is the most precious, some people will say that it is money, and some people will say that it is status. But when the disaster came, I found that all this was so small and powerless.
There is always an upward force in life, which makes people irresistible, holding up the height of life, making people look up, this power is faith, it is touching, it is a kind of love beyond life and death.
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