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Life should be a journey of beauty.
Calm down and read the poem.
【Origin】
Late Tang, one evening.
Wen Tingjun sat in his home and watched as the sun was about to set. I was getting ready to pack up and go to a friend's house for a banquet.
At this time, the doorman suddenly came to report, and the friend asked someone to come and tell Wen Tingjun:
"Fei Qing, I haven't seen you in a few days, and I'm looking forward to today's small gathering." Unfortunately, my beloved Ge Ji has just passed away, and I am really not in the mood to drink tea and enjoy the wind and moon. Excuse me. ”
Wen Tingjun and that friend were also old friends, and naturally knew that he regarded the geji in the palace as a pearl in his hand. In order to comfort his old friend, Wen Tingjun still went to his friend's house and wrote a poem for this matter, called "And Friends Hurt Song Ji", to comfort friends who were overly sad.
Wen Tingjun is good at writing about the feelings of men and women, gentle tossing and turning, and comforting people is even more considerate.
Let's learn his comforting skills.
【Psalms】
And friends hurt the song Ji Wen Tingjun [Tang Dynasty] The moon is missing flowers and the flowers must eventually be full. What can be done to sell fangs, there is also a nonghua passing away. A beautiful song left a gentle turn, Jiuyuan Haruka jealousy Chanjuan. Wang Sun Mo learned to be amorous, and since ancient times, he has been sentimental and damaged teenagers.
【Recitation】
The first two sentences use the metaphor of the moon and flowers. The moon is missing, the flowers are broken, don't grieve over it. For the flowers will bloom one day; the moon will have a moment of reunion.
The moon and the flower are both metaphors for beauty, and the death of a beautiful person is an inevitable tragedy in the world, and there is no need to be overly sad.
The two sentences of the jaw connection substitute their own emotions. I also know that nothing can eliminate your pity for your excellency. However, the flowers of the "Nonghua Passing River", the flowers with unique style, will one day disappear with the flowing water.
The above 4 sentences are all about a truth: man will eventually die, and everything will have a result at the end.
Everyone is born in the heavens and the earth, and it is the spring and autumn of decades. But some people are shorter, some people are longer, and they can't be too sad about it.
The two sentences of the neck joint are a compliment to Ge Ji. What Ge Ji relies on, but talent. In the two sentences, one sentence is written for talent and one sentence for appearance.
The song of the past is still vivid in the ears, flowing endlessly, no wonder it is so nostalgic;
The spring grass at the grave will also be jealous of the delicate face of the people in the tomb when they were alive.
Jiuyuan originally referred to the burial place of The Great Doctor of the Jin Dynasty during the Spring and Autumn Period, which refers to the general cemetery.
These two lines of praise are intended to allow the friend to lead himself into the same kind; to prove to the friend that he can understand his sorrow, and even to have experienced similar things.
The so-called "pity for the same disease", if a person takes you as a kind, he will pay special attention to what you say.
The last two sentences are bluntly exhorted: You, you, you, are still young, don't learn from those lovers from the past and the present.
"Deep affection is not longevity, wisdom will hurt", amorous like you, the most depleted youthful spirit.
And you have to think clearly, you are crying on the ground so sadly that your thoughts are broken. What good is it for the underground dead?
Only living well is the greatest comfort for the dead.
【Empty Green Language】
Wen Tingjun has many details in this poem. He didn't come up and say, "Don't be sad, you'll break your body," which is unnourishing.
How did he deal with it?
First of all, use the analogy of beautiful things to show that everything in the world has a fixed number, "life and death have a destiny."
Through the praise of Ge Ji and the understanding of the sadness of the friend, let the friend think of himself as a kind of person. With such an emotional basis in place, it is then bluntly exhorted.
In real life, many of us are not very good at comforting others, and perhaps we can learn these skills of Wen Tingjun, step by step, and grasp each other's emotions and psychology.
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