<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > "Nostalgia is a shallow strait, I'm here, the continent is over there." - "Nostalgia"</h1>
In the eyes of the world, cousins cannot marry, but there is a person who not only breaks the worldly concept, but also marries his cousin for sixty-one years, and this person is the famous contemporary writer Yu Guangzhong.
Mr. Yu Guangzhong has taught at various universities in Taiwan and Hong Kong, serving as Head of Chinese Department, Professor, Dean and Director of Research Institutes. In the introduction, "Nostalgia is a shallow strait, I am here, the mainland is at that end" also shows that yu guang is a patriotic person who hopes for the reunification of the motherland.
Not only that, Yu Guangzhong is a father who cherishes his daughter very much, he once wrote an article for his daughters, saying that he would regard his son-in-law as an "imaginary enemy", and did not allow the son-in-law to take his daughters away easily, he also compared the son-in-law to passers-by who "stole fruit", and compared his daughters to delicate fruits on the tree.
And the love between Yu Guangzhong and his wife, it is precisely because they go in both directions that the two can be long-lasting. Yu Guangzhong and his wife are distant cousins, and their mothers are cousins. His wife's name is Fan Icun, when he was 14 years old, he met with 17-year-old Yu Guangzhong, remember that before meeting, Fan Icun's mother always praised his cousin in front of Fan for studying well and having a high culture, which made Fan look at it a few times after meeting. At that time, when the two young and ignorant people met each other, they had already fallen at a glance, and they were young and confused, and they did not know what love was, until the person in front of them let himself have different thoughts.
Whether it is Yu Guangzhong or Fan Icun, both are shy and shy people, Yu Guangzhong after leaving her cousin's home, personally translated a foreign book "Van Gogh Biography" for her, and sent it to Fan Icun through letters, she was ecstatic when she received the letter, she thought that this was a love letter from her cousin to herself, but she did not want to open it after being a translation of foreign language works, her cultural level is not high, not like Yu Guangzhong's full stomach, full of poetry, but even so, she still feels that Yu Guangzhong is very literary, The two have a sharp heart and become each other's soul mates.
Because the two people lived in a war-torn era, there was no way to be together all the time, plus Fan Icun was weak and suffered from lung disease, and he could not go to school at all, so he could only rest at home. Therefore, Yu Guangzhong decided to go to her house to read some literary works to her, and took this opportunity to get along with her cousin, and also carved "YLM" in his own tree translated as "Yu Aimi", Mimi is Fan Icun's nickname.
As the two gradually ran into each other, the parents of both sides also found that something was wrong, the Parents of the Yu family were very disgusted with Fan Icun's weak health, not high education, and could not accept such a daughter-in-law; while the cousin's family thought that Yu Guangzhong was like a nerd, not at all spirited, all of which were opposed by the parents of both sides at that time. Although the feelings of the two were opposed by the two parents, in the end the parents still could not resist their insistence and chose to let them come together.
At the insistence of the two, they finally entered the palace of marriage in 1956, when many friends came to congratulate and hoped that the couple could be white. When she first got married, Fan Icun's body was still very weak, and it was not until after giving birth to her daughter Yu Shan that her condition improved. The relationship between the two people is actually very stable, there is no nerd as the parents think, a culture is not high and leads to quarrels, but Fan I exists in life considerate and gentle, and Yu Guangzhong is also careful and thoughtful, the two men are talented and female.
Until later, Fan I Cunzhong gave birth to four daughters, fortunately, there were not too many genetic problems because of cousin relations, and the family was also lively, and the two spent more than sixty years together, and the husband and wife life has been very harmonious. In fact, some people also asked How to keep their marriage fresh, and Yu Guangzhong said that he and his wife were both children of the War of Resistance, so they had like-minded ideas in the revolution, and naturally they could get along harmoniously, but if the two had a grudge between them and hated each other, then there was no way to live better.