Feng Xi is the least educated one in the "Five Beauty" of "North And South".
You Shanshan is a university of foreign trade and economics, Bao Xue is a Chinese opera, Dai Xiaoxue studied in Norway on a full scholarship, and Si Meng is a Chinese department of Beijing Normal University.
And Feng Xi graduated from higher vocational school.
She has always been an "old mother" for her boyfriend Li Xiang, taking care of all his needs, for ten years. Her boyfriend came to Beijing to study for a doctorate, and she followed her to the North Drift. She didn't want a bride price or a marriage room, she wanted to open a marriage certificate, but Li Xiang always shirked it by not getting a degree certificate.
This clear-eyed person knows at a glance that Feng Xi will definitely be abandoned, but Feng Xi is clinging to it and refusing to let go. When she learned that Li Xiang did not have her in his plans for the future, she also knew that her heart was cold, and she also knew that she was uncomfortable, but she turned her head and carefully prepared the luggage for him to go abroad, and also gave him thousands of instructions, and almost packed herself into it.
Unsurprisingly, Li Xiang became a high-end talent, and proposed to break up not long after going to Germany.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > Feng Xi after being broken up</h1>
Feng Xi received a breakup call from Li Xiang, the whole person was stupid, Li Xiang used "personality incompatibility" as a reason to break up, and said that he did not want to delay her.
Feng Xi asked:
"You don't want to delay me? The two of us have been together for 10 years, and you now say you don't want to delay me, are you human?
Personality mismatch?
Why didn't you say that you were not in line with your personality when you first chased me? When I accompanied you from junior high school to postdoc, why didn't you say that your personality was incompatible? Like an old mother, when I serve you, why don't you say that your personality is incompatible? Why don't you say that you are not in line with my personality when you get into my bed and don't want to come out? Now that you're out of the woods, high-end talent, and suddenly find that we don't have a good personality? ”
She's so wronged!
But at this time, she was in the hotel, and as the manager, she promised to put away the very difficult to find "Malay can't forget the fish", which Dai Xiaoyu's boss Chai Zong was going to use to entertain a very important guest the next day.
But Because Feng Xi lost love, after receiving the fish, he didn't look at the fish and put it in the wrong place!
The fish couldn't work, things messed up.
Dai Xiaoyu jumped like a thunderbolt and said to her: "It's hard to go home, this is a business, we all take money to accompany you to grow!" ”
Chai zong issued an ultimatum, if the problem can not be solved - Dai Xiaoyu resigned, he will also return the card!
In the end, with the help of chef Zhao Henan, the crisis was resolved.
However, afterwards, Zhao Henan also told Feng Xi: "If there is another time, I will resign and not do it, I don't have so many unique jobs to help you save the emergency!" ”
Even if Feng Xi regrets it a lot, even if she has lost love, no one will forgive her for her mistake this time.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" > tong year after the breakup</h1>
Seeing this plot, I can't help but think of last year's hit TV series "Dear, Loved", although it is a sweet drama, the heroine Tong Nian is also a proper flower idiot, a "love first" look.
But Tong Nian is a high-IQ student, the university is a junior class, only 20 years old is already a graduate student, but also often go abroad to compete, international awards.
After Tong Nian broke up, what was it like?
Of course, she was also very sad, and the tears couldn't stop flowing down, hiding in the toilet again and again to cry.
But she didn't affect the work at all, she said: "I'm the person in charge of the project, I have to go." Work is returned to work, and work cannot be delayed. Give me another ten seconds and I'll be fine! ”
In the end, she completed the task well and was praised by the other party.
When she once again confirmed to her companions that she had not delayed things and was doing well, she was relieved.
She went on to grieve over her lost love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > controlling your emotions is the most basic self-discipline of an adult</h1>
I like Tong Nian's attitude towards work and feelings - "Work is work, you can't delay your work!" ”
No matter how uncomfortable your mood is, you should remember this sentence.
I remember that in "Strange Sayings", a teacher once said such a thing, to the effect that:
"There can be emotions in the workplace, but the boss must help you deal with your emotions after explaining your work, once." But next time, the boss may not want to help you solve this emotional problem anymore. ”
In the original book of "North and South", You Shanshan asked Bao Xue:
"What do you say women work hard for?"
Bao Xue did not answer.
Yu Shanshan asked herself and answered:
"It's to train the iron bones of Zheng Zheng, and not to call people Daddy!"
Mr. Lu Xun once said in his speech "What Happens After Nala Left":
"So for Nala," Qian ,—— said elegantly, that is, the economy, is the most important." Freedom is not something money can buy, but it can be sold for money. Human beings have a big disadvantage, that is, they are often hungry. In order to remedy this shortcoming, to prepare for the non-puppetry, economic rights are of the utmost importance in the present society. First, there should be an equal distribution of men and women at home; second, equal power should be gained in society. Unfortunately, I do not know how this authority will be obtained, but I know that there is still a battle to be fought; or perhaps more fiercely than to ask for political power. ”
Women, what kind of battle have we gone through to gain our current position in the workplace!
Now women's performance and voice in the workplace is unimaginable in Mr. Lu Xun's time! As the saying goes, "What you waste today is the tomorrow that yesterday's dead people hope for, and what you hate is now the future, and you can't go back to the past." ”
Never let a lost love affect your work, and as a girl you should do it!