Life is alive, but in just a few decades, it is hurried to come and go.
Some people are alive, although the body is awake, but life is in a state of deep sleep, all day long muddled, do not know why to live, resulting in often making some wrong decisions, accumulating small mistakes into big hate, thus regretting the rest of life.
A person who lives a thorough life will have these 4 awakenings.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="9" > First, do things in accordance with the time</h1>
Huang Shigong said in the Book of Plains:
So sneak up on the road and wait for the time. If the time comes, it can be extremely popular; if it is moved by chance, it can become a masterpiece. If they don't meet, they're just out of body.
This means that when the conditions are not right, you can keep the right path, be willing to lie dormant, and wait for the opportunity to come. Once the time comes, it is necessary to take action, so that you can make a contribution and be a great minister. If the encounter is not the right time, it is only indifferent to the end.
The first awakening of life: when you go to heaven, wait for the flowers to bloom.
Jiang Ziya was half cold, 70 years old and still achieved nothing, idle at home. His wife Ma Shi couldn't look at it, thinking that he didn't come out, the family was so poor, and he went out fishing every day.
Jiang Ziya persuaded her that I was a thousand-mile horse, but I had not met Bole for the time being. Don't worry, one day you will live a good life.
Where Ma Shi was willing to listen, he left Jiang Ziya without turning his head. Jiang Ziya saw that persuasion was useless, so he had to go with her.
Later, Jiang Ziya met King Wen, a very popular courtier, and went in and out of the photo, Ma Shi was ashamed and indignant after hearing about it, and regretted it, and the three-foot white Aya, ending the remnants.
If one compares one's ability to a boat, then timing is like a water flowing downstream, pushing the boat along the water to travel unimpeded. When the times are not good, you can meditate and cultivate, and when you come to run, you can go with the flow and live up to every opportunity to soar.
Just as the so-called "times create heroes", in the past and the present, which big man did not get a perfect situation after he had both moral integrity and ability, and knew how to move according to the times?
Mencius said, "Although there is wisdom, it is better to take advantage of the situation", according to the situation, grasp the opportunity, in order to shape the great achievements of life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="106" >2, stay healthy and loving</h1>
Everything has its own laws, spring birth, summer long, autumn harvest, winter hiding, sunrise and rest, in order to be able to as Zhuangzi said, "between heaven and earth and self-satisfaction." If you can't be strong and strong, just ignore all laws, then the most powerful force in the universe will definitely bring you punishment. Lao Tzu's words in the Tao Te Ching, "Man's Law, Earth's Law, Heaven's Law, Heaven's Tao, and Dao's Nature", is this truth.
The second awakening of life: good health, love of nature.
Modern people have complicated the simple life, pulling thick curtains in the summer, hiding in the air-conditioned house with a very low temperature; in the winter, the heating is fully turned on, and I don't know what "thousands of miles of ice, thousands of miles of snow drift" are; exercise, that is, to take dozens of elevators, to the gym to run; to eat, is to eat the sea plug, and then spend money to clear the valley. In the long run, how can the body be healthy?
If your soul has been dusting in the hustle and bustle of the city for a long time, you naturally can't see the beauty of "bright moon pine light, Qingquan stone upstream", you can't feel the leisurely nature of "people idle osmanthus flowers falling, night quiet spring mountain sky", can not integrate into the realm of "I see how feminine qingshan is, and the green mountains see me as I should be".
When the whole world is using addition, health needs to use subtraction, cut out the complexity, return to the basics, love nature, keep innocent, then everything depicted in these ancient poems will naturally come to you.
Ji Kang said, "Seeing Gui Hong, he waved five strings in his hand." Pitching and self-satisfied, wandering is too mysterious. When a person, when heaven and man are one and the road is simple, he will "look up at the greatness of heaven and earth, look down at the grandeur of categories, and look down at the final universe.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="107" > third, accompany parents in a timely manner</h1>
Long Yingtai said in the article "Seeing And Sending",
The so-called father-daughter mother-son relationship only means that your fate with him is that in this life and this life, you are constantly watching his back drift away.
When we were young, we watched our parents go to work, and when we were older, our parents watched us go to school, and now, our parents are watching us leave our homes. Where our parents can't see, we grow up rapidly, and our parents grow old in places we can't see.......
Gao Yalin said a very heartfelt sentence in "The Girl in My Family":
Parents are a wall between us and Death.
At first I didn't know what it meant, but I thought about it and felt deeply sad.
The third awakening of life: to accompany parents in time.
In ancient times, there was a filial piety named Han Boyu. When he made mistakes, his mother always taught him harshly and sometimes beat him with her hands.
When he grew up, his mother's lesson remained the same. Once when his mother beat him, he suddenly burst into tears.
The mother was surprised and asked him why he was crying. Han Boyu replied: "From childhood to adulthood, my mother beat me, and I felt very painful. But today my mother beat me, and I didn't feel any pain. This shows that my mother's health is getting worse and worse, and the time I have been serving my mother is getting shorter and shorter. Thinking about it, I can't help but feel sad. ”
Bi Shumin once wrote:
Parents are there, life still has a place to come; parents go, life is only the way home.
One day, when you come home and call out to your parents, there is no one to respond in the empty room. That's when I felt: what a blessing it is for someone to nag, someone to annoy us, and someone to scold us when we do something wrong.
If you've ever been on an all-night vigil in front of an ICU, if you've ever attended a funeral for a loved one, if you've ever felt the fragility of life in a disaster, you've been able to deeply appreciate the full meaning of your parents and home.
Don't love too late, just do something for your parents while it's too late.
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Ancients Cloud: People may not be exhausted, obedient only listen to three points.
What others say may not be entirely correct, but we must know how to discern. Even if others make sense, the only person who can really be responsible for you is yourself.
The cat told the dog, you don't have to take the tiger too seriously, it's just bigger than me. As a result, the tiger came, the cat climbed the tree very calmly, and the dog was fed by the tiger.
The swimmer said to the novice swimmer, I found a wild lake yesterday, the mountains and rivers are beautiful, birds and flowers, let's go swimming together, right? After entering the water, the swimmer swam so well that novice swimmers almost drowned.
The shepherd lay leisurely on the prairie, chatted with the woodcutter who had come to cut firewood from morning to night, and then drove home happily with the well-fed sheep. The woodcutter found nothing today and had to go home hungry and frozen.
The Fourth Awakening of Life: Listen to the words of others.
Junichi Watanabe said in the article "Blunt Sense",
Don't hear unpleasant words, like facing a great enemy, but think carefully about the reasons why the other party says so, and feel the other party's mood.
Be blunt about what's in front of you, and don't take everything to heart.
The blunt feeling of not wavering at trivial matters is the most important basic talent in people's lives.
Deeply. Life is to experience, to understand, to feel, to understand. Listen to what others say, and you have the right to choose yes or no.
I have the sea in my heart, and I don't have to rush to catch the tide.
Listen to your own heart and don't ask questions.
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