Why is it said that love should go in both directions? Because, the enthusiasm of only one party can not make love last long, even if it is barely married, it is only a sad story in the end.
Just like Jian Dadao and Liang Xiaoyan in "The Sea of Stars", they are originally people of two worlds, Liang Xiaoyan is a romantic talented woman, and Jian Dadao is a simple and simple little tailor, he does not understand her romance, nor does he understand the freedom in her mouth.
He was sincerely kind to her, so good that she was extremely good, however, she never appreciated it, perhaps, Liang Xiaoyan also felt that she owed a debt to Jian Guo, but that kind of debt could never make up for the fact that she did not love him.
Our life will face too many choices, such as marriage, perhaps, marriage can be wrong, but at the same time, there will be troubles, just like Liang Xiaoyan married Jane Dada because of the gratitude of the year, but gratitude and touching is not love after all, perhaps, it is such a mistake that caused the tragedy of their marriage.
Jian Dadao can be busy making clothes all night without sleep, even if he stays up all night, he will smile and make breakfast for his wife the next day, afraid that the eggs will not be fried well enough, and care about his wife's reaction.
However, Liang Xiaoyan did not love him, no matter how good he was to her and this family, the two words "not loving" sentenced him to death.
I once read a sentence by SuZen: "Both men and women always think that if there is no love in marriage, it will be very humiliating."
Perhaps, this should not be the reason for Liang Xiaoyan's derailment, but she really cheated, in the face of his wife's derailment, Jian Dada's humble kneeling, hysterically begging Liang Xiaoyan not to leave, even if the dignity of a man has long been completely abandoned at this time, however, she said: "This will only make me look down on you."
You see, humble love will only make itself into a joke, because the other party's love, your gentleness is wrong, crying is also wrong, your retention and cherishing, in the eyes of the other party is worthless, love can not be obtained through hard work, no love is not love.
We often say, "Sincerity is definitely a good thing, but infatuation is not", especially in a one-way love, in this era, too many couples have made marriage a tragedy, and most of the time between them is a mistake at the beginning.
Marriage without love is boring, perhaps, many people will think that there are many couples who will finish this life on the spot, yes, the word "will" has long explained everything.
Two people without a love foundation, two completely different people, sometimes, can not rely on the passage of time to complete the so-called run-in, will only grind out more contradictions.
Many people force together, just like Liang Xiaoyan and Jian Dada, unpredictable tragedies will occur, and many emotional entanglements are unwilling to be resolved by both sides, and the more they drag on, the more serious they are, and eventually an irreparable result occurs.
Love can not be forced in the slightest, the result of the demand will not only destroy the person they love, but also may destroy themselves, Jian Dadao and Liang Xiaoyan eventually ended in tragedy, making their daughter an orphan.
In the face of feelings, we should all understand that two inappropriate people can not go to the end after all, a person who does not belong to you can not be retained after all, even if you keep people, her heart will fly to the far side.
People who are together may be moved, but there will never be true love, which will only increase the troubles of the party that does not love, and will only make the humble party more and more humble, and even, in the end, it will be born of love and hate, so that the already unbalanced love will become more deformed.
In this life, people have to experience too many winds and rains and setbacks, and the emotional path is the same, so it is not necessary to see through the red dust because of a failure, and even to make extreme behaviors.
Just like sitting in the wrong direction of the car, you can also choose to get off the car, go back to the right one, love the wrong person can choose to let go, stop the loss in time, go and wait for the right person, everything can start over.
Always believe that there is a good side to the world, never let the occasional failure drown out your hope for the future, and bravely go to your own sea of stars.
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