Hello:
In fact, I look good, the family conditions are also very good, three sets of houses, a set of parents wrote my name, just wait for me to find a reliable boyfriend to get married as a marriage house, but also bought me a car, their requirements for me are: simple life, happiness and happiness.
But I have always been very principled in finding a boyfriend, if I must find a 985 or 211 master's degree, look handsome, work decently, family conditions do not require too much to be a burden at home.
But the two boyfriends who met the expectations of my parents in college have been pried away by other girls, causing me to lose confidence in love for a long time, so I closed myself for several years after work, and I always felt that even if I found it, I still had to be robbed halfway? And the better the boys, the more scared I am, thinking that they are half-hearted and have no sincerity.
So, this delay was delayed until the age of 28. My parents were anxious and gave me blind dates everywhere, but I didn't feel anything when I saw a few. I am in a bad mood and slowly like to stay up late, the work and rest time is irregular, so the frozen shoulder often recurs pain, in order to alleviate the pain, so I will go to a massage parlor for massage at both ends of the three days.
There is a massage technician who is particularly attentive to my service, every time it is very comfortable, and he will chat with me while pressing, everything to talk, including family conditions and their own emotional confusion, I did not hide, chatting and talking that we felt that we could talk about it, one after another, he openly pursued me, bought me gifts, invited me to dinner, and even arranged a tour to invite me to go with me.
Although my parents love me very much, but because I am an only child, so I was actually quite lonely from childhood to adulthood, plus I was injured in the love field, so the desire for love is also very strong, he gives me a very comfortable feeling, I don't need to dress in front of him, I can be myself, that is, I think he is good to me, and then I have skin kisses with him when I go out on a trip, and he also cares about my feelings in the process, and then some can't do without him.
But my parents were extremely opposed, thinking that he was not worthy of me for a massage, I had a stable job, I was an accountant in a state-owned enterprise, he did not work decently, and he was still rural, and there were two younger brothers in the family, and my parents felt that I had lost their face when I found such a man. I had a big fight with my parents over this, and then packed up a few clothes and moved them to his rental house.
But not long after the days of cohabitation, I found that he had an affair with other female customers, and I quarreled with him, saying that he was only trying to make more money for the customer's return rate, and asked for forgiveness, bought gifts to coax me, and asked me to believe him. What do you say I do next? (Allow disclosure)
Reply:
Does this still need to be said? A relentless massage male technician, what is worth making such a difficult choice? As for this non-emotional sexual relationship, you beautify it, purely as an outlet for his animalistic nature in you.
Don't forget, the male technician has a sweet mouth, that is his survival instinct.
The reason why he is attentive to you is not because he loves you, but because his profession is to do a good job in service, to make guests satisfied, he gives you a little more comfort, but it is just his motivation to earn money, but you mistakenly regard his service as love.
It comes down to the fact that you are too empty and too loveless inside, so you will treat business behavior as love.
To put it bluntly, we usually go to the barber shop to wash our hair and cut our hair, are the little fresh meats that wash our hair as attentive? The sister is long and the sister is short, and when it is finished, she will pinch your shoulders and serve you so much that you don't want to move your ass.
But later they will enthusiastically tell you, get a membership card, buy a set of this and that care products... No matter what kind of service he paid, in the end he would think of getting it back.
The male technician buys you some small gifts to take you on a tour, nothing more than saving the heart of buying lottery tickets and hitting the big luck: if you don't get it right, you will soak up an only daughter in the city with a car and a house, maybe you can still marry home as a wife, and immediately achieve a class leap for twenty years!
And you are stupid enough to tell him and everything, as long as there is a possibility, why doesn't he give it a fight? Ren Youzai, who is a security guard, can still marry the three-star princess Li Fuzhen, and finally divorce and get a large compensation?
So, don't be touched by these little gifts. Every penny he spends on you will be made up even more in the future.
Seeing that you are about to break up with your parents, he is about to finish, but at this time he will not even pretend to love you, and you still have to mess with others while you are asleep, which shows that this man is just treating you as a fool and sweet, thinking that you can't fly out of his palm no matter what.
Your parents oppose me and fully approve of it, if you marry him and have a child, then you will not only have to lose the house and the car, but also continue to lose the ticket, and when you wake up, you can't solve it if you want to solve it.
The reason why you still can't see clearly at this time is that your parents have protected you too well and have not been really beaten by society.
Parents love their children, but also really have reservations, do not think that all of her wrapped up she can live a life according to your expectations, in fact, the more economically round, the more will let her go astray, and finally only know to covet a little unreliable love and love, do not understand the hardships of life, but also do not know how to consider the reality of survival.
Many people can't figure out why the heroine will look at such a man?
In fact, it is very easy to understand: a woman in the circle she is in in the short term, did not meet the matching opposite sex, if she can not stand loneliness, it is easy to fall into the situation of "downgrading".
In particular, this kind of cross-layer interaction can bring her a very good sense of self (thinking that she is superior to the other party in all aspects, and the other party is willing to kneel and lick herself), thus creating a sense of superiority to make up for this emptiness and loss in her heart.
Therefore, the reason why flowers are always inserted on cow dung is that many times it is also because the flowers feel the fragrance of cow dung.