After the Spring Festival is the Year of the Ox, our Spring Festival is calculated according to the Chinese lunar calendar, compared to the first day of January in the solar calendar, Chinese prefer the Lunar New Year to celebrate the New Year, such as the Dragon Boat Festival, Qingming and other statutory holidays are also in accordance with the period of the lunar calendar.
In which year, the baby born belongs to what, attaching the animal with auspicious meaning to the human body, which is also a traditional custom unique to Chinese, and many parents will calculate their favorite genus to give birth to the baby.
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Lulu and her husband got married after graduation, the couple paid attention to the hard work of the cause after marriage, and did not care much about giving birth to a child, but Lulu was 30 immediately, and if she did not give birth to a baby, she was about to enter the ranks of elderly mothers, coupled with the birth of the elders, the two began to prepare for pregnancy.
The mother-in-law has been anxious to hold her grandson, she saw that her daughter-in-law agreed, and began to be anxious at the beginning of the year. Lulu said: "I don't want to have a baby rat, I think it's better to have a child is a cow, and I want to have a baby in the second half of the year." The mother-in-law smiled: "I didn't expect that you young people still pay attention to this." ”
Since she has promised to have a baby, the mother-in-law is not in a hurry, she wants to give Lulu a good pregnancy environment, so that she is not so nervous, otherwise it is not easy to conceive. Lulu is preparing for pregnancy in the second half of the Year of the Rat, and everything is going well, just waiting for the birth of a baby cow next spring.
Cattle for China's farming civilization is very important existence, cattle give people the impression of patience, hard work, Lulu may choose to give birth to cow babies the reason may be that she thinks that the cow babies do things with perseverance, such patience in the future will be better than other children.
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Traditional Chinese beliefs also represent the child's character and future development to a certain extent.
Babies who belong to cattle, with perseverance and patience, are more likely to succeed
Although the baby of the cow will be a little reticent, they are often very patient, willing to work silently for their goals, and it is easier to succeed in their careers in the future.
Dragon babies, intelligent and courageous
Children of the dragon are often like dragons, symbols of noble integrity, they are more intelligent, usually full of vitality and vitality. The ideals of children belonging to dragons are often very noble, and their vision may be broader than ordinary people.
Pig babies, kind and sincere
Baby pigs are more emotional, and very simple, whether it is to treat friendship or love, baby pigs are very sincere, very generous, will never betray their friends. Baby pigs are very smart and have a lot of experience in dealing with family planning.
Baby monkeys, witty and creative
This genus of babies, like monkeys, their brains tend to spin fast and their memory is also very good. When encountering difficulties, they are very stubborn, and this spirit of never accepting defeat will make the baby monkey bravely move forward until victory.
A baby who is a dog, works seriously and has a sense of responsibility
The baby of the dog genus has a more upright personality, is very responsible, and if assigned to the dog baby work, they will do it with all their strength. In terms of personality, he is very honest and friendly, and there will be many friends in life.
Each of the children of the genus seems to acquiesce to the commonality of their own personalities, which is not completely unsubstantiated by science, which is actually a "label effect".
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The label effect is an important concept in social psychology, which manages the impression of others by defining an abstract evaluation of others. In the process, the labeled person unconsciously develops toward the abstract concept they are labeled.
For example, when a child is reluctant to talk to a stranger, parents will "maintain" their own face, saying: "This child is more introverted and less talkative." When children hear their parents mark themselves in this way, they will assume that they are "introverted" children, and slowly they really don't like to talk.
So when it is generally recognized that a certain genus represents a certain character, the child unconsciously develops in that direction. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they try to avoid attaching "negative labels" so as not to give their children negative psychological hints and make him feel that he has defects in his personality.
American psychologists have proposed: "Once people are labeled with a certain label, they become the people who are labeled by the label." ”
The label effect has advantages and disadvantages, and positive labels have a self-suggestive effect on the growth of children. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, often encourage children to "you are awesome", "hands-on ability is really strong", etc., to give children a positive psychological cue, will play an encouraging role in children.
The statement that the child will be "better" in the future is indeed well-founded, and the education is not only a higher requirement for the child, but also a "compulsory course" for parents' life.