01
Find that reading more is really useful.
I have seen a question on Zhihu: "What is the most unprofitable person you have ever seen?" ”
The first answer to the thumbs up is:
"The least motivated people I've ever met, who are anxious about the status quo and don't have the fortitude to make a determination to change themselves. Three minutes of heat, often hate their own indisputable anger, insist on the most things is not able to stick to it. They are buried in the crowd in the most ordinary capacity, but they live the most miserable days. ”
Reading is never useless, even if it doesn't work now.
"The purpose of reading is not to achieve much, but to give you an inner strength when you are beaten back to your original form by life and plunged into a quagmire."
The more you read, the more you understand that there are laws behind everything in this world, and the mentality of treating many things is peaceful and accessible.
In fact, people are lonely in this life.
Only books can enrich your spiritual world and accompany you through the long years.
02
When you understand the lows, you need to swallow the complaint and swallow the grievance.
As Sanmao said:
"People and things in the world come and go, and we just need to cultivate ourselves to the best of their ability and wait quietly."
In the face of life's critical attack, do not complain, try to bear.
We must learn to be a quiet adult, adjust your emotions well, put aside your grievances, have hope, live calmly, and live hard.
The bottom of a person's fall is often the starting point of his success.
Many times there is no way back, there will be a way out.
Only in the darkest place can one see where the real light is.
03
Understand that all the flukes are actually secretly marked with prices.
Take a chance, take a shortcut, and even if you succeed for a while, you will eventually pay the price.
Because all the flukes are like a big gamble that takes itself as a bet.
The difference is that the game often ends in failure.
Those things that are lucky enough to get will eventually make us pay a corresponding price one day in the future.
In life, only by letting go of luck and being down-to-earth can we harvest success and happiness.
04
With self-knowledge, it's not too late.
During the Xia Dynasty, the princes had the Hu clan to lead the invasion, and Bo Qi was ordered to lead the army against the enemy, but he did not expect to end up defeated in the end.
Bo Qi's subordinates were not reconciled and asked for another battle.
Bo Qi disagreed, saying:
I have more soldiers than him, better equipped than him, and it seems that I am strong and weak, but I still suffer defeat. This must show that our training and management are insufficient, and it is useless to fight again. From today onwards, we must strengthen military training, ask strategic military divisions, improve their hard ability, and then fight again.
Just as the so-called "the beginning of the knowledge", the root of the entanglement of things, we must first look at ourselves from the introverted, the way to defeat setbacks, is to constantly introspect to understand their own shortcomings, and then to improve and correct.
Self-knowledge, contentment and choice of action, knowledge of deficiencies and improvement.
Only when the direction is right, can we work harder and get luckier.
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"Everyone has a period of awakening, but the awakening determines the fate of the individual sooner or later."
The silkworm pupae awakens into a butterfly, and the carp awakens into a peng.
The awakening of adults makes us more able to grasp opportunities and achieve dreams in life.