01.
The things of feelings are always the most worrying, once those temptations that want to refuse to return, those sweet companionship, those bits and pieces of romance...
Also, the clip that I couldn't forget after the breakup.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said:
I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what can create more regrets is love.
There are so many people in the world, but he is the only one who rubs shoulders with you.
Rub shoulders with so many people, but he is the only one who has entered your heart.
I always think that I can empty my memory, forget all the past, but inadvertently I will remember what I said, the road I walked, the bridge I passed, the food I ate...
I always don't want to mention it again, but I secretly ask myself: Is he doing well now? Is there already a new beginning? Have you forgotten yourself? Do you want to contact him again?
Tangled, or tangled.
Just like two people in parallel worlds, there is no moment of intersection, and they are lonely from then on, but they are itchy.
However, as far as the eye can see, the lights in the city are dimmed and people are coming and going.
How many fates are gathered and scattered, how many stories of joy and sorrow are happening.
There are always some people, in the encounter, there are always people, in the separation.
There are always some people who will no longer dwell on the sorrows and joys that were once there, those who conceal them, and hide them deep in their hearts.
What else do you have to tangle with?
02.
Everyone in love longs for the favor of the lover.
But favoritism requires two people to achieve each other and give to each other.
He loves you, naturally he wants to give it to you, he doesn't love you, and everything becomes a luxury.
In love, there are always people who value commitment more than the sky, because commitment makes people feel at ease and makes people look forward to it.
But I don't know, the oath of the mountain alliance and the sea is often only a moment, once that moment has passed, at the time of parting, everything has become a joke.
For exs, some people complain, some people are angry, some people miss it, some people regret it...
People who regret it are because they did not cherish the efforts of others, and they regretted their selfishness and hurt the people they once loved.
How many people miss in their hearts, longing to go back to the past, and then time can not return, days can not be repeated.
There are always people who understand these truths too late, thinking that the future time is infinite, and everything can go back to the past.
But time will only heal your wounds, witness your growth, and make you a better person, but you will never return to that person.
03.
There is a saying that goes well: people are best when they first met.
Just like the poem: If life is only like the first meeting, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fan.
Those who are thrilled, those who are eager to try, are like opening a new book, wanting to find out, and then turning page by page, studying word by word, until one day, tired of reading, so they throw it in a small corner.
Freshness is a problem that everyone cannot escape.
But love is never simply the word "fresh".
There are always people who say: There is cause and effect in the world, and it is your fate that you cannot escape.
But as you walk, you'll find that the more you like it, the lower the hit rate.
And in the vague, people you think are not important, after letting go, but it is the most important for you to worry about your stomach, unforgettable.
In this life, people who can't get it, can't forget the love, every stranger who is most familiar with it, it seems to give you an emotional lesson.
So, learned, just go forward, don't stop, get stuck in the past, there must be a better scenery ahead.
A relationship requires a deep affection.
But the regrets that cannot be recovered, the people who cannot be retained, why do you suffer until you die?
04.
There is always a deep affection, you no longer bother;
There is always a miss, and you no longer contact.
Those who leave are passers-by on the road of life.
There's always a song that you listen to late at night, and there's always someone whose name is now "Friend."
There is always a love that makes you work hard to achieve yourself, and there is always a light that illuminates the dark places in your heart.
The more people grow, the more they understand that the prince who cinderella in the fairy tale met is also a fierce character, and in order to achieve his love, he does not hesitate to hurt others.
A hard-won love will not end perfectly because you have gone through hardships.
So, lost, survived, just fine, maybe you will be glad, fortunately, never failed to live up to yourself.
Time will dilute everything, and the fragments of once loved him will be turned into inner calmness and leave like the wind.
05.
Are those old yellowed photos that you still can't bear to throw away?
Is it, late at night on the street, you are still wandering alone and refusing to leave?
Are you still drunk alone in a noisy bar?
Love does not make you have no way to retreat, but why do you still shed that unworthy tear?
You always say that you have forgotten, silently, do not want to mention, but in your heart you are clinging to that loneliness.
For example, if you forget to add sugar when you drink coffee, you don't cry bitterness.
Love, really isn't.
If you have loved, you are worth it.
If you can't put it down, then be generous and don't put it down, one day, there will be a person who will come to you and bring you a new surprise.
Those expectations of the future, will find a suitable person to enter the marriage and live without him one day in the future.
You have to believe: love is never a kiss on the street, but a white head.
After surviving the freshness and returning to the plain, it is truly worth cherishing and reminiscing.
Years are the most affectionate and will tell you what it means: mutual fulfillment.
Text: The Calm Fox
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