Do you want your child's life to be complicated later on? The movie "Wuhai" is a childish analysis of a southern mother

Today I saw an article about a newly released movie "Wuhai", directed by Zhou Ziyang. I first heard about these guys and movies. This movie should be filmed well, the director is also very talented, about a harmonious couple, because of the economic deterioration, wife and ex-boyfriend exchanges and other misunderstandings, resulting in the deterioration of the relationship between husband and wife, the male protagonist's psychological state interpretation is very profound, it is estimated that it will be very memorable to watch, the impact is very strong.

It may be that I have always loved the habit of paying attention to the growth of children, and I thought of raising children again. After reading the article, I was thinking, this male protagonist is also hard enough, why should he experience those risky lives and investments? Make your life difficult? I am also thinking, how did this director Zhou Ziyang grow up, why would he dream of some of his film themes, even after experiencing all kinds of hardships and hardships, he had to insist on making it? I'd rather get a penny on myself, live by the toilet, and rack my brains to think of so many plots, plots, and make my family suffer with difficulties... In our southern side, it is really too much to toss, tired and panicked, who is a parent to watch their son so toss life, the heart is not uncomfortable?

Although I also understand that it is a rare thing to realize my dreams, the success of Zhou Ziyang's film is a good thing and a blessing for the audience, however, if from the perspective of his parents, from the perspective of our parents in the south, we can not bear the child's toss life so much...

Just like a colleague of mine once said: how people in our company are like children, they are all married and have children, and everything is so simple, childish, and funny, I feel that our small company is a group of children running.

Indeed, we go to work every day, leave work, receive wages, bring babies, cook, play in the park on weekends, play by the sea every year, go to work every day, take orders, schedule production, production, ship, deal with quality problems, make reports, year-end awards, and a year has passed... What's the good thing to toss?

Why are the characters in the movie, or similar to director Zhou Ziyang, or other stars, directors, they have so many minds, brains, and energy, they can toss so many people, make a big project, or a few extramarital relationships, several cheats, several divorces and other major events, are very energy-consuming and labor-consuming things... It's all a matter of making parents worry...

Is this the difference between Southerners and Northerners? Or is it the difference between people with simple brains and people with developed brains and emotional intelligence? Or is it that Southerners lack a true self? What high degree of life dreams and sense of meaning in life have not been stimulated? People on our side only pay attention to which company is better to work in every day, how much salary to receive, what to eat tonight, which food stall is delicious, which seafood is delicious, where to go on weekends, unhappy...

Some people want to say that such a life is not interesting, like boiling water, and now I can understand it.

I feel that the people around me have less energy to toss complex interpersonal relationships, less involve themselves in a complex matter, less initiative to create a complex event or project, and rarely do such a leader with a huge idea...

I used to be a toss-up person, and I thought I could do something big and achieve some dreams. From the perspective of human nature, perhaps those who have passion toss are the ones who have truly released themselves, and they are people who deserve praise. However, from the perspective of parenting, I feel that the child is too tossed, and the parents suffer too much.

In the past few years, the process of getting married, having children, handling family relations, and parent-child relationships has made me feel that in fact, I don't have to lose my dreams, I don't say that I am numb to life, I feel that I understand life better. For me with ordinary ability, I can handle family relations, support family development, grow up healthily, and have a good job, which is a very meaningful life.

I was thinking about how I could add icing on the cake and realize my dreams when my life was still good, my family was not hurt, and my parents were not too worried, and I could have the best life at that time... I hope my kids don't dream so much, just a little bit... The big coffee wants to say that I have lived myself into a role that lacks self in the movie, as a mother, I think so, just drop [laugh and cry]

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