In this fashionable, youthful, spiritual and implicit networked festival, classic digital fables such as "520 (521) 1314 I love you (I will) a lifetime" have become a festival that young people are familiar with and are both ordinary and different.
Although this is more used in the marketing method of merchant profit under the cultivation of consumer thinking, it has to be said that it adds a bit of colorful color to daily life. Although it is not a traditional festival, it is only a newly created network festival, but it is undoubtedly a positive and optimistic good thing for today's fast-paced urban life and work. Since there is a good meaning, it is even more important to have good actions! But this action is definitely not limited, not only, or even completely not to send a few WeChat circle of friends, everywhere to compete who gets the big red envelope, more senseless is the Internet to post all kinds of hotels full, condoms sold out and so on. Wouldn't it be very superficial and vulgar to treat it like this?
First of all, whether it is the festival created at the moment or the customs inherited from tradition, the meaning of any festival is definitely a good reminder, reminding us that every day of life should be cherished, do not forget the original heart, and live in timely reflection in a variety of colorful, but also respect heaven and love. Therefore, in this day defined by "love", it is even more important to know that in ordinary times, you must also inject love beliefs and actions into your loved ones every day. Living up to today is the most meaningful lifetime.
Secondly, since we talk about "love", we should not only love others, but also love ourselves. How can a person who does not know how to love himself talk about loving others with better states and abilities? So love yourself starts from the festival of revelation, knows how to take care of your life in a healthy way, disciplines your learning with an upward attitude, and devotes yourself to your work in a positive state. When a person arranges life, study, and work properly, it is also right and appropriate to believe that the way he loves others is also appropriate.
Then, with the foundation of loving people and loving themselves, we should know how to love the world and love all things. In the "Spring and Autumn of the Lü Dynasty", it is recorded that a person in the ancient Chu state lost a bow and arrow in his own country, and the loser was unwilling to find it. When the king of Chu knew about it, he sighed and said: If the Chu people lose their bows, the Chu people will gain it. Confucius knew this and said: If a man loses his bow, he will gain a bow. When Lao Tzu found out, he said, "If you lose your bow, you will get your bow." Some people commented that the king of Chu had to be domineering, Confucius had humanity, and Lao Tzu had the way of heaven. And although Lao Tzu means that loss is gain, let alone people picking it up, even if the wolf picks it up, isn't it good? In the bodies of King Chu, Confucius, and Lao Tzu, they embody the difference in thinking of loving oneself, loving the world, and loving all things. Although the king of Chu said: Chu people have it, but after all, they are their own people, or full of the heart of hegemony and land enclosure; and Confucius loves the world, everyone can get it; even Lao Tzu's pattern is that outside of heaven and man, all things are integrated, and they have never been lost.
Seeing the gap in love, I think you are eager to uphold the "love" of a lifetime, love yourself, love people, love the world, and let the world be full of love because of you. (Collation: Xiao Yan, Secretariat of Gong Xianju; Interviewee: Shao Changhua; Picture: Gong Xianju; Diary of Gong Xingyi 352, 20210520)