In the drama "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an", the coolest and most handsome woman is the fish intestine. Handsome and exquisite face, eyes firm and deep, quite like the heroine Trinity in "The Matrix", you can use a pose as a poster model.
She and Long Bo are paired, a beautiful pair, quite exotic, adding a bit of Persian mystery to the whole play. But such a pair of men and women, more like the dragon brother leopard sister, the leopard sister is not the dragon ball contained in the mouth of the dragon brother, the leopard sister is just a tool of the dragon brother, a good sword.
The fish intestine sword is one of the ten famous swords in ancient China, and legend has it that this sword is small and exquisite and can be hidden in the belly of the fish. This sword is famous for being used by King Wu to assassinate his cousin Wang Yi.
In the play, Long Bo is a mysterious figure who arranges three hundred barrels of fire thunder and is employed by people to destroy Chang'an City. The fish intestine girl's kung fu is very deep, and it is not far away from Long Bo at any time. She actually didn't have any faith, she just loved Longbo, but the more she longed for Longbo's love, the more indifferent the other party was.
Fish intestines are actually a very good woman, to look good, to have temperament, to have martial arts and martial arts, why bother with not getting love?
There are two reasons for this. One of them is fish intestines herself compared to the role of chaos. Long Bo is her head, and Fish Gut is loyal to him, but he also has secret feelings for him, so this relationship is more pulling. The fish intestines wanted to deliver Qiu Bo, so that the temperament, but often did not get the corresponding, and was always pinched by Long Bo's throat and could not speak.
There was no equal relationship between Long Bo and Fish Gut. Long Bo is a kind of cold man, quite perverted, likes to tease the fish intestine, and does not respect the fish intestine, the fish intestine is still willing to eat, making himself very cheap.
If Yu Gu only regards Long Bo as a leader, it is enough to be a useful subordinate, what to do, and it will not be so emotionally unstable, and it will not accept Long Bo to use other people, or to be close to other women.
In the same drama, the relationship between Tanqi and Li Sicheng is relatively refreshing. Tanqi has a crush on Li Sicheng and is also loyal to this boss, but several times the eyes are relatively unresponsive, and the other party is firm, so she puts down her expectations and does her job with peace of mind, and does not limit herself to a "love". The overall situation is important, but she has a calm and wise mind, and her boss also trusts and appreciates and respects her.
Another cause is that the fish intestine binds itself to a sentence. Long Bo said, I just need useful people. Fish intestines vowed to be the most useful person for each other, willing to fight for his life, willing to do their best for love, very touching, but fish intestines lost herself.
She can't see her own beauty and excellence, and she completely pins her sense of self-worth and happiness on a man's body, her heart is narrow and bound, in a sense, she only lives herself as a slave.
The more you give unreservedly to a man, the more you sacrifice, the more you give, the less the other party values you.
She didn't really want to kill people, but she thought that she could be as cruel as Long Bo, become his shadow, and achieve his goals in life for him, so that she could win his love, she lost herself and sold her soul for love.
In intimate relationships, if they do not respect each other and treat each other as equals, such a relationship is a kind of dependence and control, even betrayal and exploitation, and such a relationship is distorted. If you can't find yourself in the relationship, then ask what is the original intention of love?
In fact, the love of the fish intestine is selfish, because she wants to be the only one of Long Bo, longing to monopolize each other, the eyes can not tolerate other women, the sky fell a smelling sister, Long Bo took good care of her, and the fish intestine was jealous and looked for an opportunity to kill her.
Such a woman is very sad and terrible, the sad thing is that she ignores love, even if the other party is a demon, treat her as a ghost; the terrible thing is that she has no bottom line for love.
Paranoid love will blind a woman's eyes, so that she can't see the naughtiness of the other party, and it is stupid not to see her own efforts. Such a woman lacks the love in her heart, and such a woman lacks self-esteem, self-love and independence.
Why can't a woman be complete without a man? Why do women have to be useful people in order to get love and recognition? The psychological logic behind this is inferiority.
The more you care about whether the other person loves you or not, the less confident you are, which will only make the other party look down on you more and more. You only have to believe that you are self-sufficient, to be your own master, and your natural charm is unstoppable.
A woman who is obsessed with love only wants to see her own beauty in the eyes of her lover, but she does not know that in addition to him, the world can also see her own excellence in the eyes of others.
To be a useful person, to be a useful person to society and the country, so that you will not limit yourself to a small role and define your own value by the judgment of the other party.
If a man only gives you love because he can use you, is such love true love? If you lose yourself for love, you feel more inferiority, powerlessness, and insecurity in your intimate relationships.
Some people say that Long Bo later risked saving the fish intestine, which is as it should be, after all, the fish intestine was ordered to perform a mission before being captured alive. Long Bo is the leader, and if he does not lead a group of men to save the fish intestines, then these brothers who are fighting for his life will no longer be willing to fight for him, because they know that the fate of the fish intestines is their own fate. So, don't confuse this with love.
In the relationship between the sexes, it should always be two independent people, each with its own strengths, each with its own shortcomings, tolerating each other, appreciating each other, and growing up with each other, in order to experience the nourishment of love and the tacit understanding of the heart in such a relationship.