After the broadcast of "Mountain and River Order", more and more people opened archaeological work for Xiao Zhe, and the more archaeology, they found that this was really a treasure boy. Lively, kind, tolerant, stalker, and funny. Good popularity is really enviable, especially in this entertainment circle full of false and vicious snakes, can be sincere, get a lot of praise, absolutely excellent character.
From this I think of a passage that a friend said to me: Whether it is a friend, work or love, if you feel a special fit with the other party, a pleasant communication, or even a flash of inspiration from time to time, do you know what this means?
One possibility is that you have met your own Soulmate, which is the true destiny, with a probability of 1%.
Another possibility is that you meet someone whose experience, IQ, and emotional intelligence are above you, and the other party is only backward compatible for some purpose, with a probability of 99%.
What's even more heartbreaking is that as long as he wants, he can have a spirit and a sharp mind with everyone who is at the same level as you.
Isn't there a feeling of enlightenment? In the taste of time program, Xiao Zhe and his Fa Xiao can get along so happily, in addition to the friendship of growing up together, when customizing shoes, you can see in each other's hearts, the cherishing of this friendship, of course, this kind of affection is two-way, so it makes people more envious.
In the two competitive variety shows of "China-Korea Dream Team" and "The Amazing Race", it can better reflect his heart-warming moments of downward compatibility. Remember a scene very clearly, Xiao Zhe and bun double badminton out of the game, South Korea two opponents level, let people do not recognize the watch, bun is a particularly serious state of the game, Xiao Zhe has been letting the bun secretly release water, do not let the game scene is too ugly, but also want to use fancy play, so that the game becomes more beautiful. This is actually a point that is not easy to perceive, but it feels particularly intimate. Will consider the face of others, give others decent. In "The Amazing Race", there is a javelin throwing link, Xiao Zhe partner Zhang Sifan, tried many times have failed, Xiao Zhe is very strong in his heart, but he can't put too much pressure on Si Fan, just give him to correct the action over and over again. After successfully passing the pass, he also praised Sifan as a mental bearer and modestly said that he was a physical bearer.
What is high EQ, high-segment, and backward compatibility? In fact, to put it bluntly, to see through the shortcomings of others without saying broken, to know more than others without boasting, is a kind of pretense. Know how to pretend to be confused on the right occasion, is a high-ranking person. The so-called ability to talk is not only to know how to speak well, but also to know when not to speak. Really powerful people know how to be backward compatible, see through without saying broken, save the face of others, do not embarrass others, do not shake their wit, and do not show themselves. Know how to listen more, criticize less, and leave the sense of superiority to others, is the real high-ranking person.
After Xiao Zhe injured his leg, he obviously felt that the whole person had settled down, and every time he listened to him, it was particularly interesting, full of a sense of wisdom in life, rather than a superficial, empty and empty rhetoric.
Today, I saw someone singing a good hot search, and I instantly felt funny. The level is good, everyone has seen it, why should it be self-elevating, hyping it in the atmosphere, just adding jokes.
Speaking of the concert in the "Mountain and River Order", if it is not Xiao Zhe's downward compatibility, Gu Quan face, many times down K, someone's flat and broken voice, do not know how many audiences to scare away, there is actually a face of a hot search to help Xiao Zhe find a tune, the big fool in the world, have forgotten the original commission. The face given by Xiao Zhe is not for you to ride the face, but the dignity of taking into account the overall situation. Unfortunately, someone doesn't understand and is complacent.
Of course, not everyone has the ability to be backward compatible. After all, not everyone can become a sports all-rounder, literary drama into the heart, martial arts neat, moving eyes, slow song lyricism, red song agitation, strong song and dance, Su sense full of Xiao Zhe, is a unique Xiao Zhe.
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