No matter how close the relationship between the opposite sex, everyone will know how to maintain the necessary measure and know how to observe the necessary distance.
This is because each of us knows in our hearts that there is a difference between men and women, and once some things cross the line, then the relationship will gradually become sour.
As the saying goes:
"Between men and women, all abnormal enthusiasm, abnormal intimacy, is a deliberate ambiguity."
In daily life, if the opposite sex always shares these three things, then the normal distance has been broken, and it is difficult for two people to maintain a pure friendship relationship.
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Ancient Cloud:
"If you want to pay your heart to Yaoqin, you know little, and who listens to the broken strings."
In this world, although each of us will meet a lot of people, there are a lot of friends brothers.
But very few people can pour out all their thoughts, or they can't say it to their brothers, or they are not suitable to say it to their friends.
And only to the other half, to the person we like, we will take the initiative to open our hearts.
In the TV series "Good Life", Hosia has always had a heart buried in her heart and unwilling to confide in anyone.
That was his father's business.
In front of outsiders, he is always very strong, even if it is the closest brother, the most trusted partner, he has never said a word.
Only Wu You is the exception.
He Xia was able to hide the sorrow in his heart, the secret hidden in his heart, and take the initiative to talk to Wu You.
In fact, in all our relationships, there will always be relatives and distances.
And the heart can only be said to people who are very important to themselves and who they trust and care very much.
Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"We're all lonely until we meet someone else and let us know that life can be less lonely."
If in the opposite sex relationship, he will tell you anything he has in mind, and you are willing to share it with him.
Then it can only show that each other's hearts no longer regard each other as outsiders, and such a relationship will become closer and closer, and eventually enter each other's lives.
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Born in the secular world, money, for everyone, is particularly important.
We don't, for no reason, share our money with others, even if they're our best friends.
The opposite sex gets along, if two people don't care about each other spending their own money, or even willingly give money to each other to spend.
Well, it can only show that the relationship between two people has gone beyond simple friendship.
Friend Xiaoyu is a person who is particularly stingy in money, even to the extent of slamming the door.
With people, he can always calculate carefully, even a few dollars will be clear, in his words:
"Brothers, you must also settle the account."
But then a female colleague came to his company, and he suddenly became generous.
Buy food for girls, invite girls to watch movies... He paid all the money, but he never settled the account with the girl afterwards.
And the girl, for Xiaoyu's efforts, also accepted with peace of mind.
We often say that giving is a man's way of expressing love; accepting is a sign that a girl acknowledges love.
In this way, after less than two months together, Xiaoyu and the girl came together and became boyfriend and girlfriend.
Tu Lei once said:
"Money is not the only test of true love, but it can measure the depth of affection between each other."
Between the opposite sex, if two people have reached the point where they can share money, then it can only mean that the relationship between the two people is no longer separated from each other.
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If the opposite sex gets along, if they do not have a good feeling for each other, then they will avoid physical contact, even if it is indirect contact.
Like cutlery, straws, what the other person has eaten... Basically, it won't be shared.
Because, once these items can be shared, it can only mean that both people are looking forward to a further relationship.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", Xu Huanshan and Lin Youyou were originally just a very ordinary superior-subordinate relationship.
However, sometimes, people's self-control is really poor, especially for the opposite sex that they do not dislike.
There is such a plot in the play.
Lin Youyou bought two ice creams and one for Xu Huanshan, but just when eating ice cream, Lin Youyou deliberately went to bite into Xu Huanshan's ice cream.
In this regard, Xu Huanshan not only did not say anything, but ate The ice cream that Lin You had bitten and enjoyed it.
There is a saying:
"Only for lovers can you share the food you touched, the cutlery you used, your personal belongings..."
It is true that between men and women, no matter how good friends, there are always boundaries that must be maintained, and it is always impossible to cross the measure that must be grasped.
If two people get along, they can share personal belongings without scruples, then although it seems to be only indirect physical contact.
But the fact that two people want to be ambiguous in their hearts is self-evident.
If the opposite sex gets along, if you always share the above three items, then it is obvious that you have crossed the boundaries of friends.
If neither of them has another half, then this sharing is sweet, it is warm, and it is the beginning of a beautiful love.
But if both people already have a family, then this sharing is a poison and must be resolutely avoided.
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Author: A writer who likes to express his personal views in words and focuses on the field of emotion.